asids55:
op..abeg stop encouraging some girls ohh...some locaristos will start playing hard to get when in reality, there is no emotional attachment to why they act like that

exactly

Always about women. They are strange creatures

Wrong

Just drill her Hard Consistently and she will be ok.


-Mr Pusidrila.

What bout the guys that don't have time to wait for you to get over the past? *jus thinking

Agubushmenyo:
We have always criticized the female folks without trying to know the root of the problem. Here are some 8 Lesson I wish we guys know about girls. Read on and be Wiser in dealing with them.

#1. If she flinches when you try to put your arm around her…someone else’s hands once wasn’t too sweet.
#2. If she's full of questions, someone else lied to her in the past. Be patient with her.
#3. If she's secretive and doesn’t tell you things outright, someone else once betrayed her trust. Prove to her you wont do the same.
#4. If she suspects every move you make, someone else wasn't transparent with her. Be different. Be transparent with her
#5. If she's cold, distant and hostile with people she's just meeting and even sometimes with you, chances are someone ABUSED her in the past. She's a victim of abuse like RAPE. She's still hurting.
#6. If she’s clingy and possessive, someone once hurt and dumped her. She's scared of being abandoned again. Assure her of your love.
#7. If she's playing hard to get, someone in her past once treated her like a doormat. She just want to be sure you are real.
#8. If she's sneaks and wants to know all about you, someone wasn't straight with her. Assure her you are different. Talk to her.
LESSON GUYS: Behind every difficult and complicated girl who Is scared to love freely is a girl who's is tired of being hurt and broken. Be patient with her.

My brother, if you have this mentally you could forever be friend zoned. Females are creation of magic. You need an encyclopedia that is large enough like the earth to study them.

Can you give reasons why the men behaved the way they do?

On your own if you allowed girls to scam you because of these.

Kenshinmunac:
#7 after waiting for so long to show you are real, she finally sends your sorry ass to the friend zone.

your head dey there.this guy is a learner.what makes him think everyone has got such patient.besides who is she for me to spend the whole years waiting for her to do what. Didn't I also have my own experience.what if all the above listed attitude was same with the girl that betrayed you.before meeting another with such again.abeg its different strokes for different folks. Don't be deceived.she might just be playing you like ludo.

You learned 8 lessons at once?

What you have written here OP sounds like you are willing to pay for someone else's mistakes and I don't think that it is your job to fix her.

Agubushmenyo:
We have always criticized the female folks without trying to know the root of the problem. Here are some 8 Lesson I wish we guys know about girls. Read on and be Wiser in dealing with them.

#1. If she flinches when you try to put your arm around her…someone else’s hands once wasn’t too sweet.
#2. If she's full of questions, someone else lied to her in the past. Be patient with her.
#3. If she's secretive and doesn’t tell you things outright, someone else once betrayed her trust. Prove to her you wont do the same.
#4. If she suspects every move you make, someone else wasn't transparent with her. Be different. Be transparent with her
#5. If she's cold, distant and hostile with people she's just meeting and even sometimes with you, chances are someone ABUSED her in the past. She's a victim of abuse like RAPE. She's still hurting.
#6. If she’s clingy and possessive, someone once hurt and dumped her. She's scared of being abandoned again. Assure her of your love.
#7. If she's playing hard to get, someone in her past once treated her like a doormat. She just want to be sure you are real.
#8. If she's sneaks and wants to know all about you, someone wasn't straight with her. Assure her you are different. Talk to her.
LESSON GUYS: Behind every difficult and complicated girl who Is scared to love freely is a girl who's is tired of being hurt and broken. Be patient with her.

Who told you all this stuff
ADAM??
Cus you really hit the nail on the head
True tok bro

mistytohcute:
hmmm, that is not totally correct

Tell am

mistytohcute:
hmmm, that is not totally correct

As in she might just be a great pretender

OP, you Nailed it !!!

What a load of bollocks

11) if she keeps asking for money and material things she is a Hoe, a broke Ass hoe... Hope you dig Op

noblegrex:
your head dey there.this guy is a learner.make makes him think everyone has got such patient.besides who is she to spend the whole years waiting. Didn't I also have my own experience.what if all the above listed attitude was same with the girl that betrayed you.before meeting another with such.ehn

You mean who wants to be like the patient dog below?



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Agubushmenyo:
We have always criticized the female folks without trying to know the root of the problem. Here are some 8 Lesson I wish we guys know about girls. Read on and be Wiser in dealing with them.

