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Are Your Flaw(s) Obvious? by iceberylin(m): 7:31pm On Jan 12, 2016
I had a conversation with a female friend. She talked about her marriage.

"I thought I was getting married to a perfect man because I loved everything about him. We never slept together during courtship, thinking it's normal cause he's a pastor.
Now my Problem is he snores me and my baby up at night, we end up sleeping on the couch.
It's really affecting my marriage cause I hate this flaw so much." She claimed.

Hidden flaws will always find their way out, so try to let your partner know all about you before walking down any isle.
No matter how bad you think ya flaw is there are people who can put up with it.. Even the least flaw can't be tolerated by same people.
Be 100% and hope you find the right one.

Seun, lalasticlala help somebody somewhere...

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Re: Are Your Flaw(s) Obvious? by Nobody: 7:34pm On Jan 12, 2016
Ordinary snore ? Wat happened to ear muffs

If i ever get married d only flaws i will see is cheating

Not all dis araromi flaws i read this days

Back to ur question

Ive gat long lists of flaws ehn shocked

cry

Wish i was flawless
Re: Are Your Flaw(s) Obvious? by Nobody: 7:37pm On Jan 12, 2016
Mine is very obvious ..... Even from 6km away.undecided.

But I believe strongly that when someone trully loves us, they tend to overlook our flaws & When we love someone too, we also over look their flaws too.

In a case where someone find it hard to over look our flaws, then the love they may claim to have for us coudn't really be real & unconditional love after all. My candid opinion though.
Re: Are Your Flaw(s) Obvious? by iceberylin(m): 7:37pm On Jan 12, 2016
sickstars:
Ordinary snore ? Wat happened to ear muffs

If i ever get married d only flaws i will see is cheating

Not all dis araromi flaws i read this days

Back to ur question

Ive gat long lists of flaws ehn shocked

cry

Wish i was flawless

People are comfortable with smokers, others aren't..


Some snores aren't ordinary o
Re: Are Your Flaw(s) Obvious? by Nobody: 7:38pm On Jan 12, 2016
Just snoresgrin is You okay??

You should meet my granny! that woman is a living Generator! gringringrin and I'm still alive...cheesy

I'm so used to it, it sounds like A Lullaby to me....gringrin
get earplugs or something! let's hear word abeg!

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Re: Are Your Flaw(s) Obvious? by iceberylin(m): 7:40pm On Jan 12, 2016
Estharfabian:
Just snoresgrin is You okay??

You should meet my granny! that woman is a living Generator! gringringrin and I'm still alive...cheesy

I'm so used to it, it sounds like A Lullaby to me....gringrin
get earplugs or something! let's hear word abeg!


She has to put up with that stuff for life unlike you..

You probably visit ya granny...
And sleep next room
Re: Are Your Flaw(s) Obvious? by youngberry001(m): 7:41pm On Jan 12, 2016
Estharfabian:
Just snoresgrin is You okay??

You should meet my granny! that woman is a living Generator! gringringrin and I'm still alive...cheesy

I'm so used to it, it sounds like A Lullaby to me....gringrin
get earplugs or something! let's hear word abeg!

hahahahahaha

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Re: Are Your Flaw(s) Obvious? by ImDharay: 7:43pm On Jan 12, 2016
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Re: Are Your Flaw(s) Obvious? by Nobody: 7:43pm On Jan 12, 2016
Estharfabian:
Just snoresgrin is You okay??

You should meet my granny! that woman is a living Generator! gringringrin and I'm still alive...cheesy

I'm so used to it, it sounds like A Lullaby to me....gringrin
get earplugs or something! let's hear word abeg!

Chaiii and grandma will think she has a good grand daughter grin see how u just wash grandma pant outside for everyone to see sad she must hear dis!


Btw op ask u direct question,so leave grandma out of dis grin
Re: Are Your Flaw(s) Obvious? by Nobody: 7:45pm On Jan 12, 2016
iceberylin:


She has to put up with that stuff for life unlike you..

You probably visit ya granny...
And sleep next room
LoL!grin

FYI...I stay with my granny...I live next door to her...cool And Uh..When my granny snores?? Every one in the building Hears it...Yeap! it's that Loud!

If she can't put up with it? A simple Earplug would guarantee a Dreamful, peaceful sleep!

