My recent conversation with a close friend got me thinking. Sometime back, she got a gift for her man and the guy went around telling his friends that it was sheer stupidity, that she was trying to use gifts to buy his love. I had to ask if she was the one who asked him out first


Another school of thought is that if she buys him gifts, he assumes she's financially buoyant to take care of herself, hence never bothers about her upkeep.


Personally I love giving. If she feels like surprising me too, that will be awesome! I mean, who doesn't love opening up something from their GF once in a while?


When it comes to giving/receiving gifts from your partner, how do you feel? Are you cool with not getting a gift for an occasion? Who should give gifts more? Do you think giving/receiving gifts is a vital part of relationships?

Neva give a gift to someone to buy their love.

Cutehector:
Neva give a gift to someone to buy their love.

Why then should we give gift?
To rekindle love?

To be blunt one way or another Gifts buy love.

iceberylin:


Why then should we give gift?
To rekindle love?

To be blunt one way or another Gifts buy love.

i"l be in u.p soon..

Cutehector:
i"l be in u.p soon..

You didn't update me about that stuff..

Hope its going fine?

iceberylin:

You didn't update me about that stuff..

Hope its going fine?

its fixed, i"v gotten d admission for d post graduate

some guys can run their mouth shaaa

Gifts ke?

Exchanging gifts is a sine qua non and an integral part of every relationship. I don't think any relationship can subsist without having to share gifts, surprise our love ones often and staring at those tittilating smile on their faces. And nothing is as beautiful as staring your partner smile and moreso if you were the one who stimulated the smile.

On my part, I don't think I can involve myself in a relationship were gifts aren't exchanged, it would be humdrum and unexciting, and I must add that I love being the giver though love to be surprised too. But on my own terms I must also say and not through coaxing or coercion.

Love is about sharing ideas, opinions, companionship and gifts so yes nothing wrong with giving and receiving.

Gift put off d light oh

It should be mutual, though you give not expecting in return...but as in d op's second to the last paragraph, who wouldn't be happy receiving from that special someone

ronald4lif:
Exchanging of gifts is a sine qua non and an integral part of every relationship. I don't think any relationship can subsist without having to share gifts, surprise our love ones often and staring at those tittilating smile on their faces. And nothing is as beautiful as staring your partner smile and moreso if you were the one who stimulated the smile.

On my part, I don't think I can involve myself in a relationship were gifts aren't exchanged, it would be humdrum and unexciting, and I must add that I love being the giver though love to be surprised too. But on my own terms I must also say and not through coaxing or coercion.

Love is about sharing ideas, opinions, companionship and gifts so yes nothing wrong with giving and receiving.

My thoughts too.

abimbawealth:
It should be mutual, though you give not expecting in return...but as in d op's second to the last paragraph, who wouldn't be happy receiving from that special someone

I concur

XtraSmooth404:

I concur

*in Timaya's voice*

Babe asked for one pef Paco robane or wat ever its called. I chk jumia na 25k and na 23k dey my account so. Wat shud i do

Cutehector:
its fixed, i"v gotten d admission for d post graduate

congrats bro..
bottles on you.

ednut1:
Babe asked for one pef Paco robane or wat ever its called. I chk jumia na 25k and na 23k dey my account so. Wat shud i do

I can help with the 2k. Then we discuss how the thr33som3 will be.

Gifts are essential. unfortunately ppl term it as a means of buying d heart or love. On a normal day i can give gifts to anyone not necesarily person im in a relationship with and i also appreciate if gifts are given to me no mattter how small however dis ladies feel d man shud b d one to always b. d one giving al d time...smh for dem.

D best thing however is to keep ur gift to urself. If d occasion demands u can give it out..

XtraSmooth404:
My recent conversation with a close friend got me thinking. Sometime back, she got a gift for her man and the guy went around telling his friends that it was sheer stupidity, that she was trying to use gifts to buy his love. I had to ask if she was the one who asked him out first


Another school of thought is that if she buys him gifts, he assumes she's financially buoyant to take care of herself, hence never bothers about her upkeep.


Personally I love giving. If she feels like surprising me too, that will be awesome! I mean, who doesn't love opening up something from their GF once in a while?


When it comes to giving/receiving gifts from your partner, how do you feel? Are you cool with not getting a gift for an occasion? Who should give gifts more? Do you think giving/receiving gifts is a vital part of relationships?

Girls don suffer sha, if she doesn't give gifts, she's a gold digger; if she gives, she's trying to buy his love or too buoyant nd doesn't need care; God will deliver us from u ppl's hands,
That said: gifts can be given or received in either directions whether there's sth being celebrated or not, I especially appreciate gifts that come when there's no occasion the most like one I recently got,
so please give a gift whenever u feel like it to anyone u feel like and leave ANYBODY to think whatever they want

cc150615:

Girls don suffer sha, if she doesn't give gifts, she's a gold digger; if she gives, she's trying to buy his love or too buoyant nd doesn't need care; God will deliver us from u ppl's hands,
That said: gifts can be given or received in either directions whether there's sth being celebrated or not, I especially appreciate gifts that come when there's no occasion the most like one I recently got,
so please give a gift whenever u feel like it to anyone u feel like and leave ANYBODY to think whatever they want

Preach babe
God will deliver us too, not easy pleasing a lady.