#1. If she flinches when you try to put your arm around her…someone else’s hands once wasn’t too sweet.
#2. If she's full of questions, someone else lied to her in the past. Be patient with her.
#3. If she's secretive and doesn’t tell you things outright, someone else once betrayed her trust. Prove to her you wont do the same.
#4. If she suspects every move you make, someone else wasn't transparent with her. Be different. Be transparent with her
#5. If she's cold, distant and hostile with people she's just meeting and even sometimes with you, chances are someone ABUSED her in the past. She's a victim of abuse like RAPE. She's still hurting.
#6. If she’s clingy and possessive, someone once hurt and dumped her. She's scared of being abandoned again. Assure her of your love.
#7. If she's playing hard to get, someone in her past once treated her like a doormat. She just want to be sure you are real.
#8. If she's sneaks and wants to know all about you, someone wasn't straight with her. Assure her you are different. Talk to her.
LESSON GUYS: Behind every difficult and complicated girl who Is scared to love freely is a girl who's is tired of being hurt and broken. Be patient with her.

I'll keep reiterating it, there are no fast rules to the game between the sexes. All the OP has said is mere conjecture, right within the experience of some and total hogwash within the experience of others.

Just be brutally honest with yourself with regards to what you are seeking for in your mate while asking yourself if you deserve such in the first place given your own antics and disposition.

Know what you want and know your partner. No book, no speaker, no research or technology can fully explain the dynamics of the male/female relationship. The name calling and blame apportionment will go on til we meet Him that fashioned us after His image and likeness.

It's such a convulated maze, a matrix of undecipherable proportions and all this owning to basic human nature.

Still I'll say the OP did a great job as some folks will benefit from the post.

Agubushmenyo:
We have always criticized the female folks without trying to know the root of the problem. Here are some 8 Lesson I wish we guys know about girls. Read on and be Wiser in dealing with them.

#1. If she flinches when you try to put your arm around her…someone else’s hands once wasn’t too sweet.
#2. If she's full of questions, someone else lied to her in the past. Be patient with her.
#3. If she's secretive and doesn’t tell you things outright, someone else once betrayed her trust. Prove to her you wont do the same.
#4. If she suspects every move you make, someone else wasn't transparent with her. Be different. Be transparent with her
#5. If she's cold, distant and hostile with people she's just meeting and even sometimes with you, chances are someone ABUSED her in the past. She's a victim of abuse like RAPE. She's still hurting.
#6. If she’s clingy and possessive, someone once hurt and dumped her. She's scared of being abandoned again. Assure her of your love.
#7. If she's playing hard to get, someone in her past once treated her like a doormat. She just want to be sure you are real.
#8. If she's sneaks and wants to know all about you, someone wasn't straight with her. Assure her you are different. Talk to her.
LESSON GUYS: Behind every difficult and complicated girl who Is scared to love freely is a girl who's is tired of being hurt and broken. Be patient with her.

You re right to some extent,but run girls would display all of the above characters and if a girl is using you as in side boo,she would display those characters too.

So in conclusion:
Women can't be understood.

Frank3n2:
Okay... If hie is stingy... Be patient with him, someone once used him as an atm machine ..

If he demands for sex... Be patient cos his on fire...

LAMO

at him being stingy, maybe someone once took him as dasuki

Rubbish, when she refuses to give u kpomo after spending so much for her just relax somebody has vandalize the d kpomo factory.

Princesschi:
on point like a decimal

E be like say U chop bellefull for that ya picture

Agubushmenyo:
You won't be sent to the friend zone if you really show true love . My opinion sha..

Either you're haven't met these ladies or you're trying to be mischievous. If those are truly your assertions about love and ladies, take a cue from the reply ladies give you on here, lest you'd become a romantic Dasuki....am sure you'd come back here with a counter thread in no time tho.

onyowo:
So on point!!!!? U are damn ryt

wife of rain

Quite true...but the question nw is...how long are we gonna wait for these set of species called women?

Agubushmenyo:
We have always criticized the female folks without trying to know the root of the problem. Here are some 8 Lesson I wish we guys know about girls. Read on and be Wiser in dealing with them.

#1. If she flinches when you try to put your arm around her…someone else’s hands once wasn’t too sweet.
#2. If she's full of questions, someone else lied to her in the past. Be patient with her.
#3. If she's secretive and doesn’t tell you things outright, someone else once betrayed her trust. Prove to her you wont do the same.
#4. If she suspects every move you make, someone else wasn't transparent with her. Be different. Be transparent with her
#5. If she's cold, distant and hostile with people she's just meeting and even sometimes with you, chances are someone ABUSED her in the past. She's a victim of abuse like RAPE. She's still hurting.
#6. If she’s clingy and possessive, someone once hurt and dumped her. She's scared of being abandoned again. Assure her of your love.
#7. If she's playing hard to get, someone in her past once treated her like a doormat. She just want to be sure you are real.
#8. If she's sneaks and wants to know all about you, someone wasn't straight with her. Assure her you are different. Talk to her.
LESSON GUYS: Behind every difficult and complicated girl who Is scared to love freely is a girl who's is tired of being hurt and broken. Be patient with her.

Then you have not learnt anything about women my friend

sometimes it doesn't really work DAT way

Stories by moonlight


#im_a_b!tch cause I learnt from the best. I learnt from you

sickstars:
for once i saw my love life in 8 sentences

chai