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Woman Flees Nigeria To Canada To Escape FGM by Islie: 10:00pm On Jan 13, 2016
A Nigerian woman has fled the country to Winnipeg, Canada, to help her daughters escape Female Genital Mutilation.

According to CBC.ca , the woman’s father-in-law had insisted that the woman’s first daughter must undergo FGM when she was just a few months old. That procedure almost led to the death of the baby.

To avoid the same from happening to her other children, the woman who is currently pregnant with triplets sought refuge outside the shores of the country.

CBC quoted a lawyer, Bashir Khan, who assisted the woman in obtaining a refugee status in Canada as saying, the woman was forced into vehicle and driven to a rural area where she couldn’t bear to stay and watch while her first daughter was forcibly mutilated.

FGM, also known as female circumcision, involves removing all or part of the clitoris as well as, often, the labia to make young girls appear “more virginal.”

In the case of the woman’s first daughter, “they cut off too much of her clitoris, and she nearly died from the infection,” said Khan.

When she became pregnant with triplets – all female – the woman was told she could have the procedure done on the babies when they were born or abort them, Khan added.

Instead, she fled Nigeria, and arrived in Canada in November 2015, when she was 29 weeks pregnant.

“It was pretty hard for her to get refugee status,” said Khan.

She was assigned Khan as a lawyer by legal aid, who assembled the documents for her refugee status claim.

But in January, Khan uncovered a letter alleging the woman was involved in FGM and thereby aggravated assault on her first daughter.

“The minister’s consul – that is the minister of citizenship and immigration here in Winnipeg — wrote a scathing four-page letter calling my client a bad mother and saying my client should not be able to make a refugee claim,” said Khan. “Statistics tell us that ministerial interventions in the last few years have skyrocketed in the past few years.”

Khan said there was no evidence that that had taken place.

“That was something that sat uncomfortably with me, my client and the board member who heard the case,” he said.

Khan called the statements disturbing and traumatising for his client.

“This is a horrible cultural practice. The purpose of FGM is to discourage sexual promiscuity and to promote chastity,” said Khan. “Parents subject their daughters to FGM based on the social belief that a young woman who refuses to undergo this will have difficulty in labour or will be unfaithful to her husband.”

He said she was in a state of shock when he explained to her what was happening.
“She was just horrified,” he said. “It was a disturbing and uncomfortable moment. The room got really cold.”

Since then, the woman was granted refugee status.

According to Khan, the woman is currently doing well in Canada and hopes to raise her three daughters there.


www.punchng.com/woman-flees-nigeria-to-canada-to-escape-fgm/


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Re: Woman Flees Nigeria To Canada To Escape FGM by SAMBARRY: 10:09pm On Jan 13, 2016
Africans and their love for crudeness and animalistic behaviours undecided

So much for this is Africa,we're in Africa, this is how it's done.tufiaaa undecided

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Re: Woman Flees Nigeria To Canada To Escape FGM by Nobody: 10:16pm On Jan 13, 2016
I dont understand.

A grown woman gave birth to a daughter.. First of all,

IS FGM LEGAL IN NIGERIA

why run away? How will your father in law subject your daughter to torture? And you are scared of him so you ran to a foreign land to claim "Refugee Status". What happened to the Police? You cannot Sue the father in law? Na by force? This is 2016 not 1858. There is a rule of law. He can sue and CAN BE SUED!

That father in law should be arrested and charged to court for molestation and child abuse.

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Re: Woman Flees Nigeria To Canada To Escape FGM by Nobody: 10:16pm On Jan 13, 2016
Story ..visa things grin

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Re: Woman Flees Nigeria To Canada To Escape FGM by simplifyone(m): 10:17pm On Jan 13, 2016
Very good for her still some people will come here saying is our culture

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Re: Woman Flees Nigeria To Canada To Escape FGM by cold(m): 10:17pm On Jan 13, 2016
So so sad. Africa is dealing with a plethora of issues
Re: Woman Flees Nigeria To Canada To Escape FGM by vosquare: 10:17pm On Jan 13, 2016
grin grin

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Re: Woman Flees Nigeria To Canada To Escape FGM by yomalex(m): 10:17pm On Jan 13, 2016
Aaah aye o
Re: Woman Flees Nigeria To Canada To Escape FGM by brunofarad(m): 10:17pm On Jan 13, 2016
FGM
Is a sin against womanhood...

And must be stood against by all right thinking human.


Unite against FGM




ESCAPE NORMS

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Re: Woman Flees Nigeria To Canada To Escape FGM by pheyikemi: 10:18pm On Jan 13, 2016
Very wise of her
Re: Woman Flees Nigeria To Canada To Escape FGM by Musharraf: 10:18pm On Jan 13, 2016
Space booked
Re: Woman Flees Nigeria To Canada To Escape FGM by DrChatNuff: 10:18pm On Jan 13, 2016
easy excuse to foreign asylum

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Re: Woman Flees Nigeria To Canada To Escape FGM by Mintayo(m): 10:18pm On Jan 13, 2016
Do unbelievable. undecided
Re: Woman Flees Nigeria To Canada To Escape FGM by Nobody: 10:19pm On Jan 13, 2016
I suspect some lies here..
Which part of Nigeria still practise that?

