OPEN LETTER TO MY WIFE (TO BE)


Honestly, for a brighter future, one need to build his/her future around himself. Am very sure my wife (to be) is reading this short but insightful post. I so much cherish our relationship to an extent that I sincerely hope we could start building our future around ourselves. Don't be vexed why I decided to throw this issue here, but I believe the likely "reasonable" comment that might follow this will also be a plus for us. 





My beloved wife (to be), please I urge you to be prepared for our blessings (children) from God. I know that in every relationship, the responsibilities involved should be equal (50/50) which I also share same thought too, but I just want you to know that in as much as these responsibilities will be shared, never forget that you will be the one that will spend the better parts of the day with our children while I will be out their hustling and sourcing for our needs. I beg you to take care of them, remember you will be their first institution of learning, and am sure you will want them to be psychological and intellectually sound when they come of age.





Never give deaf ears to their assignments, make sure you do them well like you are preparing for your exams. Be vast in all learning and be prepared for any challenging questions  I believe our kids might ask. Don't be aggressive while answering them and please if you don't understand the questions, simply calm them down and assure them we will talk about it when am  back from work





Always allow them to communicate with you in our local dilect (yoruba), if possible any academic or indirect formal education you given them, make sure you explain them in yoruba. Speaking any other language might probably be a second option if you think they might not be able to comprehend that particular explanation you're giving them. Teach them how to pray, let them know that their prayers is what we require from them so as to always meet their needs.





I will always be their for you all and will never relent on my vow to always put a smile on all your faces. Will equally play my part in building a very healthy relationship among us. 





Till then....i still remain yours truly....