This is a forewarning to all single career women who are so desperate for marriage that they pick jobless men,thinking they would successfully turn them around.
Sister no matter how hard you try,if he's lazy,he will remain lazy.The most annoying thing about lazy men is that they are extremely sexually active and because they don't have money to spend on better women they settle for cheap sex from their house girls or their neighbour's.
A family friend's wife just left with their 4 kids.I knew he had impregnated their house help,friends rallied round to see that they didn't break up.they made up and even had one more child while she sought for transfer and moved to the state capital to start life afresh.she started like 3 business ventures for him and all folded.his latest mischief is to start dating one of his employees,who practically moved in when his wife moved out.
Now,I know she can comfortably take care of 4 children after all she had always been the bread winner but how will she cope?? My heart goes out to her and countless women out there who had found themselves in such situations.

So?

wow

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Are you a babe or the man in question?

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austine4real:
I want to b ur babe

Oga mi,application too late...

Chidoks:

Oga mi,application too late...

ki lo mean?

What do u mean?

OP ur preaching a good word madam

Ladies marry a guy u can live with in all respects. Assume he's never gonna change, can u live with him like that for the next 70 years?

It is a 50-50 thing as i know some persons that this arrangement has worked for.

Hmm. There's a diff between lazy joblessness, hardworking but unfruitful joblessness and spiritual cause joblessness.
Depends on which u pick

okirewaju:
It is a 50-50 thing as i know some persons that this arrangement has worked for.

Well good for them.it didn't work out for this one I know.50-50?then the risk is high.

enieme:
Hmm. There's a diff between lazy joblessness, hardworking but unfruitful joblessness and spiritual cause joblessness.
Depends on which u pick

Abeg define those three types of joblessness, mbok.

Chidoks:


Well good for them.it didn't work out for this one I know.50-50?then the risk is high.

Too bad

Yes it is risky indeed

Good advice also guys stay away from lazy long throat jobless ladies

okirewaju:
Too bad

Yes it is risky indeed

Yeah it was so ugly but the poor lady forgave even after hubby and house help assaulted her.Now this... I hope she heals well and on time too.

How about hardworking men that loose everything then hit midlife crisis then give up completely

sleekdot:
Good advice also guys stay away from lazy long throat jobless ladies

Yeah it applies to both gender but lazy men are more difficult to manage. The worst a lazy woman would do is to be extravagant and gossipy but lazy man?? He hops from one classless woman to another.

Miami11:
How about hardworking men that loose everything then hit midlife crisis then give up completely

Every problem/challenge has a root(cause)in this case determining the root of the loss is paramount. But our guy here only speaks good English round town and gets down with any babe that is willing for free(or grammar)

A career and desperation for marriage are mutually exclusive.

Chidoks:


Yeah it applies to both gender but lazy men are more difficult to manage. The worst a lazy woman would do is to be extravagant and gossipy but lazy man?? He hops from one classless woman to another.

What makes you think a lazy woman would be too willing to get on her back also for anyone just to make the money she doesnt want to work for

sleekdot:


What makes you think a lazy woman would be too willing to get on her back also for anyone just to make the money she doesnt want to work for

I didn't get that,would be or wouldn't be? Anyway I'm talking about married men/women.

Chidoks:


I didn't get that,would be or wouldn't be? Anyway I'm talking about married men/women.

WOuldnt be

So what difference does it make if she is married? Dont married women sleep around

Chidoks:


Yeah it was so ugly but the poor lady forgave even after hubby and house help assaulted her.Now this... I hope she heals well and on time too.

She took a whole lot of shit from him.

Although i am not an advocate of divorce except in cases of assault and battery but i think if the man has any feeling left for her again this seperation will reset his thinking.

He has a whole lot to lose. What if d current employee aka new madam decides to leave tonight what then can he fall back on?

Abeg let her focus on her kids and work.