What would you do if you had an arguement with ur dad over your partner (girlfriend or boyfriend) and he returns all the gifts you give him and removes the rug and furniture you bought in the living room when you got your first job.

ok but what brought about the question? did this happen to you or to anyone you know or did u just make it up just to hear our answers?

to a friend.

It must have been a very serious argument,prolly some harsh words were used 
Dad sef harsh.lol
Let ur friend give his dad some time to let things cool off a bit then have a talk again maturedly with his dad.For the meantime,the friend that caused the argument shld be made to stay away from the house as in no visiting for now.

depending on what caused the argument with you and your dad, i would try to resolve the issue with my bf and calm him down

Why would you let your b4 to buy your apartment furniture?

if na gf, i'll settle scores wit my dad 1st cos family is important!

i would definatlly wat to pleas ma dad in any way so i woul join him and leav ma gal, but if the agument pass normal i would leav him to his wfe and go for mine
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arewa4:

What would you do if you had an arguement with ur dad over your partner (girlfriend or boyfriend) and he returns all the gifts you give him and removes the rug and furniture you bought in the living room when you got your first job.

leave he for some time, and I mean a really long time and then we can talk later by then his head will be cool.

apologise to your dad

Make the dad happy,he will tell you somethings you think you know.

its like you guys dont seem to understand, anyway i dont expect u to. the dad just hates my friend's girlfriend for no particular reason , you tell him to break up the relationship, and u start to curse the guy that the day he marries the girl will be the beginning of doom in his life and u expect him to apologise. God knws if im the one, i wont!  besides thats the most childish and most stupid approach to conflict resolution, '' returning gift'' the last time i did that i dont think i was up to 5 yrs old!

arewa4:

its like you guys dont seem to understand, anyway i dont expect u to. the dad just hates my friend's girlfriend for no particular reason , you tell him to break up the relationship, and u start to curse the guy that the day he marries the girl will be the beginning of doom in his life and u expect him to apologise. God knws if im the one, i wont!  besides thats the most childish and most stupid approach to conflict resolution, '' returning gift'' the last time i did that i dont think i was up to 5 yrs old!

are you sure you are not the girlfriend

That is serious oh, however, depends on what brought about the argument.
But i will advice that you beg the papa oh.

desthan:

are you sure you are not the girlfriend

You just read my mind.

Folks a parent will forever be a parent. God knows what the man has suffered to bring your friend up to this stage. God knows how many debts he incurred to send him to school. Children need to learn that there are various ways of having discussion with dad or mum that will not lead to arguements. Why will a good child argue with a parent in the first instance.

We could disagree with our parent but not leading to verbal arguement that will warrant him returning gifts. God knows what your friend told his dad that will make a father return gifts. Remember we are talking about a grown up man !!! The father might be seeing something the son isnt seeing and the son needs to use diplomacy to try to understand where his dad is comming from. He needs to aplogise even if he his on the right and that is being diplomatic in approach.

arewa4:

its like you guys dont seem to understand, anyway i dont expect u to. the dad just hates my friend's girlfriend for no particular reason , you tell him to break up the relationship, and u start to curse the guy that the day he marries the girl will be the beginning of doom in his life and u expect him to apologise. God knws if im the one, i wont! besides thats the most childish and most stupid approach to conflict resolution, '' returning gift'' the last time i did that i dont think i was up to 5 yrs old!

lol
Maybe u are withholding some vital infor. from us
There must be a reason why the dad hates the gf.

im not the girlfriend. the gf is a close friend of mine and i know her well enough to say she not a bad person.
they even broke up before the returning gifts episode. im also certain that no harsh words were used my the guy cos everybody( siblings and mum) are all on his side. the papa is just a difficult man. finish!!!!!!!!!!!!

arewa4:

im not the girlfriend. the gf is a close friend of mine and i know her well enough to say she not a bad person.
they even broke up before the returning gifts episode. im also certain that no harsh words were used my the guy cos everybody( siblings and mum) are all on his side. the papa is just a difficult man. finish!!!!!!!!!!!!

Dont be too sure.
From the hand writings on the wall, u seems to be the lady in question.
So if you want honest opinion, be real, open and straight.

just ve to let go for sometime and think of wat to do on both side

arewa4:

What would you do if you had an arguement with ur dad over your partner (girlfriend or boyfriend) and he returns all the gifts you give him and removes the rug and furniture you bought in the living room when you got your first job.

Beg your dad in the name of anything he believes in to tell you what he has seen. My people say "ti omode ba ge igi ni'gbo, agba lo mo ibiti o ma wo si", when a child is cutting a tree in the forest, the elder already knows which direction the tree will fall. Your dad is probably trying his best to save you from some forms of danger and doesn't know how else to convince you. If am in that shoe (can't be though), I will let go of my partner since that is changeable but papa is not changeable.

daddee:

Beg your dad in the name of anything he believes in to tell you what he has seen. My people say "ti omode ba ge igi ni'gbo, agba lo mo ibiti o ma wo si", when a child is cutting a tree in the forest, the elder already knows which direction the tree will fall. Your dad is probably trying his best to save you from some forms of danger and doesn't know how else to convince you. If am in that shoe (can't be though), [size=18pt]I will let go of my partner since that is changeable but papa is not changeable.[/size]

Now that is not fair, i think sometimes, it is important to look at the situation better, cos the papa wont live as long as the partner too {all things being equal} and besides, how u take know say, no be say papa dey eye the babe.
I think it is better to talk to the papa and not just dump the babe, there has to be a reason why dada is pissed, so find out why and deal with it, or if you have married the woman and your dad is now pissed, you will divorce the woman? when you give human an inch, they tends to come back for a yard till u give all.

No Girlfriend will come between me and my family.