Men are cheats........ The women scream
Women are cheats..... .... The men hollered
Humans are bad............. God bellowed
God is wicked................. Atheists opined

Yes nobody is responsible for anything. It's a beautiful scenery when you see an understanding couple living in bliss..... Marriage go begin hungry you

When you see the cat and mouse couple...... Then you get a glimpse into how hell looks like.

From my experiences and relations with people, I can come to the conclusion that we all have cheating tendencies.. The people who deny this fact are those I runaway from because they are the type who can cheat on a man with his brother or father, or on a lady with her sisters. Some people just choose to repress this in their system and that's why we have some honest people.

Men love to assert their manhood through conquering females, while females assert their feminine esteem through male admiration. Nobody wants to be rejected or termed unattractive and that's inclusive of taken or married people. In this age of depreciating moral values it's very easy to be lead astray by the lures of the fun life. Nothing is sweeter than eating one's cake and still having it. But of course we all have realised that nothing appears as destructive too.

There are many ways people deal with their cheating sides. Some practise blind trust, some practice avoidance of temptation, some practise chop clean mouth. The fact is that men and women cheat in equal measure, though the men appear pained the most when we are victims of it.

Thus what are the likely practicable ways, people could handle their cheating gene without hurting their partners by their actions.

All this epistle and u didn't bring any solution

Communication is a method. Many things said are likely to be thought through and analysed. A woman could confide in her man, her admiration for a co- worker and same to the man. At least this way you know how ur partner feels about that. Many a couple have been known to be in open sexual relationships. Some men married to Lesbians have been known to knowingly turn a blind eye. The fact is what works for couple A would not work for couple B. Most importantly many partners never realise their actions to be fanning their cheating gene. A married woman could harmlessly go out on a date with a potential lover without realising he is one. Openness to our partners tends to solve many issues.

A marriage strictly based on xtian principles makes it easy to suppress the cheating gene. God's laws are very clear on faithfulness and chastity. A couple well grounded in keeping to the word would always reaffirm their faith in the marriage union by a maintaining a constant faith to their marriage vows on faithfulness

To actually not go astray is truly a conscious and concerted effort. Infact everyday you would come across a more beautiful lady whom ur wife or gf isn't worthy to tie her shoe laces and same applies to the men. But let me burst your bubble. That new girl or man only appears so attractive because they aren't urs. You haven't had them yet that's why it appears so attractive.. ..... Its always after a long time together that couples realise they were wrong to be together......... . And I say really . The human nature always believes that new is better. New is different but like I say often, sex can never be more than in - out, in - out, in - out. No matter the person you are with. Infact if truth is told the sex is averagely the same. If you never forget the vanity in love and attraction. One would always be chasing shadows to the detriment of ur relationship. There is nothing like the girl next door or the hot man next door. They are simply a mind trick by ur cheating gene attempting to becloud your judgement, that a romantic experience with the average looking girl or guy is better than ur current partner.

OP, is this the Epistle Apostle Paul wrote to the church?