SeanT21:

I have nothing against being a housewife but I can not see myself in that position. I am too Ambitious and Independent. I like the idea of going out there and making my own money. I think a husband will better respect a wife that makes her own money than a woman that relies on him for everything. I do not care If I marry a billionaire, I will never be a housewife. I will be out there doing what "real women" do.

C2H5OH:

What's a "real woman"

I had no clue housewives are faker women

C2H5OH:

so that's what makes her a real woman

ifyalways:

lol

ezinne1212:

I can't be a housewife, my mum has made sure we all understand the need to have a life of our own. I need to have goals that don't center on family, it doesn't mean family won't be my number one priority. She often smiles when she hears young girls saying 'my husband said i don't have to work', her response is always, 'one day you'll understand that although you may not have to, you need to'.

C2H5OH:

husband dump

mmm good one

Do U have something 2 say

C2H5OH:

say what now

C2H5OH:

Whatever's clever. She can be whatever she wants . Long as we compatible, we good. I don't plan on ever leaving her anywae

SeanT21:

Very true.If the husband dumps U then U have something to fall back on.

C2H5OH:

what do you mean by yea right. don't know what kinda dudes you date, but i am not the one.

i love wholeheartedly. if i put the ring on it you best be sure i got you for life.

SeanT21:

Haha~~. I mean what if she is not faithful?? U do not know the future so U saying that U will keep her forver is a bunch of BS 2 me.

C2H5OH:

I have plans/remedies for that as well. Don't you worry

SeanT21:

Dear Ladies,

You get married, start a family, and have a wonderful job.One day your husband tells you that He wants U to quit your Job,stay home and take care of the family and the house.

Will U agree to be a stay-at-home wife or dispute the idea??

Can Housewives be called "real women"??

SeanT21:

WOW~~U are already planning.

C2H5OH:

Planning for what? Not you.

Remember when you stubbornly told me to be content with the fact that you hate me? I took it to heart and obliged.

noetic2:

This is not a dogmatic issue.

While the lady might feel fulfilled to be a career woman, there is bound to be neglect of the kids, the husbands/family needs are hardly met and the family's future/peace is threatened. At least this in my opinion is the basis for the broken society in UK today.

A woman should work, if the hubby does not earn enough to cater for day to day needs and future savings. when What she earns is needed for the strength of the family. But when she works out of self fulfilment, and the hubby can afford her bills, then she is sitting on a time bomb.


why work because ur husband might dump u in future? why even go into a marriage with that mindset? Every marriage is different, the individuals are different and so are circumstances. Me dont think dogma's help in marriages.

noetic2:

This is not a dogmatic issue.

While the lady might feel fulfilled to be a career woman, there is bound to be neglect of the kids, the husbands/family needs are hardly met and the family's future/peace is threatened. At least this in my opinion is the basis for the broken society in UK today.

A woman should work, if the hubby does not earn enough to cater for day to day needs and future savings. when What she earns is needed for the strength of the family. But when she works out of self fulfilment, and the hubby can afford her bills, then she is sitting on a time bomb.

SeanT21:

I meant Planning in general naa.

N Thats a LIE!!

I[b] am not saying a women should go into marriage with that mindset. I am saying that "if" it happens then she will be able to have the exact same lifestyle she had when married.I see a bunch of ladies that fall into financial trouble after divorce because they were living of their husbands.[/b]

NICE CONTRIBUTION!!