Yesterday was the very unavoidable and inevitable VALENTINE DAY! … All day long you get to see ladies wearing red and white (guys wear this colours too…pathetic) … The most annoying one is all radio station blasting love songs from all decades! ( loved the 90’s songs….cool )… I was just changing channels to get something else but had to put it off.
Its not as if I hate love or the celebration of it, but in Lagos Nigeria, Valentine is being celebrated like Christmas, which is very hyprocritic as these people actually hate each other after valentine.
Do we need a day to show love or prove you love somebody? For me I will prefer love to be celebrated everyday. And that brings about the question how do you know its love
I don’t think any love expert or therapist have truly answered this question. I read about Oprah Winfrey And Stedman love story, this couple have been together !for over 30years and not married but still together and happy!.. Or the story of Tina Turner and Erwin who were together for 27years before tying the knot in 2013, this women staying power and resilient to all cultural norms to define love wows my mind.
I see love as being together with a partner and still not being together but confident of the bond
no matter what people say, wat the world think is right, or what is culturally acceptable to norms.
I think the most important thing is to open up our minds to understand that love is BEING AND NOT BEING TOGETHER!
Rings, roses, teddy, sex,kisses , babies ,wedding, marriage does not prove love.
Love is a cord that is selfless and lingers in the heart!
The taste lingers forever!

So guys how do you know its LOVE

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It seems you're not a Nigerian but if you are, my sister I'll advise that you have a rethink.

Christ has to be the foundation

Ok

Wen u go tru his fone and he panics NOT

skarlett:
It seems you're not a Nigerian but if you are, my sister I'll advise that you have a rethink.

how does this post stipulate any race

sandraa:


how does this post stipulate any race

Not only race but culture as well, we're Africans stop using Oprah Winfrey and Tina Turner as examples, they are not Nigerians!

What exactly is your poin ma'am....if we have world aids day...


We have world health day


we have world malaria day, infact we almost a special day to reckon an event, why cnt we have a day to celebrate love for mankind


this your mentality sha.

What exactly is your poin ma'am....if we have world aids day...


We have world health day


we have world malaria day, infact we almost have a special day to reckon every event in life, and why cnt we have a day to celebrate love for mankind


this your mentality sha.

MISSNORA:
Wen u go tru his fone and he panics NOT

nice one @ Missnora