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| Am I Too Perverted? by diamondbby(f): 11:36pm On Jun 05, 2009 |
In trying to show my man some loving, he has come to see me as being perverted. I'm wondering if this is true and am I gradually turning into a nympho? What is the level of affection a woman needs to show her man in a relationship? |
| Re: Am I Too Perverted? by ikamefa(f): 11:38pm On Jun 05, 2009 |
erhmmmmmmmmmm like give us examples of what you do ?  perverted? nympho? you've gotta expatiate jare!  |
| Re: Am I Too Perverted? by yme1(f): 12:02am On Jun 06, 2009 |
when you mean you show him you care, how do you mean? a nympho  ------aint nothing wrong with that but just note that too much of a thing is badand make sure he can satisfy you else it might lead to so many problems in your relationship  |
| Re: Am I Too Perverted? by diamondbby(f): 12:29am On Jun 06, 2009 |
@ y me this is very true. and n any relationship i feel like there shud b balance. but this is the first relationship i have experinced, with a ekiti man or any man for that matter, that i have not felt desireable, or wanted. and i'm usually the one to always initiate intamacy. i'm jus not used to being the one to pursue or seduce all the the time. don't get me wrong i am a bit of a tease as well. but sumtimes its gud to kno ya man wants u. our relationship has so many diffrent levels to it and every day i find a new reason to love him more than i did the day before, but i still wonder y we have these "intamacy issues." |
| Re: Am I Too Perverted? by Sissy3(f): 12:42am On Jun 06, 2009 |
your man is very naive thats prolly why he thinks you are a pervert. |
| Re: Am I Too Perverted? by yme1(f): 12:48am On Jun 06, 2009 |
diamondbby:yes you will find every reason to love him each day cause you are in love even when he does something wrong you still cant find a reason to hate him, i feel you but note if he doesnt feel the same way for you, then know he is gonna take you for a ride i pray tht doesnt happen if you know you doubt the relationship you are in, i will advice you to talk to your bf about it diamondbby:have you talked to him about it? if not please do |
| Re: Am I Too Perverted? by C2H5OH(f): 12:51am On Jun 06, 2009 |
i have dealt with female perverts before. all they think about is gettin' it |
| Re: Am I Too Perverted? by yme1(f): 12:56am On Jun 06, 2009 |
C2H5OH:that is sex for you one is never settled until you get what you want |
| Re: Am I Too Perverted? by C2H5OH(f): 12:59am On Jun 06, 2009 |
y me:really? have you felt this way b4? too much of anything as they say . . . . . maybe she's being too easy maybe she wants it all the time maybe he has a low sex drive i think she needs to pull back a little |
| Re: Am I Too Perverted? by C2H5OH(f): 1:03am On Jun 06, 2009 |
i don't think you are a pervert. i think you have a high sex drive. |
| Re: Am I Too Perverted? by yme1(f): 1:04am On Jun 06, 2009 |
C2H5OH:i dont know what you are talking about hombre i get what i want when i want it  C2H5OH:yeah i told her to becareful it shouldnt be sex sex sex all the time tho it is good sha and if the guy cant satisfy her, she should be ready to take a walk cause it is gonna affect the relationship C2H5OH:that is so true heard guys like tht, dont know how true that is sha all she needs to do is find her match, sexually |
| Re: Am I Too Perverted? by oyinda3(f): 1:06am On Jun 06, 2009 |
no you're not too perverted. you're probably just not with your match. . .sexually. |
| Re: Am I Too Perverted? by C2H5OH(f): 1:08am On Jun 06, 2009 |
y me:i don't know what you're talking about if a girl is fina waka pass me over sex sex sex, then she ain't with me for the right reasons. |
| Re: Am I Too Perverted? by C2H5OH(f): 1:11am On Jun 06, 2009 |
please poster you need to provide more hinformation |
| Re: Am I Too Perverted? by yme1(f): 1:12am On Jun 06, 2009 |
C2H5OH:let me take your words for it C2H5OH:yeah a relationship shouldnt be base on sex alone cause sooner or later it is gonna crash |
| Re: Am I Too Perverted? by diamondbby(f): 3:01am On Jun 06, 2009 |
i feel wer aw yaw cumin from believe me i do. i have made more more than one comment about dis issue. i jus think he might jus be tryna b nuetral @ times. don't get me wrong our sex life is very deep and passionate. but i'm usually the one that has to get the ball rolln u kno. i'm a capricorn lol n he is a scorpio so sexually we aw gud. its jus that sumtimes it would b nice to get a back rub or gentle touch on my thigh something to let me know he wants me. i am very affectionate my nature but it explodes wen i care for u n have deep feelings for sumone. i dont know guys maybe we jus need to re evaluate our idea of intimacy. |
