hello Romancelanders,
I am an undergraduate student of one of Nigeria University and i got this girl i am dating back home.We really ride nice together and the trouble started when she said she was carrying my baby,i was scared at first but i can't also deny my unborn kid.
I discussed it with my friends and i was advised the deed had already been done and i also hate abortion like hell so i have to discussed it with my mum and she asked me to bring the girl home which i did and she told us we should not tamper with it and that she gonna take care of her and her unborn.
So to cut the long story short;after i returned to school few weeks later and the girl is already in our house after several meeting with her mum,So my mum take to the hospital for some treatment and she asked the clinic to run ultra sound test on her and the test result show her pregnancy was 5month hold and the fist time we had sex to the day of the test was 3mnths(we met oct26 and the test conducted early January) so she asked when we met and i told her about everything and my big sis is kind of temperamental so she asked her to pack to her parent house which she did.And the next day her mum and her sisters accompany her back to our house and to my greatest surprise her mum told my mum to pay and be responsible for her abortion which my mum refused since i wasn't the owner of the pregnant and her mum cause some commotion before they later altogether go back to their house(all this happen in my absence but i was updated through call and chart).
Later on the girl terminated the pregnancy and she called me to inform me and i replied her i ain't care about anything she do because i am really frustrated and get mad at her for doing such shitty thing,to my greatest surprise she called back the next day that since she aborted it that we should continue our relationship because she can't do without me and she do love me and started pleading and saying all such of annoying words which i totally decline.
And for the last few days now her Mum,like three big sisters of hers,her sis husband,some of her friends started calling me that i should please forgive her that we should started dating back and the are giving different excuses,like her sisters now told me that the pregnancy was really mine (after the test was conducted like twice)they told me that she cried all day and she was terribly sick. And she called days back to disturb me again that the love is too deep and she can't just let go,even sometimes i switched off my phone but she called my friends we staying together instead and sometimes like 100+ missed calls on my phone and i can't changed my sim card cos i get some very important things i am doing with the numbers. Lately now she called that she wanted to discuss something very important with my life with me and she can't say it on the phone unless we meet and her mum also said the same thing.
And now i am very frustrated and confused please what can i do since i aint know what she is up to. THANKS.
PLEASE MATURE ADVICE IS WELCOME.

As an undergrad this is just too much drama for you but if you still [b][/b]trust[b][/b]the girl then give her a second chance

Op this one pass Paul epistles now ah

(-_-) yet another love bullshit

..hey op am thirsty, I feel I should drink water; what do you think? :\


is it just me or is it becoming a norm for people to ask really stupid annoying rhetorical questions on here



young people should focus more energy on asking useful questions like

"what can I do to escape poverty forever?"

mayreeh215:
As an undergrad this is just too much drama for you but if you still [b][/b]trust[b][/b]the girl then give her a second chance

i cant just cos all my friend even my mum said we should never have anything together ever again.

Guy sincerely I don't think she is real

Awwwwwh.. This one is really serious, if I should say" the girl might still love you, but what I can't comprehend is that of her Family... I don't really get that point. I mean, why they still disturb you, even though the pregnancy has be terminated


Well, my advice for you... "Just stay faraway from her and her family, they might be up to something "Who knows!? Block her on your SIM card contact and block her in every social networks and ask your friend to do dsame as well... Life is too sweet for unserious people

RUN!!! Far from her and fast or you will pay for the baby's death.

You are already doing the right thing. Just blacklist her number to prevent her from calling you again.

Someone who can tell such a terrible lie and permit the murder of a 5 month old foetus has the tendency to harm you.

khristals:
(-_-) yet another love bullshit

..hey op am thirsty, I feel I should drink water; what do you think? :\


is it just me or is it becoming a norm for people to ask really stupid annoying rhetorical questions on here



young people should focus more energy on asking useful questions like

"what can I do to escape poverty forever?"

Lol u really funny,aint u see mature advice frm sane mind...did i mention i'm broke nd re u even rich to advice sum1 ow to stay away frm poverty...bloody saddist

She probably still loves d fact dat u stood on ur ground and took responsibility instead of denying d pregnancy...

d gal get mind sha she abort 5months pregnancy u shld av seen d sign dat she is 3months old wen u went to meet her. Any way keep ignoring her calls she will soon get tired

my guy if ur leg too short ,come borrow my own and RUN FOR YOUR DEAR LIFE.