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Re: Are Your Flaw(s) Obvious? by Nobody: 7:45pm On Jan 12, 2016
iceberylin:


People are comfortable with smokers, others aren't..


Some snores aren't ordinary o

Yeah tru hope to kno my hobby habits before gettin married so i can find my escape route before sayin i do

Like for snoring i buy ear muffs
For smokin i buy nose nd mouth guard
For drinkin i buy same thing
For nagging i buy a very tiny almost invisible ear piece for music nd like dat like dat

grin i cannot cum nd go nd die cos i marry ?

Say wah?
Re: Are Your Flaw(s) Obvious? by Nobody: 7:47pm On Jan 12, 2016
prettythicksme:
Chaiii and grandma will think she has a good grand daughter grin see how u just wash grandma pant outside for everyone to see sad she must hear dis!


Btw op ask u direct question,so leave grandma out of dis grin
Oya, I takeet back..cry


LoL!grin she's proud of it jhoor! The snoring makes her unique...It keeps mosquitoes away!cool

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Re: Are Your Flaw(s) Obvious? by lanicky(f): 7:48pm On Jan 12, 2016
What happened to *for better, for worse vow* tongue

Lol at Estharfarbian...you must be one naughty lady. grin

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Re: Are Your Flaw(s) Obvious? by fulfillbill(m): 7:50pm On Jan 12, 2016
Some snore without even knowing they do that...heard it scares evil spirit @nite

Only an evil woman would want evil spirit around her house at nite... Op check her wella.





RABA!!!
Re: Are Your Flaw(s) Obvious? by Nobody: 7:51pm On Jan 12, 2016
iceberylin:
I had a conversation with a female friend. She talked about her marriage.

"I thought I was getting married to a perfect man because I loved everything about him. We never slept together during courtship, thinking it's normal cause he's a pastor.
Now my Problem is he snores me and my baby up at night, we end up sleeping on the couch.
It's really affecting my marriage cause I hate this flaw so much." She claimed.

Hidden flaws will always find their way out, so try to let your partner know all about you before walking down any isle.
No matter how bad you think ya flaw is there are people who can put up with it.. Even the least flaw can't be tolerated by same people.
Be 100% and hope you find the right one.

Seun, lalasticlala help somebody somewhere...
Insightful...... You should know everything about your partner before tying the knot.
Re: Are Your Flaw(s) Obvious? by iceberylin(m): 7:53pm On Jan 12, 2016
Estharfabian:
LoL!grin

FYI...I stay with my granny...I live next door to her...cool And Uh..When my granny snores?? Every one in the building Hears it...Yeap! it's that Loud!

If she can't put up with it? A simple Earplug would guarantee a Dreamful, peaceful sleep!

You started as a kid.. You're used to it but she just got into it .

I was only using her for instance sha to reach out to other hidden flaw and their owners.

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Re: Are Your Flaw(s) Obvious? by tpiah2: 7:55pm On Jan 12, 2016
pastors have suffered on this nairaland.

everything gets tagged with "pastor".
Re: Are Your Flaw(s) Obvious? by naijaboiy: 7:57pm On Jan 12, 2016
mehn I hate that snoring habit a lot sad

But I wonder what my flaw will be cos there are actually some things we do that we see nothing bad in it until we meet some people.

I think mine will be my anger issues. sad
Re: Are Your Flaw(s) Obvious? by iceberylin(m): 7:57pm On Jan 12, 2016
sickstars:


Yeah tru hope to kno my hobby habits before gettin married so i can find my escape route before sayin i do

Like for snoring i buy ear muffs
For smokin i buy nose nd mouth guard
For drinkin i buy same thing
For nagging i buy a very tiny almost invisible ear piece for music nd like dat like dat

grin i cannot cum nd go nd die cos i marry ?

Say wah?

These are the least worst imperfections people have.

How will you handle anger issues?
Become mayweather?
Re: Are Your Flaw(s) Obvious? by Nobody: 7:58pm On Jan 12, 2016
iceberylin:

You started as a kid.. You're used to it but she just got into it

I was only using her for instance sha to reach out to other hidden flaw and their owners.
@bolded, You really need to stop Assuming things...



you're bad at it...trust me!grin
Re: Are Your Flaw(s) Obvious? by Nobody: 7:59pm On Jan 12, 2016
iceberylin:


These are the least worst imperfections people have.

