When married, it is believed that everything belongs
to both partners. Is it so when it comes to money?
Many women consciously or unconsciously take money from their
husband’s pockets or wallets without the knowledge of their
spouses. For many, it is nothing, as they believe that they are
partners and whatever belongs to their husband equally belongs
to them. Some others, though, believe that is stealing because it
is done without the knowledge of the owner.

Without permission yes!

1000% stealing and its punishable by no more money 4 eye lashes and brazillian hairs.

No other names but stealing

consciously or unconsciously,[size=18pt]Yes[/size]

ask dasuki

hahaha.. The guy above isa clown!!!

Mimmy oya come and answer.

KingRex1:
hahaha.. The guy above isa clown!!!

i tell you

Some men are the cause, they are philanthropist out side their home, but are wicked and stingy to their very households, so there is no condemnation to any woman who took from her hubbys wallet to prepare food for the family.

Thats stealing.

dikeigbo2:
Some men are the cause, they are philanthropist out side their home, but are wicked and stingy to their very households, so there is no condemnation to any woman who took from her hubbys wallet to prepare food for the family.

whether the man is a philanthropist or not, stealing certainly aint the solution... and instead, communicating with that person is the key!

In as much am gonna spend it on myself or rather for something that will benefit both of us,its never stealing

MRBrownJ:


whether the man is a philanthropist or not, stealing certainly aint the solution... and instead, communicating with that person is the key!

who communicating don help



BTW stealing is bad

misspicy:

who communicating don help

BTW stealing is bad

sneaking at the dead of night to substract money from his wallet surely aint the solution, and i hate to see what she does when the wallet now becomes every night empty.

also, lets think about the audacity/disrespect/arrogance of women who do such thing.

MRBrownJ:


whether the man is a philanthropist or not, stealing certainly aint the solution... and instead, communicating with that person is the key!

I still maintain, the lady did not steal,hence the money is used for the general purpose of the whole family, the man inclusive...
Some men are .... Okanma N'ezii ( Goodman outside)

Didn't finish reading your post cos i know anytime you take something without the consent of the owner, you are stealing...ino.

It depends, if the your hubby is stingy omo na to take am, tell am later say you take money from im wallet

well if it is without his consent then its tapping,but if its with his consent ,its sharing

Yes na

The money doesn't belong to d woman

dikeigbo2:

I still maintain, the lady did not steal,hence the money is used for the general purpose of the whole family, the man inclusive...
Some men are .... Okanma N'ezii ( Goodman outside)

how can you wrongly assume that the money in the man's wallet is the family's?! what if the money was meant to pay something very important the next morning? what if the money was borrowed to him to pay for an errant?

if the wifey needs money then COMMUNICATING with her husband about her needs is THE only way.

This is why I always advise ladies to get a job before marrying. Marriage is not a poverty alleviation scheme, both parties must contribute to the financial needs of the family. Gone are the days when girls went from eating free food in their father's house to eating free food in their husband's house. Even if you're a stark illiterate, you can still sell tomatoes or pound akpu. The reason why many ladies become slaves to their husbands is because they're too lazy or proud to do 'menial' jobs. Of course there are useless men that allow their wives to shoulder all the responsibilities while they drink all day. I'm referring to ladies that are married to men that pay the house rent, sponsor the children's education and probably still provide food for the family. Don't steal his money to buy expensive weave-ons, clothes and jewelry, all so you can fit in with your peers and probably attract other men too

MRBrownJ:


how can you wrongly assume that the money in the man's wallet is the family's?! what if the money was meant to pay something very important the next morning? what if the money was borrowed to him to pay for an errant?

if the wifey needs money then COMMUNICATING with her husband about her needs is THE only way.

Its better your wife steal from you cos it still remains in the family,.than the other way round..try to understand

dikeigbo2:

Its better your wife steal from you cos it still remains in the family,.than the other way round..try to understand

i totally disagree, any form of stealing is wrong, however you want to look at it.
how is stealing gonna solve the problem at hand?! who is wifey gonna defraud when hubby's wallet is empty or when hubby is absent?!