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Steps And Stages For A New-born Relationship. by Nobody: 4:11am On Jun 17, 2009
Alright! I guez this should go a long way in harmonizing fresh breeds of lovers and relationships. (For D Matured Minds Pls).

Experience they say is a good teacher' so lets share if any. Do tell us what Steps and Stages are Ways necessary to climb a New Born relationship ladder.
Reason been that; Many of our Youths and even Adults just pop into a love relationship (b4 marriage) with the opposite sex without having or knowing proper steps and guidelines as to "what next" on the relationship scale as at when appropriate.
Let us educate ourselves here.
Re: Steps And Stages For A New-born Relationship. by biola44: 8:40am On Jun 17, 2009
i think a major problem is dat many pple dont even know why they r goin into d r/s, so proper steps n guidelines become a bigger challenge cool
Re: Steps And Stages For A New-born Relationship. by Hollysmile: 9:27am On Jun 17, 2009
In love wit dis topic!
Well, i think de 1st step (if already in2 e relationship) is to get acquainted wit each other.
Secondly, defining what dey expect in dat relationship, which may include dedication, communication, how to resolve conflict in a mature way, etc.
Uhmm! Dis na wetin me think oh. Abeg, make una contribute make i know how far.
Re: Steps And Stages For A New-born Relationship. by iice(f): 10:38am On Jun 17, 2009
Have a sense of direction. Know what you want, know yourself. Know your limits.
Communicate! Can't stress that enough - People like to 'interpret', 'speculate', follow 'misconceptions/preconceptions'. Make the other person feel comfortable so that he/she is open enough to express what he/she feels and thinks.
Re: Steps And Stages For A New-born Relationship. by Gentlelady(f): 11:06am On Jun 17, 2009
Get to know one another through proper communication,  understand and accept eachother; and of course define what you want out of the relationship. So that one does not expect marriage and happily ever after while the other just wants to have fun and while away time.
Re: Steps And Stages For A New-born Relationship. by Gentlelady(f): 11:11am On Jun 17, 2009
iice:

Have a sense of direction. Know what you want, know yourself. Know your limits.
Communicate! Can't stress that enough - People like to 'interpret', 'speculate', follow 'misconceptions/preconceptions'. Make the other person feel comfortable so that he/she is open enough to express what he/she feels and thinks.

Well said, iice! I am getting to love your ideas and thinking! grin
Re: Steps And Stages For A New-born Relationship. by biola44: 11:14am On Jun 17, 2009
Hollysmile:

In love wit dis topic!
Well, i think de 1st step (if already in2 e relationship) is to get acquainted wit each other.
Secondly, defining what dey expect in dat relationship, which may include dedication, communication, how to resolve conflict in a mature way, etc.
Uhmm! Dis na wetin me think oh. Abeg, make una contribute make i know how far.
i concur,
Re: Steps And Stages For A New-born Relationship. by Busybody2(f): 1:02pm On Jun 17, 2009
First thing first is to be yourself, no need pretending to be what you are not because you can only keep up the pretenses for so long. If the dude or lady does not like it, they can lump it, that is God indirectly helping you seperate the wheat from the chaff wink

Next thing to do is learn to talk about everything under the sun, and even talk about the things that makes you feel uncomfortable. If the person starts to flinch or becomes cagey, take a step back and re-evaluate the relationship honestly to see if you aren't gonna be having communication issues with this person in future.

Would be back cool
Re: Steps And Stages For A New-born Relationship. by luxoire(f): 1:19pm On Jun 17, 2009
iice:

Have a sense of direction. Know what you want, know yourself. Know your limits.
Communicate! Can't stress that enough - People like to 'interpret', 'speculate', follow 'misconceptions/preconceptions'. Make the other person feel comfortable so that he/she is open enough to express what he/she feels and thinks.

told you i would stop typing once you started - i agree grin grin
Re: Steps And Stages For A New-born Relationship. by iice(f): 1:51pm On Jun 17, 2009
Gentlelady:

Well said, iice! I am getting to love your ideas and thinking! grin

Thanks, you too wink

luxoire:

told you i would stop typing once you started - i agree grin grin

Are we taking turns now? tongue
Re: Steps And Stages For A New-born Relationship. by Nobody: 1:53pm On Jun 17, 2009
biola44:

i think a major problem is dat many pple dont even know why they r goin into d r/s,  so proper steps n guidelines become a bigger challenge cool

You're right u know!, That the more reason why we needed some good guidelines and possible tutorials to help the up-coming breeds have a sucessful r/s.

iice:

Have a sense of direction.  Know what you want, know yourself.  Know your limits.
Communicate! Can't stress that enough - People like to 'interpret', 'speculate', follow 'misconceptions/preconceptions'.  Make the other person feel comfortable so that he/she is open enough to express what he/she feels and thinks.

Nice concept @iice. But dont u think you shoula break down abd elucidate formally on which comes first , after another.  wink wink


Gentlelady:

Get to know one another through proper communication,  understand and accept eachother; and of course define what you want out of the relationship. So that one does not expect marriage and happily ever after while the other just wants to have fun and while away time.
Splendid Approach, i hope starters are paying attention. smiley cool
Re: Steps And Stages For A New-born Relationship. by iice(f): 1:58pm On Jun 17, 2009
brein:

Nice concept @iice. But dont u think you shoula break down abd elucidate formally on which comes first , after another.  wink wink

It's broken down. Read it again
Re: Steps And Stages For A New-born Relationship. by luxoire(f): 1:58pm On Jun 17, 2009
iice:

Thanks, you too wink

Are we taking turns now? tongue

errmmm YES (nods happily) grin
Re: Steps And Stages For A New-born Relationship. by Nobody: 2:01pm On Jun 17, 2009
Busy_body:

First thing first is to be yourself, no need pretending to be what you are not because you can only keep up the pretenses for so long. If the dude or lady does not like it, they can lump it, that is God indirectly helping you seperate the wheat from the chaff wink

Next thing to do is learn to talk about everything under the sun, and even talk about the things that makes you feel uncomfortable. If the person starts to flinch or becomes cagey, take a step back and re-evaluate the relationship honestly to see if you aren't gonna be having communication issues with this person in future.

Would be back cool





Yea, @ Busy_Budy. i think u got good and nice concepts and fantastic possible key steps to a successful r/s.

Why not come with more. I guess u got a lots to talk about here.

cool cool
Re: Steps And Stages For A New-born Relationship. by Nobody: 2:03pm On Jun 17, 2009
iice:

It's broken down. Read it again

Yea iice, its broken down. I Know! But not every lame man would comprehend that.
Please step down ya grammaticul voc. wink wink so that all can grab ya keys.
Thanks.

and by the way, i could also be having a lil prob on what next stage to go in my R/S angry
Re: Steps And Stages For A New-born Relationship. by Unseen(m): 3:32pm On Jun 17, 2009
There is no rule in love cause love is a rule. Just be yourself and the forces of nature will drive you on.
Re: Steps And Stages For A New-born Relationship. by Nobody: 11:30am On Jun 18, 2009
LOL at
(forces of nature)
Re: Steps And Stages For A New-born Relationship. by Unseen(m): 8:29pm On Jun 18, 2009
@brein
Hey forces of nature. It's all over just that most can't recognise it.It's what drives you to do certain right things at the right time.About doing the wrong things, you only miscalculated. I still maintain LOVE is a RULE.

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