The problem is she called them all frnds but all of them are toasting her,if i complain she will say that i do not trusth her,plz i love her so much i do not want to lose her 4 any body help plz.

Ezekris:

The problem is she called them all frnds but all of them are toasting her,if i complain she will say that i do not trusth her,plz i love her so much i do not want to lose her 4 any body help plz.

then trust her enough, and stop being insecure

talk to her - she too on the other hand should tell those guys up front where to stick it - or stay friends - no more toasting

I used to be like that - but then i realised the only reason why i wanted these 'friends' around me was because i was not getting that same attention from my bf at the time and these guys made me feel wanted / appreciated.

but as soon as i got into a r/ship where i had all of that plus my best friend in my partner - i had no problem telling those guys where to shove it seriously and cutting off from those that couldn't respect the fact that i am in a r/ship and respect my man!!

sad but true - us women would do anything we can to protect our own - esp where we feel we have invested alot and want to stay there long term then our partner's happiness mean alot and we wouldn't knowingly jeopardise that

so its either your gf is getting something from them - that you ain't giving her - or she is not as deep into your r/ship as you are - men are always going to go after women, they have no way of knowing whether you have a bf (as you no dey wear ring) its up to the girl how she decides to act towards those men and treat them

talk 2 her n shine ur eyez as well!

Confront all of dem toasters, Lol.
Beta stil, ova look it and enjoy her while she's wit u! Don't expect it to last.

Well said holysmile,and @poster,in d interim enjoy her while she lasts.If she had meant well for d relationship she would have tossed off all dem niggaz

thats an easy one. . . get a chick who is less hot

she's toasting dem oda guys cos she's gettin something from them you're not giving her.have a serious talk with her and tell her how you feel about the toasters

if you don't want a lady who will be disturbed by admirers, go for an ugly babe, ok?, there is always an adage which says if your girl is not admired by other men,then the man is not doing something right to make her look like a queen, just that excessive toasting should be the beginning of wisdom for any any jealous guy

If truly you're willing to Settle your Life down with her and you're not into that game, we usually play. Make her understand that there's nothing they could offer her out there, they're only after her for a purpose that it's time is limited.

Hollysmile:

Confront all of dem toasters, Lol.
Beta stil, ova look it and enjoy her while she's wit u! Don't expect it to last.

well said, what more should i say?

well i used 2 be in d same problem
i had 2 make my gurl my baby,sister, partner and every tin
and trust me guys call me each passin day tellin me dey wanna
talk 2 my gurl and i simply tell dem she's engaged
it works
well i particularly didnt work wit my long distant ex relationship
she was fine 2 de core and depended on her beauty
alot of toasters everywher
i simply RUN LEAVE AM naa!

Ah! Its very simple. Wash her face with ACID and guys will stop chasing her.

No_name_007:

Ah! Its very simple. Wash her face with ACID and guys will stop chasing her.

rotflmao
Plz demonstrate (with your face) how the process goes, so the guy can know how well to wash her face with ACID

@gators
did i wash your own face with acid or wat kind of advise is this that you are giving.

@poster

Be grateful that guys are pursing ur babe and not that guys are consoling you.

No2Atheism:

@gators
did i wash your own face with acid or wat kind of advise is this that you are giving.

lol, why should you?
I dnt have any toasters.

anywaz, bawo ni

LOL anyone dare not come near you wen am still alive. The face, the body and the bitty is mine all mine buhaaaaaaaaaa

Am alright how u too doing.

No2Atheism:

LOL anyone dare not come near you wen am still alive. The face, the body and the bitty is mine all mine buhaaaaaaaaaa

Am alright how u too doing.

ehrrrrm of course na, all yours
Bitty? no be me and you

Mo wa jare.

na every thread you two must flirt? Get a room or visit each other . . .

davidylan:

na every thread you two must flirt? Get a room or visit each other . . .

LMAO LOL

Uncle David shee me we i be Saint Mohammed, wetin i wan take room do.

Hmmm

LOL jst trust her n give her wat u think those other guys cant give her, then she look u better than them

So she shouldn't have admirers again? just bcus she's your gf! 

@Davidylan,


Pot calling kettle black

davidylan:

na every thread you two must flirt? Get a room or visit each other . . . 

FL Gators:

Hmmm

dayokanu:

@Davidylan,


Pot calling kettle black

Me flirt around . I no fit otherwise Gator go kill me with bitty lust affection flirtatiousness.

seriously, @davidylan wat exactly was Dayokanu refering to wen he said pot calling kettle black .


@Gators, don't mind David jare, he does not realise that you are one of the few men and ladies on this NL who understands and appreciates my twisted sense of humour.


@Gators so wen next are we going to meet, i really enjoyed the last time, u  naughty girl  i did not realise you were such a Tiger 

show her all the love u can. . .let her know u love her and would love to spend the rest of ur live with her. then let her do what she wants.

very simple, just take her to a native doctor and put magun on her
Did i just say that

On a serious note, there is nothing you can do about it, or do you want an ugly babe
Maybe there is something you are not giving are that are "FRIENDS" are giving think about it.

Stop acting like a sisi and become a man that u are, if choices are not made in a relationship then u guys are Friends

@Poster,
If you know you can't handle the attention then cut your coat according to your size.

nah this is unacceptable
u better sit your babe down and talk 2 her
also shine your eye well well
before you go start another thread

Tk dem 2 where dey ll give er tribal marks

Ezekris:

The problem is she called them all frnds but all of them are toasting her,if i complain she will say that i do not trusth her,plz i love her so much i do not want to lose her 4 any body help plz.

follow her around with tear gas and pepper spray. Hide in the bush and when you see one of her so called friends "toasting" her jump out of the bush and pepper spray him or throw tear gas