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| My Brother Making Thing More Difficult For The Family by owunne2ucheks(m): 5:06pm On Jan 20, 2016 |
We are six in the family,my parents,our eldest sister,my brother,me and my younger sister.Our parents are traders,my brother finished his NYSC in 2013 and has been job hunting since then.I just finished my HND last year and still waiting for service.My brother insisted on marrying a togolese face book friend he met last year.Without considering that what our parents need now is returns on their investments.Currently our parents business is seriously ailing.I still don't know why he rushed into the marriage he is still twenty eight.And i still don't know why the girl and her family is ancious about the marriage,because the girl is not pregnant at all.A marriage which no member of the entire family is in support of.To the extent it is only me and my parents travelled all the way from Aba to Lagos to stand for him at the marriage day.Now he has brought her to our house,my parents currently spending all they could realise from their ailing business on feeding the family.please,i welcome any good tip that will help to adress this issue for our aging family sheep will soon sink at the bottom of the ocean as a result of unwanted unreasonable overload. |
| Re: My Brother Making Thing More Difficult For The Family by eyinjuege: 5:33pm On Jan 20, 2016 |
Maybe he should be asked to leave the family house and go rent his own house for his new family. Why would be even be staying with your parents in the first place with his wife? Your parents are over nice be that. Naija parents can be enablers sef. Pls let them give him a time frame to get his acts together and leave their house for them abeg 2 Likes |
| Re: My Brother Making Thing More Difficult For The Family by yomi007k(m): 5:43pm On Jan 20, 2016 |
When one fails to plan, he Plans to Fail. 1 Like |
| Re: My Brother Making Thing More Difficult For The Family by 2sex(m): 7:19pm On Jan 20, 2016 |
Nigerians and the marriage mentality. This is how they bring in a child into the world and suffering continues. Your brother who can hardly feed himself got married. I just feel pity for the unborn child. That's a friend was looking for N20k to do introduction and yet he wants to get married. We need to really change our views towards marriage honestly speaking. |
| Re: My Brother Making Thing More Difficult For The Family by lovinam: 10:29pm On Jan 20, 2016 |
Hian! You parents should ask him to go rent an aparment. Which kain story be this? If he wants to amrry he should ne able to cater for his home. Na HBP he wants to give your parents. Una well done o |
| Re: My Brother Making Thing More Difficult For The Family by Richy4(m): 11:55pm On Jan 20, 2016 |
what a Prat....... So the first thing he remembered was marriage...... I believe your parent got this only son mentality thing in them.... Special treatment was given to him and that was what damaged him beyond comprehension.. A reasonable jobless 28 year old man will never bring a girlfriend home to his parent to even spend 2week in their home. not to talk of marriage...... I might be wrong but I believe your parent contributed to what was happening because what precisely will give him those effrontery to bring a girl home when he himself was not contributing financially towards the up keep of the house... And he did not even rent a flat or a room after the wedding and he brought the girl home for your parent to feed... imagine the temerity..... |
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