Oga Ade.... Seems una hol well well o.Abi your P-man na Dasuki nii cos this wan wey she & her whole family don make eba for your soup hmmmmmmm na wa o. Why can't she go & meet the guy that did the "do" first time na. Abi na only you Waka come nii.... Oga. E be like say you dey even gbadun the attention sef

pinkycute:
Awwwwwh.. This one is really serious, if I should say" the girl might still love you, but what I can't comprehend is that of her Family... I don't really get that point. I mean, why they still disturb you, even though the pregnancy has be terminated


Well, my advice for you... "Just stay faraway from her and her family, they might be up to something "Who knows!? Block her on your SIM card contact and block her in every social networks and ask your friend to do dsame as well... Life is too sweet for unserious people

ma broda dis lady has a very valid point.

My guts tels me she aint real and i gues may b she wants u bak2 cova up her shame but guy 4ur own gud, move on. She wud get ova it jare and u2 would.

Shinyjay:
Oga Ade.... Seems una hol well well o.Abi your P-man na Dasuki nii cos this wan wey she & her whole family don make eba for your soup hmmmmmmm na wa o. Why can't she go & meet the guy that did the "do" first time na. Abi na only you Waka come nii.... Oga. E be like say you dey even gbadun the attention sef

Exactly op is enjoying it

pappykay0428:
Lol u really funny,aint u see mature advice frm sane mind...did i mention i'm broke nd re u even rich to advice sum1 ow to stay away frm poverty...bloody saddist

..... "matured advice" you say?

honestly if you still need someone to tell u wat to do after all of that (assuming any of those events u stated are intact true by any chance), then your credibility when it comes to handling sexual relationships can be highly questionable.

I cannot date a murderer...... She get heart to kill an innocent child,, she myt as well get heart to stab u to death when sleeping.... Run for ur life bro....



These hoes are for everybody... Aint loyal....

immediately I read that she aborted the baby, I knew she isn't real. she should have endured the remaining 4 months and come back with 'ur' child. her plea may be stronger then

hello fellow nls am plus 1 today thanking God 4 life #showsomelove

They have something in stock for you. Go back to her and you may not live to regret it

Hmmmn so you can abort at 5months?

eyeview:
They have something in stock for you. Go back to her and you may not live to regret it

love the way u use your word play

U make a nice writer

Bros I beg o.. Forgive her na haba

run and never look back.

Don't confuse yourself was she truly pregnant for you if the answer is NO stay away from the girl and her family. The girl and her family lied to you wanted you to take responsibility for a pregnancy you have no business with. Unless you know something you are not saying here stay away from the girl and her family while its ok to feel sorry for her that does not mean you should entangle yourself in a relationship with her.

Why does she and her mom want to discuss your life with you? are you not the one in your body living your life? again unless there is something you are not saying talk to your own family for support and counsel.

andromida:
Don't confuse yourself was she truly pregnant for you if the answer is NO stay away from the girl and her family. The girl and her family lied to you wanted you to take responsibility for a pregnancy you have no business with. Unless you know something you are not saying here stay away from the girl and her family while its ok to feel sorry for her that does not mean you should entangle yourself in a relationship with her.

Why does she and her mom want to discuss your life with you? are you not the one in your body living your life? again unless there is something you are not saying talk to your own family for support and counsel.

You said it all

Thanks y'all for all your advice,i really appreciate...Jah bless

she is a liar,a cheat and a murderer!


u may forgive her buh don't continue wif her....u don't love someone out of pity....

#myonepenny!

just like the beautiful angel above me


You should/can/might forgive the beetch


But never go back to her




The last thing I can do is forgive a cheating girlfriend.



She almost robed another man's seed on you







Truth is, if u go back to her

you would have difficulty trusting her


And like I tell my lovely IFEJESU ,



TRUST is a very very vital ingredient in any relationship


It's what keeps you going!




DONT GO BACK TO HER!!!




#Adonis3HasSopken