It all happened yesterday around 9:00am while me and a friend were outside the house gate. It seems my next flat neighbour and his wife were having an outing that morning. While we were outside, the man fully dressed with Native, he brought out his car from the compound and parked outside close to where we were, waiting for his wife to join him.
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As usual, we greeted and i and my friend continued what we were doing.
After about 3minutes, the man told somebody to help him call his wife and the person returned with a message that ''She said she is coming''...
Again, after about some minutes the man send another person, this time a girl to help him call his wife and she came with a reply ''She said she coming''
The man yelled ''O God'' and ask the girl: ''what was she doing?''
The girl replied ''she is still doing her make-up.
The man said ''Make-up?'' and the girl said ''Yes'' and she left.
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With anger in the man's face, looking furious, he just kicked his car and Zoomed off without the wife knowing. And immediately, i just told my friend that we should act as though we don't know what happened if the woman comes out, so that she won't feel ashamed/mocked or more disappointed seeing us. So we turned and faced another direction were she cannot see us directly even if she comes out.
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After some minutes, the wife hurriedly came out gorgeously dressed in her Native with her hand bag and gadget. Truly speaking she was looking beautiful. To her amazement, she didn't see her husband's car outside and she asked the little kids outside ''Where is my husband'' and they replied ''He don enter motor go''.
She was heartbroken, disappointed and angered etc. She stood for about 2minutes outside, looking in one direction, with a finger in her mouth as a drop of tears roll-down her eyes as i piped. I almost shared tears seeing her, i felt disappointed myself and bitter towards the man (i put myself in the woman's shoes that moment.)
She went back into the house and didn't go to the outing again.
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Though there was no sign of quarrel between them before now because as the house is, you can hear from your own flat what is going on in the next flat, mostly if it involves shouting. And this couples got married since December 2013.
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My question is:
Is it that the man cannot be a bit patient for his wife to look more beautifuf or is it that the man is just being wicked to the woman because the thing got me thinking since yesterday.
If this has ever happened to you as a woman you can share your thoughts.
Ishilove, lalasticlala...

Superstory..make I go bath for church

Olasco93:
It all happened yesterday around 9:00am while me and a friend were outside the house gate. It seems my next flat neighbour and his wife were having an outing that morning. While we were outside, the man fully dressed with Native, he brought out his car from the compound and parked outside close to where we were, waiting for his wife to join him.
.
As usual, we greeted and i and my friend continued what we were doing.
After about 3minutes, the man told somebody to help him call his wife and the person returned with a message that ''She said she is coming''...
Again, after about some minutes the man send another person, this time a girl to help him call his wife and she came with a reply ''She said she coming''
The man yelled ''O God'' and ask the girl: ''what was she doing?''
The girl replied ''she is still doing her make-up.
The man said ''Make-up?'' and the girl said ''Yes'' and she left.
.
With anger in the man's face, looking furious, he just kicked his car and Zoomed off without the wife knowing. And immediately, i just told my friend that we should act as though we don't know what happened if the woman comes out, so that she won't feel ashamed/mocked or more disappointed seeing us. So we turned and faced another direction were she cannot see us directly even if she comes out.
.
After some minutes, the wife hurriedly came out gorgeously dressed in her Native with her hand bag and gadget. Truly speaking she was looking beautiful. To her amazement, she didn't see her husband's car outside and she asked the little kids outside ''Where is my husband'' and they replied ''He don enter motor go''.
She was heartbroken, disappointed and angered etc. She stood for about 2minutes outside, looking in one direction, with a finger in her mouth as a drop of tears roll-down her eyes as i piped. I almost shared tears seeing her, i felt disappointed myself and bitter towards the man (i put myself in the woman's shoes that moment.)
She went back into the house and didn't go to the outing again.
.
Though there was no sign of quarrel between them before now because as the house is, you can hear from your own flat what is going on in the next flat, mostly if it involves shouting. And this couples got married since December 2013.
.
My question is:
Is it that the man cannot be a bit patient for his wife to look more beautifuf or is it that the man is just being wicked to the woman because the thing got me thinking since yesterday.
If this has ever happened to you as a woman you can share your thoughts.
Ishilove, lalasticlala...

This thing isn't easy, I tell you... The man needs some lessons of patience and understanding.

Ok yesterday was saturday


I see

To me, am ok with what the man did.
this thing will have been happening over and over again.

they will have agree that by so so time, we are leaving for the outing, a woman that know how long it will take her to make up should start her preparation on time, they will not, they will be waiting for the man to start first, knowing fully well that a man can dress up within 10-15min.

thereby keeping the man waiting unnecessarily, now that she was left behind, the man will be blame from all angle, but am sure nx time they have outing together, the woman will be the one waiting for the husband inside the car.
and that is how it should be,

Woman will be going up and down inside the house without knowing what they are even looking for.

The husband act right

Na so them dey do,them go dey do make up for one hour

But i dont think this would have happened if she own a car

I wld do same .... .over and over again

While patience is a virtue waiting endlessly cos u want to "be beautiful" for few hours doesnt make sense to me

diportivo:
I wld do same .... .over and over again

While patience is a virtue waiting endlessly cos u want to "be beautiful" for few hours doesnt make sense to me

Smh. Smh.

Evil man indeed
The woman should work hard get her own car

Oh sorry some men are funny

You can console yourself with this post it will help you

https://www.nairaland.com/2364243/15-things-lady-should-know

jcflex:
To me, am ok with what the man did.
this thing will have been happening over and over again.

they will have agree that by so so time, we are leaving for the outing, a woman that know how long it will take her to make up should start her preparation on time, they will not, they will be waiting for the man to start first, knowing fully well that a man can dress up within 10-15min.

thereby keeping the man waiting unnecessarily, now that she was left behind, the man will be blame from all angle, but am sure nx time they have outing together, the woman will be the one waiting for the husband inside the car.
and that is how it should be,

Woman will be going up and down inside the house without knowing what they are even looking for.

The husband act right

diportivo:
I wld do same .... .over and over again

While patience is a virtue waiting endlessly cos u want to "be beautiful" for few hours doesnt make sense to me

While i'm not disputing your angle of reasoning, I'd like to advise that you judge only after you have heard the woman's reason for coming out late. Taking care of chores, cooking, kids..etc.. may have caused some delay. All the man has to do is eat, have his bath and dress up..(in most cases).. while she needs to tidy up some things.

Whatever the case, I rily want to know if this function (whatever they were preparing to attend) is rily worth the pain and quarrel that will ensue upon his return.