How would you feel if you broke and you also have a broken heart. I never knew what love was i only feared things that toyed with the heart . Shes 19 and am 24 . Shes a student and has demands cus her parents are managing financially, i work for the feds am also managing. She complains about me not giving her money not caring of how she lived or survived she says am too stingy and says i feel shes not worth my finances . Though i love her way too much i give her only when i have and for the moment i embarked on a project that makes my take home unable to take me home I explained but she wouldn't understand i gave her a speculated time but she still wont understand. Shes always complaining and reminding me how uncaring and wicked she thinks i am . To be frank shes not the only one affected by my financial situation my parents do and they understand. But she doesn't sometimes she says she understand but she still complains whenever shes in need. We have been dating for 7 months and I haven't had sex with her cus she has vaginismus which was caused by trauma from the guy who disvirgined her. she feels am not giving her cash cus we not having sex. Now i feel she is cheating cus now she sleeps out in a guys house who she claims to be her friend. What Do I do? I love this chick and i don't want to leave her i feel if she could just wait. Things will fall back in place.

A friend asked me to help so i felt he could get help here?

Here we go again.

issues like this has become really serious, but if you are broken like the way you say, and she does not want to understand, my brother abeg pull over now.
Thats my own o.

A clear reason to quit this relationship but no, you wouldn't listen to reason.

Enjoy your babe.

Kids everywhere!

Mtcheeew

Mugun owo maaga lo n san d girl dey play u real good u better free her bc anoda man dey pound her ooooo

why can't everyone be heartless as I am in the matters of love.......? The B-tch is a hoe.......big time!........... A lady who can't keep calm in times of financial hard ship is not worth staying with!
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That's why I prefer Dating Introverts or shy ladies from Rich responsible backgrounds.........common wiping of their sweaty faces with your mini towel...is worth a car to them due to love!

And who says a lady with Vaginismus "can never" enjoy sex??....My babe used to have that and was very scared of having sex (same trauma from her ex that forcefully disflowered her but she now enjoys sex with me and our sex life is cooooooool!..If you really know how to handle a lady in bed and you want the "Two of you" - (Not just you) to enjoy having sex, then you know what to do........

OP na 2016 we wan enter so... n he no go gud if u carry Dis mumu enter new year.... 19yr old, na him u luv..... Dos teens ain't loyal....

I no wan make this kind topic enter next year ooo,so make all of una wey get bf and gf wahala come table am here.if u carry am enter next year ur condition go dey permanent ooo.

Dude I'd say let her be! You're too young to shoulder dis kind of responsibility. For now, concentrate on developing urself and helping ur family. Get ur feet on the ground first before trying to help people, especially the ones you are not responsible for. With or without you, she will survive and get thru school. What happens if after all ur sacrifice she wakes up one day and say she's not doing again? That's how u will open another thread to say u sponsored her thru scool and she dumped u. Don't get involved with a liability, if you must date, look for the one that will compliment you and not the one that will dry the little money u r managing. Love is highly overrated.

walenack:
How would you feel if you broke and you also have a broken heart. I never knew what love was i only feared things that toyed with the heart . Shes 19 and am 24 . Shes a student and has demands cus her parents are managing financially, i work for the feds am also managing. She complains about me not giving her money not caring of how she lived or survived she says am too stingy and says i feel shes not worth my finances . Though i love her way too much i give her only when i have and for the moment i embarked on a project that makes my take home unable to take me home I explained but she wouldn't understand i gave her a speculated time but she still wont understand. Shes always complaining and reminding me how uncaring and wicked she thinks i am . To be frank shes not the only one affected by my financial situation my parents do and they understand. But she doesn't sometimes she says she understand but she still complains whenever shes in need. We have been dating for 7 months and I haven't had sex with her cus she has vaginismus which was caused by trauma from the guy who disvirgined her. she feels am not giving her cash cus we not having sex. Now i feel she is cheating cus now she sleeps out in a guys house who she claims to be her friend. What Do I do? I love this chick and i don't want to leave her i feel if she could just wait. Things will fall back in place.

A friend asked me to help so i felt he could get help here?

she has vaginimus yet she sleeps in another guys house.. Humm.. Anyways.. Make her understand your financial difficulties too.. If she dosent wanna understand.. Then she dosent love you... Piece of mi mind..