How will you handle anger issues?
Become mayweather?

Anger issues simple get to kno wat annoys him

Stay away from them

mayweather Me sef na bash ali
Re: Are Your Flaw(s) Obvious? by IamLEGEND1: 8:04pm On Jan 12, 2016
I'm 90% dead inside!
No empathy
hate
Remorse
regrets
affections
Just nothing!

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Re: Are Your Flaw(s) Obvious? by LaurelP(m): 8:10pm On Jan 12, 2016
sickstars:
Ordinary snore ? Wat happened to ear muffs

If i ever get married d only flaws i will see is cheating

Not all dis araromi flaws i read this days

Back to ur question

Ive gat long lists of flaws ehn shocked

cry

Wish i was flawless

You call snoring "ordinary". To me its a humongous flaw.

I can never marry a woman who snores even if she's Agbani Darego. I'm a very light sleeper, common closing and opening door distracts my sleep talk less of snoring.

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Re: Are Your Flaw(s) Obvious? by Nobody: 8:12pm On Jan 12, 2016
LaurelP:


You call snoring "ordinary". To me its a humongous flaw.

I can never marry a woman who snores even if she's Agbani Darego. I'm a very light sleeper, common closing and opening door distracts my sleep talk less of snoring.

Ear muffs bro ear muffs
Re: Are Your Flaw(s) Obvious? by misspicy(f): 8:15pm On Jan 12, 2016
Naijaboiy shocked cry cry
please embarassed
Re: Are Your Flaw(s) Obvious? by LaurelP(m): 8:18pm On Jan 12, 2016
sickstars:


Ear muffs bro ear muffs

Earmuffs till I die?
My dear marriage is not to be endured, its a lifetime journey
Re: Are Your Flaw(s) Obvious? by naijaboiy: 8:18pm On Jan 12, 2016
misspicy:
Naijaboiy shocked cry cry

please embarassed
o gi ni? cheesy
Re: Are Your Flaw(s) Obvious? by Nobody: 8:18pm On Jan 12, 2016
LaurelP:


Earmuffs till I die?
My dear marriage is not to be endured, its a lifetime journey

Den dont marry wat u cant control
Re: Are Your Flaw(s) Obvious? by misspicy(f): 8:23pm On Jan 12, 2016
naijaboiy:
o gi ni? cheesy
please modify cry
Re: Are Your Flaw(s) Obvious? by TrapLORD(m): 8:38pm On Jan 12, 2016
Flaws? Umm... My temper. And umm... My sex-drive.













Both are HIGH.
Re: Are Your Flaw(s) Obvious? by Charles4075(m): 9:01pm On Jan 12, 2016
Op, Before I get into the etiquette of poking and prodding your friend snorer of a husband, I want to make sure you know that while snoring is generally considered a minor “social” problem (though a major marital one), it can also be a serious health issue. It’s correlated with a heightened risk of both heart attack (snorers have a 34 percent greater chance of having one) and stroke (67 percent). Other problems include sleep apnea, drowsiness, irritability, lack of focus and decreased libido. In short, it’s important for her husband to determine why he’s snoring so much and the most helpful thing she can do is push him into making an appointment with a specialist for a sleep study.

And here’s my advice for anyone sharing a bed with a snorer:

1. Remember that snoring is a medical condition, not a personal failing. Don’t exacerbate your sleeplessness with an outburst of anger.

2.If “occasional” snoring has become nightly, consider together whether there have been any changes in a partner’s health or behavior that could contribute to the increase. Regardless, be gentle with your spouse and discuss this in a non-confrontational manner—and not when you both are trying to get some zzzs.

3.Wear earplugs.

4.If the snoring continues to bother you, consider sleeping separately.

I would only add this: Occasional prodding and poking are fine, but if you’re counting on a long and happy marriage, beware the resentment and shoving. Get to the heart of the matter as quickly as you can.

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Re: Are Your Flaw(s) Obvious? by iceberylin(m): 9:44pm On Jan 12, 2016
sickstars:


Anger issues simple get to kno wat annoys him

Stay away from them

mayweather Me sef na bash ali

Ignoring what anoys him can make some people angry... grin

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