AmyBelg:
That guy is a Red Flag, it's not easy to move on but think of him flirting with someone esle the way he did to you and you would find the courage.

femi4:
Seems he was already engaged before you guys met. He was merely flirting with you knowing fully well that after six months you would be out of sight.
He is just one of those guys that love playing with ladies emotions like toy

boxer022:
I believe that no amount of busyness will deprive a guy from asking of the well being of the girl he claims that he loves. You on your part tried your best in maintaining communication but he is not showing any sign of appreciation by returning those calls. I want you to call him or look for a way to let him know that his lack of communication is really affecting your relationship with him as it looks as if he does not care about you.

SexyCeline:
O.p have you hrd of the phrase 'Nearest is dearest'. Probably he is soo engrossed with work and the thought of you hardly cross his mind or he is definitely seeing someone else and you have been relegated to being a side chick. Concentrate on your studies and let men be for now. They aint worth our worries.

ajayi1:
He is savings himself some heartache. Based on the fact that most people believe uni-girls usually will have their campus boyfriend. So to save himself from the roller-coaster he chooses to pend the relationship till you meet again. He probably tried distance relationship earlier and didn't work out. Especially with a girl in school who could be living with another man in the hostel.

silvermania:
This is my problem with most girls. Dat guy in your school begging for your love u ignored him to date someone u just know he works in a company u did your i. T. Thats all you know about him, well he has been using you to fill an empty space I think the main chic is back now. Take hearth

crackhouse:
but they never knack sth before. so which gap be that wey im dey fill?.

IamLEGEND1:
Why can't some people reason well?

just because his interest is wavering doesn't mean it's because she did something wrong or he's seeing someone else.

The problem has always been girls- They have this innate ability to bore guys to death.

Some guys are just better at putting up with that noñsense. but this guy sounds exactly like me.

when the sad realization of the pettiness of the things we always discuss dawns on me, I cut back on the phone calls drastically.

If the only thing you can talk about is what happened during the day or ask each other how u're doing plus all the other usual questions......... that shít gets old pretty fast.

Besides, you're no longer close....wic means you're virtually useless to me until you get back from school. I like to deal in person.

sonofananimal:
true!

You will be CHEATING and still be telling your distance guy that you love him!

And the way WOMEN behave like parasite nowadays is not something to talk about.

I guess that guy see her as a parasite and she is not making him believe that she is not a parasite

jopretty:
My dearie, the guy wasn't in love with you in the first place. Maybe he was after something he couldn't get or people are beginning to whisper some funny stuffs into his ears. I know it hurts but face your books and graduate with a good result Mr. Right/Perfect will come and he'll be head over heels in love with you and treat you like the queen you are.

Naomite:


U re the type of mistake I alway pray not 2 ever make again. Guys like u don't understand d concept of true love, and guys like u are the reason some girls turn mean. If a guy will not share my happiness, joy, sorroew, pain and even try 2 laugh at my jokes even if they aint dat funny, I guess he isn't trully in love with me. OP, my advicer 4 you is to break up with him and move on, less u'll keep getting hurt by his attitudes.

dupsil:
Ohk guys, i would try to make this short and simple. Forgive any grammatical blunder i might make though. thanks
So this is my story, am studying a 5yrs course in the Uni and am in my finals,throughout the previous years i wasnt in a relationship, i was so engrossed with school works so i could graduate with with a good G.P, I pratically didnt have time for myself. it got to a stage that my friends started pressuring me to get a boyfriend, not like i didnt have people who wanted to date me, i just wasnt ready nor interested.
After 400l, during the session break, i was on IT and met this guy where i was working,he was working at the company too as a permanent staff though. he was so nice to me and made me feel special and loved, we saw virtually every day, sometimes after work he would drop me at home and even became friends with my siblings. he asked me out and i agreed to date him, things was going smoothly bt then i had to go back to school.
After about a week in school, his attitude changed, he stopped calling, messaging or even chatting me up, i was the one calling, messaging and chatting him up, anytime i complain about his change of attitude he would say he was just busy with work and apologise bt didnt change. when i saw that he didnt change, i decided not to call him, chat him or even message and see how long it was going to last. for a whole week he didnt call and i had to call him wen i cud no longer take it. he wasnt even remorseful, just said he's bin busy and am wondering how could you be so busy and nt check on someone u claim you really care about, i asked him if he wanted a breakup bt he said no dat he cared abt me and wud change but he still hasnt. am going through so much emotional stress and i dont no what else to do. have never asked for money from him and he's never given me anytin so i kip wondering wat i did wrong, we never had sex too. please i need romancelanders help on this issue,should i just go ahead and break up with him? am in love with him and the thoughts of breaking up hurts badly. To think that my first relationship after so long didnt even last 4month

