Toni Payne, the estranged wife of Gongo Aso crooner, 9ice said she has let go of all bitterness from their messy separation.

She explained why it took that long to move on in a detailed post on her website, www.tonipayneonline.com entitled 'Letting go of all Bitterness and Hate for the one I once loved.'

The couple who sired a son together separated under controversial circumstances that included allegations that she cheated with her hubby's colleague and friend, Ruggedman.



Read her statement...



It has been a good 6 years and now I can categorically say I have let go of all bitterness and hate I felt for a man I once loved. It has been an uphill journey but to find myself here is a blessing.

Without getting into detail and backtracking too much, I’ll summarize it as a lot of naivety, a lot of bad decisions, and a lot of untrained media professionals ready to blow things out of proportion. A man sang a song and for whatever reason known to them, Nigerian Media “professionals” decided to tag it as what it was not, and a lot of Nigerian onlookers decided to help spread it without knowing if it was true or not and unfortunately for me, I was caught in the crossfire. A lot of people formed opinions about me, some even hate me till today for something that was mere fiction. Such is life right?

Till today, I still wonder how things got that far. I wonder how things got so nasty. I wonder how a once beautiful relationship turned so sour so quickly.

These days, we talk – a lot. We talk about what happened and how we got here. These days, we can now joke and laugh about the past. I ask a lot of questions because I really want to understand him and put myself in his shoes. I also hope he understands my every reaction and puts himself in my shoes.

Through all the mess, we never really talked deeply about things. There was too much resentment on my side for me to want to allow him in. There was too much bitterness in my soul to ever want to forgive. I honestly never thought this day would come – that is how angry I was. There is a Yoruba proverb that states “when the ocean rises, you don’t rise to meet it.” For every action there is a reaction and for every reaction there are consequences.

Continue here..... http://expressng.com/2016/01/why-it-has-taken-me-six-years-to-forgive-9ice-toni-payne-ex-wife/

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Anyway, whenever person wake na im morning...so, I say 'eka'rò ooo

But did he ask for forgiveness?

No be Mistake...NA confirm..you were caught bleeping Rugged Man..So bleep that shit Dam !!!

No be Mistake...NA confirm..you were caught bleeping Rugged Man..So bleep that shit Dam !!!