So I ran into a friend a few days ago. Actually we moved back to Nigeria from the UK together. She got married and life hasn't been the way she wanted it to be or planned it to be. I will try and break the story down as much as I can.

Apparently the guy she married doesn't want her to work, and neither is the guy doing anything serious but runs a transport business that presently not doing so well. She had advised that he gets busy with himself while the transport business serves as extra means of income

She demanded that she should get a job but the boo said she can learn to do some small chops and all and start selling. This is someone that schooled abroad, had work experiences in the UK and some guy is asking that she can't work but in the four corners of their home. Could it be the guy has a insecurity issue? Could be low self esteem?

Guys, what's your take on this?

Ladies what's your take on this?

Personally, I think your husband should make you better than he met you, invest in you where and when needed and vice versa

Tell d husband say when naija witches from him village deal with am finish and family deny am in hunger situation ..as in when he begin pick paper for floor thinking its N10, he go knw say working to earn a good living is a husband and wife business in naija.

She married a moronn.

She is even ready and willing to hustle for the family which is unusual these days.

RadicallyBlunt:
Tell d husband say when naija witches from him village deal with am finish and family deny am in hunger situation ..as in when he begin pick paper for floor thinking its N10, he go knw say working to earn a good living is a husband and wife business in naija.

Loool! I think you are the best candidate to talk some sense into the guy