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What Is Wrong With Being Picky? by Nikky23: 2:25pm On Jun 10, 2009
is anything wrong in being picky with who you date?
Re: What Is Wrong With Being Picky? by luxoire(f): 2:42pm On Jun 10, 2009
nothing wrong in that baby - but don't let your picky attitude and your lack of 'compromise' let a good thing get away from you - just because you couldn't see past your current standards

NOthing wrong in being picky - as long as it is applied with reason, caution and wisdom
Re: What Is Wrong With Being Picky? by gram: 3:01pm On Jun 10, 2009
nothig wrong really but if u are the picky type, be ready for a lifetime of "pickment", cos after you get what u want, u start seeing things u hate.there comes a time when u shd close ur eyes and appreciate what u have.
Re: What Is Wrong With Being Picky? by biola44: 3:40pm On Jun 10, 2009
no, but u shd know when 2 draw d line, cool
Re: What Is Wrong With Being Picky? by Hollysmile: 3:56pm On Jun 10, 2009
Pick whoever u think fits ur choice. After all, the same guy u're pickin actually picked u in his own mind before approachin u!
There's nothin wrong, dear!
Re: What Is Wrong With Being Picky? by Gentlelady(f): 4:14pm On Jun 10, 2009
Nothing wrong in that!  I think it is CLASSY to be picky! cool
Re: What Is Wrong With Being Picky? by ebila(m): 4:31pm On Jun 10, 2009
@poster,
There ain't nothing wrong but u shouldn't go over the edge.Like 'luxoire' said,u should be willing to compromise sometimes.
Re: What Is Wrong With Being Picky? by iice(f): 4:41pm On Jun 10, 2009
luxoire:

nothing wrong in that baby - but don't let your picky attitude and your lack of 'compromise' let a good thing get away from you - just because you couldn't see past your current standards

NOthing wrong in being picky - as long as it is applied with reason, caution and wisdom

Co-signed wink
Re: What Is Wrong With Being Picky? by spikedcylinder: 4:44pm On Jun 10, 2009
Depends on what you're being picky about.
Re: What Is Wrong With Being Picky? by sesman(m): 4:50pm On Jun 10, 2009
There is nothing wrong with being picky, if its what you are passionate about and its what makes you happy, then its your right i guess,

on the other side sometimes being too picky could stop from you from looking at things from a different angle,
Re: What Is Wrong With Being Picky? by Nikky23: 2:34am On Jun 11, 2009
I agree knowing when to draw the line is necessary.
Re: What Is Wrong With Being Picky? by puskin: 3:00am On Jun 11, 2009
But hw do U knw wen uv reached dat line 2draw?
Re: What Is Wrong With Being Picky? by Nikky23: 3:01am On Jun 11, 2009
In my own opinion, i guess not over being picky??
Re: What Is Wrong With Being Picky? by Nobody: 7:35am On Jun 11, 2009
Being picky is good,infact wonderful,but be careful cos not all u wish for and hope for comes to past even in our dream.U might just miss that nice person
Re: What Is Wrong With Being Picky? by lolarde(f): 10:12am On Jun 11, 2009
being picky is ok,but too picky bad.you might pick out the best,sure u cant get it all.
Re: What Is Wrong With Being Picky? by Nobody: 12:02pm On Jun 11, 2009
Moderation is the key.
Re: What Is Wrong With Being Picky? by No2Atheism(m): 12:41pm On Jun 11, 2009
@topic

There is nothing wrong with being picky. Infact if given a chance i would not only be picky,  I would also do genetic analysis, blood clot variability, bone marrow transplantability the list goes on and on grin grin grin grin.

Just kidding  grin grin grin


But seriously sha, each and everyone of us is picky, the only difference is how and when we do it.

A graduate lady is being picky by choosing not to marry a non-graduate.
A Nigerian Havard graduate is being picky by merely choosing not to date or marry a non-nigerian.


Hence at the end of the day, we are all picky, its just that it makes sense to be moderate and make sure it is done with a foundation of love.
Re: What Is Wrong With Being Picky? by phemnahs(m): 12:48pm On Jun 11, 2009
There is nothing wrong with being picky so far one is being picky base on good reasons and not for selfish purpose. The main and only criteria should be your feelings.
And infact why cant an AS marry an AS with the level of technology we have today?
Re: What Is Wrong With Being Picky? by smooooooth: 12:49pm On Jun 11, 2009
nothing wrong, just tha at the end, u get picked.
Re: What Is Wrong With Being Picky? by Nikky23: 1:36pm On Jun 11, 2009
smooooooth:

nothing wrong, just tha at the end, u get picked.

I dont really understand your context here
Re: What Is Wrong With Being Picky? by Nikky23: 11:59pm On Jul 05, 2009
this is it here triforce.
Re: What Is Wrong With Being Picky? by lordkrato(m): 12:58am On Jul 06, 2009
most people kinda get d wrng idea of picky people.personaly,i am.bt d idea is knowing how 2 balance d act.anything else is jst basking in fools paradise.
Re: What Is Wrong With Being Picky? by TheSeeker(m): 2:11am On Jul 06, 2009
Moderation is the key to a successful habit -- whether good or bad. Being picky isn't bad as long as you don't cross the line. Have in your mind what you want but always be realistic to yourself. Let me use this forum(romance)as an instance -- you want a boyfriend and you want to choose, make sure your preference is within realistic reasoning. Don't start thinking of love scenes like the ones in Romeo & Juliet or the ones in "Titanic". Don't think he should look as handsome as "Jesus" -- that is who I consider most handsome. Apply moderation in everything, however, don't stoop any low from your desired want.

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