ogawisdom:


U r jst an option to him stop taking it too serious until u kw u r exclusive. It's not easy for polygamous men

Op u b learner sha, u do nt woo a man stop calling, texting or chatting him b d lady n allow him initiate it. U r wooing him n d more u do dt D more desperate n worthless u present urself.

If he doesn't initiate any communication with u in a whole week then get ready to break up n move on

femi4:
Seems he was already engaged before you guys met. He was merely flirting with you knowing fully well that after six months you would be out of sight.
He is just one of those guys that love playing with ladies emotions like toy

MrDoGood:



She should try and make him believe in her

IamLEGEND1:
Why can't some people reason well?

just because his interest is wavering doesn't mean it's because she did something wrong or he's seeing someone else.

The problem has always been girls- They have this innate ability to bore guys to death.

Some guys are just better at putting up with that noñsense. but this guy sounds exactly like me.

when the sad realization of the pettiness of the things we always discuss dawns on me, I cut back on the phone calls drastically.

If the only thing you can talk about is what happened during the day or ask each other how u're doing plus all the other usual questions......... that shít gets old pretty fast.

Besides, you're no longer close....wic means you're virtually useless to me until you get back from school. I like to deal in person.

Classicman47:

NO MORE NO LESS.

boxer022:
I believe that no amount of busyness will deprive a guy from asking of the well being of the girl he claims that he loves. You on your part tried your best in maintaining communication but he is not showing any sign of appreciation by returning those calls. I want you to call him or look for a way to let him know that his lack of communication is really affecting your relationship with him as it looks as if he does not care about you.

dupsil:
Ohk guys, i would try to make this short and simple. Forgive any grammatical blunder i might make though. thanks
So this is my story, am studying a 5yrs course in the Uni and am in my finals,throughout the previous years i wasnt in a relationship, i was so engrossed with school works so i could graduate with with a good G.P, I pratically didnt have time for myself. it got to a stage that my friends started pressuring me to get a boyfriend, not like i didnt have people who wanted to date me, i just wasnt ready nor interested.
After 400l, during the session break, i was on IT and met this guy where i was working,he was working at the company too as a permanent staff though. he was so nice to me and made me feel special and loved, we saw virtually every day, sometimes after work he would drop me at home and even became friends with my siblings. he asked me out and i agreed to date him, things was going smoothly bt then i had to go back to school.
After about a week in school, his attitude changed, he stopped calling, messaging or even chatting me up, i was the one calling, messaging and chatting him up, anytime i complain about his change of attitude he would say he was just busy with work and apologise bt didnt change. when i saw that he didnt change, i decided not to call him, chat him or even message and see how long it was going to last. for a whole week he didnt call and i had to call him wen i cud no longer take it. he wasnt even remorseful, just said he's bin busy and am wondering how could you be so busy and nt check on someone u claim you really care about, i asked him if he wanted a breakup bt he said no dat he cared abt me and wud change but he still hasnt. am going through so much emotional stress and i dont no what else to do. have never asked for money from him and he's never given me anytin so i kip wondering wat i did wrong, we never had sex too. please i need romancelanders help on this issue,should i just go ahead and break up with him? am in love with him and the thoughts of breaking up hurts badly. To think that my first relationship after so long didnt even last 4month