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Re: Woman Flees Nigeria To Canada To Escape FGM by Remyboyhefty(m): 10:19pm On Jan 13, 2016
grin
Re: Woman Flees Nigeria To Canada To Escape FGM by ijustdey: 10:19pm On Jan 13, 2016
so, some people still carry this barbaric acts on our female children
Re: Woman Flees Nigeria To Canada To Escape FGM by 7footre(m): 10:19pm On Jan 13, 2016
Greener pasture things

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Re: Woman Flees Nigeria To Canada To Escape FGM by gokay11(m): 10:20pm On Jan 13, 2016
19th century shii
Re: Woman Flees Nigeria To Canada To Escape FGM by Disneylady(f): 10:20pm On Jan 13, 2016
This is babaric! undecided
Re: Woman Flees Nigeria To Canada To Escape FGM by Raxxye(m): 10:20pm On Jan 13, 2016
So this barbaric practice still thrives in this age and time in this country?
I don't trust Nigerians sha. They can do and say anything just to help them secure a visa to the country of their choice.
My roomie back in school told me of a Nigerian woman in the UK who was about to be repartriated. She did not want any of that so she contracted him(through a friend my roomie knows) to design a website with the woman's name and picture, declaring her wanted back in her village in the South East for a certain crime she committed against the gods of the land. The website was used in court by her lawyer to plead her case and that was how the repartriation matter died.
I just hope this is not one of such spurious claims...tarnishing our country's image just to secure assylum!

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Re: Woman Flees Nigeria To Canada To Escape FGM by DirtyGold: 10:20pm On Jan 13, 2016
Fled from what community, please?
Re: Woman Flees Nigeria To Canada To Escape FGM by optional1(f): 10:22pm On Jan 13, 2016
God 4bide ooooo

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Re: Woman Flees Nigeria To Canada To Escape FGM by bamite(m): 10:22pm On Jan 13, 2016
Re: Woman Flees Nigeria To Canada To Escape FGM by Jamean(f): 10:22pm On Jan 13, 2016
Female Genital Mutilation - the partial or total removal of the clitoris or other injury to the female genital organs for non-medical reasons.

The clitoris being a very active stimulant for sexual interests in women is cut off in the bid that it will prevent them from promiscuity. She gets married and is never interested in sex because her module has been tampered with. In an attempt to encourage hubby's efforts she moans fake sounds of pleasure and can't wait for him to roll off.....

Oh! Africa. So the men are left with the birth right of enjoying sex.

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Re: Woman Flees Nigeria To Canada To Escape FGM by AreaFada2: 10:23pm On Jan 13, 2016
SAMBARRY:
Africans and their love for crudeness and animalistic behaviours undecided

So much for this is Africa,we're in Africa, this is how it's done.tufiaaa undecided

Culture is not static. It lives & evolves.

East or West, many ancient cultures have been dropped. Like burning witches on a stake in Europe.

Many parts of Africa have abandoned FGM. Most proponents of many old ways are dying out.

However, certain aspects of our culture are very much worth preserving. With some tweaks here & there.

Generalisation does not help.

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Re: Woman Flees Nigeria To Canada To Escape FGM by osesology(m): 10:24pm On Jan 13, 2016
So these archaic, absurd, inhumane, medieval, uncivilized, retrogressive, unsaturated, odious, wrongly defined and hated practices are still being carried out in some of our communities in Nigeria till this day? Chai! so they dont want those girls to enjoy sex, abi? Tradition ko culture ni! Even when God ordered Abraham to circumcise his children, the females where excluded because the ``all-knowing God'' himself knew the negative effect it will have on them.

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Re: Woman Flees Nigeria To Canada To Escape FGM by DullardBuhari(m): 10:24pm On Jan 13, 2016
cheesy
Re: Woman Flees Nigeria To Canada To Escape FGM by wtfCode: 10:25pm On Jan 13, 2016
what exactly are they cutting out 4rm the bowel? *thinking out loud here*

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Re: Woman Flees Nigeria To Canada To Escape FGM by StOla: 10:26pm On Jan 13, 2016
I don’t know why white people are so foolish to the core.

So she ignored all other cities in her own country and other countries in Africa only to land in Canada on asylum claims?

Foolish white governments only end up admitting all sorts of potential troubles for their citizens to deal with in future.

Same way a Yoruba Nigerian who was set to be deported from the UK laid claim to requiring asylum because of boko haram. One would begin to wonder if it's not the same Nigeria that we are all resident in.
Are people not living in Southern Nigeria? Are UK nationals not working and residing in Nigeria?

No wonder fraudsters deliberately seek out white victims. Lots of money in their possession, with an ample display of foolishness.

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Re: Woman Flees Nigeria To Canada To Escape FGM by Nobody: 10:30pm On Jan 13, 2016
See what Buhari caused again grin grin


IPOB miscreants are you there?
Re: Woman Flees Nigeria To Canada To Escape FGM by skyface00(m): 10:31pm On Jan 13, 2016
Visa format ,so this format still working lolz oyibo with their pure heart

On a serious note.

The inner foreskin contains bands of densely innervated, sexually responsive tissue. They constitute a primary erogenous zone of the human penis and are important for realizing the fullness and intensity of sexual response.
God has perfected everything removing some part is like saying God made a mistakes


the most important sensory component of the penis. The foreskin contains branches of the dorsal nerve and between 10,000 and 20,000 specialized erotogenic nerve endings of several types, which are capable of sensing slight motion and stretch, subtle changes in temperature, and fine gradations in texture. Thus, up to 20,000 nerve endings are removed by circumcision. Note that the most sensitive part of the penis is the tip of the foreskin (the transitional region from external to internal prepuce). This part is always removed in circumcisions.

They have killed d real pleasures in sex for us, so gloomy

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Re: Woman Flees Nigeria To Canada To Escape FGM by lonelydora: 10:34pm On Jan 13, 2016
Female mutilation is like a buying a phone without a SIM card.

How you wan take enjoy it?

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