We all in a particular time has borrowed or given out to someone. I want to advice those that get rejected by friends, family when they tender their problems. many things comes to mind of someone who you want to borrow from before he gives out to you so after reading this, don't get angry when another refuses to help rather try another person or pray God helps u out.

1)You Are Not The First Person-- Always bear in mind that you are not the first person that has tabled your problem to that person neither will u be the last. You might even be the 10th person and immediately u leave another person may still come for help too. In this situation the giver will have to apply scale of preference or reject all.

2) Everyone Has A Problem.
You think you are the only person with a problem wait till u listen to the person u just met to lend u money, you might even give him/her your last card. That he isn't complaining to you doesn't mean he is problem free. Even Dangote still borrows from bank to start up a biz. Remember the more your wealth, the more your problem

3) Not Everyone Is As Rich As they Appear..
Always consider this factor very important. That he lives in a good house and drives a car doesn't mean he has up to 5mil in his account. Sometimes people borrow from their work place or even mortgage from the banks just to be comfortable. So the next time you see that your friend, uncle, brother driving a car, don't think he is richest man in your village.

4)The Fear Factor. The fear that his/her money won't return determines who he gives to or not. We all in a certain stage have given out to a friend with the promise of return but the money never comes back.. so the next time you want to get angry remember this factor

5)Ambition to Grow. When u make ur first 50000, u will start to dream about making a 100000. You think he will give you the money he wants to invest? You must be joking
Please always aspire to be a giver not a borrower and I pray one day we all make it so we wouldn't have to borrow again

Nice piece OP