| Re: Am I Too Perverted? by C2H5OH(f): 3:02am On Jun 06, 2009 |
he's just not that into you  |
| Re: Am I Too Perverted? by diamondbby(f): 3:10am On Jun 06, 2009 |
@ Acid-- i know my man loves me with his whole <3 its just that i find myself bein a lil horn dog @ times that i feel he shoukd be more affectionate. aside from this issue we really compliment each other. he da ying to my yang lol |
| Re: Am I Too Perverted? by C2H5OH(f): 3:23am On Jun 06, 2009 |
for one, sorry to say, you sound desperate for "IT". if you dont' find a way to control your urges you might end up cheating on him. you DO have a high sex drive. maybe he doesn't. talk to him about it, see if you can reach a compromise. |
| Re: Am I Too Perverted? by diamondbby(f): 3:32am On Jun 06, 2009 |
"it" lol no not desperate for it at aw, i was a late bloomer so sex is not the main coarse for me, but like i said i am very affectionate so i guess it is wat is homeboi jus a issue im dealn wit among many jus wantd a lil nsite. idk its not dat big of a deal tho. thanks for your contribution. it was helpful |
| Re: Am I Too Perverted? by iice(f): 9:42am On Jun 06, 2009 |
oyinda.: Yeah. |
| Re: Am I Too Perverted? by Sasha009(f): 10:08am On Jun 06, 2009 |
I just think he might be the 'too serious' type. Maybe he doesnt believe in too much of affection and sex. Girl, there's nothing wrong with you. A lot of guys would kill to have someone like you as their gf. If you have to intiate intimacy all the time, then I don't think thats too good. He has to show he's down sometimes too. I reckon you should just talk to him about it, and that it bothers you a little bit. You re not a pervert. A pervert is someone you dont know who is consistently showing you unwanted attention or intimacy. This cannot be the same in your case. you two re an item. A nypho however is someone who cannot do without sex, addicted to sex basically like drugs, its like they will die if they dont have sex several times a day, its a serious case as well. I'm sure you re not this huh If he doesn't change, im not sure you two are meant to be, seriously. because this may pose a big problem in the future. something for you to think about |
| Re: Am I Too Perverted? by Oxone(m): 10:28am On Jun 06, 2009 |
well it all depends on how u go about it & the kind of man ur dealing with, some (new school) would appreciate it & some (old school)will not |
| Re: Am I Too Perverted? by tipsydude(m): 12:34pm On Jun 07, 2009 |
@ poster 4rm ur narration, i don't c u as perverted or loose or a nympho. i've always admired sista's who aint shy to take d initiative and most guys do so pls relax. i guess ur dude is d one with d issues. its most guys dream 2 have a sista who aint shy and ever willing but sometimes some of us open our bloody mouths and call u sistas hos. i c a sista 2 be loose only when she can't keep her legs closed 2 all and sundry. but if u want it 4rm him and only him and he is slacking then i guess u shuld sort it out with him and think of looking elsewhere(not just 4 sex but a real relatnship). |
| Re: Am I Too Perverted? by hackney(m): 12:59pm On Jun 07, 2009 |
As long as you dont wander. You can carry on with your "reverse cowboy". sweet 
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| Re: Am I Too Perverted? by Janatanjks: 2:26am On Nov 16, 2022 |
Showing love in your privacy doesn't mean pervert! If you feel so, please try this am I a pervert quiz |
| Re: Am I Too Perverted? by Nobody: 2:29am On Nov 16, 2022 |
diamondbby:  |
| Re: Am I Too Perverted? by Nobody: 2:30am On Nov 16, 2022 |
diamondbby: kaiiiii....wot did u yansh him wit & how??...please explain slowly(no oofiense) |
| Re: Am I Too Perverted? by culf: 4:31am On Nov 16, 2022 |
diamondbby: he is your man, who else should you? You're not and he is wrong, you should be open and express yourself freely in relationship with your man. He need to change his orientation! |
| Re: Am I Too Perverted? by culf: 4:35am On Nov 16, 2022 |
yme1: Too much of telling a man you need him when you do is bad? who else should she tell? Rather he should find other ways to satisfy her, single. |
| Re: Am I Too Perverted? by culf: 4:38am On Nov 16, 2022 |
diamondbby: you did nothing wrong. |
| Re: Am I Too Perverted? by culf: 4:41am On Nov 16, 2022 |
Sissy3: Probably! Some have backward orientation. Some of them are the reason some women won't come out straight to tell their partner they need them which can lead to cheating. |
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