Some months ago, a friend who is residing at Osha Anambra state showed my his gf on Facebook and i requested to be her friend. After some hours, she accepted my request and chatting followed.
While chatting with her, I learnt she hail from my state and neighbouring Town . I also learnt that she applied for unizik and oko poly and i applied for the duo too. When asked her current city she said ABUJA.
we continued chatting daily and she derive pleasure in chatting me cox she is de one always initiating chat and interrogating me.

To cut the lofty Story short: we concluded meeting during the post ume exam in unizik.
Note: I neva asked her out neither did i demand for her number.
I left lagos state for Anambra 3days to my exam, coincidentally she left Abuja Same day for Anambra. When my bus departed Lagos, I visited nairaland as a guest to read posts and comments. I was reading when a strange number called and i picked. Lo and behold it was the girl. When i inquired where she got my number she said from my Facebook page. She asked me where i was and i told her we just left lag. She told me to login Facebook which I did.

Lemme no bore with the long story.

we finally met the next day in my town and took pictures, we also met in unizik during post ume and oko before going back to our base.
We always chat and she calls me often. She told me she would be traveling on 23 that i should ensure I come home that she have missed me.
According to her bf she hardly call him and she doesnt return his calls.
I have her Facebook and 2go passwords and the last time i checked her conversation with bf she almost bore my guy with k, fne and np.

Does me she love me more than the guy if yes should i make the move ? Remember the guy is my paddy.

G

Everyone knows boy code 101.

You cannot try your friends girl.

And if she's flirting with you while she's with him, she's going to flirt with another while she's with you.

its obvious you already know how it will end...
And you are leading her.

Your paddy's friend, mtshewww better stay away from her

YourMain:
Everyone knows boy code 101.

You cannot try your friends girl.

And if she's flirting with you while she's with him, she's going to flirt with another while she's with you.

should I friendzone her or keep being friend ? The girl can't stop calling me pet names online an voice call.

Liftkid:


should I friendzone her or keep being friend ? The girl can't stop calling me pet names online an voice call.

Friendzone her and tell your friend. If he's your good friend you'd be considerate of him.

She clearly doesn't respect you or him if she's willing to be playing games with yous. At the end of the day she's still going back to him telling him she loves him.. While you're there in the corner.

missKiffy:
Your paddy's friend, mtshewww better stay away from her

yeah the guy is paddy but not from my state. He is just residing in my state and we see once or twice in year.

YourMain:


Friendzone her and tell your friend. If he's your good friend you'd be considerate of him.

She clearly doesn't respect you or him if she's willing to be playing games with yous. At the end of the day she's still going back to him telling him she loves him.. While you're there in the corner.

Is it that easy to friendzone someone who is fond of you ? If yes how do i do that ?

About going back to my friend afterwards I wouldn't mind . I can equally go back to my gf

Stay away from her pls

Liftkid:


Is it that easy to friendzone someone who is fond of you ? If yes how do i do that ?

About going back to my friend afterwards I wouldn't mind . I can equally go back to my gf

You have a girlfriend Dude ? What are you ?

No contact.

adepeter26:
Stay away from her pls

Thank you. So help me God

YourMain:


You have a girlfriend Dude ? What are you ?

No contact.

yes I do and we see often but she isn't from my place.

All I can say is remember he is ur friend
But in the 1st place y u go add her....some friends self....leave her n be a loyal dog to ur homie

Liftkid:


Thank you. So help me God

Amen

YourMain:
Everyone knows boy code 101.

You cannot try your friends girl.

And if she's flirting with you while she's with him, she's going to flirt with another while she's with you.

Thumbs up!

Liftkid:


yes I do and we see often but she isn't from my place.

You. Are. An. Idiot.

You don't even deserve advice. You actually just pissed me off. Are you Ill? How dare you. You're disgusting. You literally sicken me.

I've zero words for you.

donMIG:
All I can say is remember he is ur friend
But in the 1st place y u go add her....some friends self....leave her n be a loyal dog to ur homie

what's wrong with adding her ? Her bf encouraged me to do so.

I hope you know you are a very nasty friend. Aren't there other girls you could add and chat up on fb? It had to be your friend's girl. Now you are trying to make it seem you are just irresistible without any effort.

YourMain:


You. Are. An. Idiot.

You don't even deserve advice. You actually just pissed me off. Are you Ill? How dare you. You're disgusting. You literally sicken me.

I've zero words for you.

alright You have spoken well. 8-)

Never mess with your friend's girl. NEVER.

Oahray:
I hope you know you are a very nasty friend. Aren't there other girls you could add and chat up on fb? It had to be your friend's girl. Now you are trying to make it seem you are just irresistible without any effort.

But the same Friend have my gf in his list. What's nasty with having his ?

Liftkid:


what's wrong with adding her ? Her bf encouraged me to do so.

Okayyyyy....smh....so weitin u wan do now since d girl DON divert her attention to u

YourMain:
Everyone knows boy code 101.

You cannot try your friends girl.

And if she's flirting with you while she's with him, she's going to flirt with another while she's with you.

that is why you always have problems, who still take girls serious?

Shortyy:
Never mess with your friend's girl. NEVER.

Okay Thanks

Liftkid:



yeah the guy is paddy but not from my state. He is just residing in my state and we see once or twice in year.

Stop giving excuses, stay away from his girl

ozor1:
that is why you always have problems, who still take girls serious?

Ehm excuse me ? Did you not hear the guy. He has a girlfriend.

Liftkid:


But the same Friend have my gf in his list. What's nasty with having his ?

the point is that you are flirting with her (you even have her passwords now) and wondering if you should make a bold move. Against the backdrop of your friendship with her bf (which is how you met her in the first place) and your own relationship with your gf, it's clear you shouldn't be called anything with friend in it... best friend or boyfriend.

I didn't say what you did is nasty. I said YOU are nasty. The worst part is that you hardly ever see anything wrong with what you do.

As u would dat men should do unto u, do ye also unto another.

Let's be realistic. It depends on the rapport between you and your guy and the level of OT.
But get your guys permission unless the friendship with your guy isn't worth it.

If a girl doesn't come in between guys, their friendship will last. After the devil, fear women and if u think I'm lying, ask Adam in the garden of Eden.