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***------------ by Memunah(f): 10:10am On Jul 17, 2009
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Re: ***------------ by C2H5OH(f): 10:35am On Jul 17, 2009
If you do away with the text speak you might get some replies.
Re: ***------------ by chiejik(f): 11:32am On Jul 17, 2009
i hope she is not planning on going back with the HE GOAT.she should quite the relationship and wait for MR RIGHT .she will definatly get one ok
Re: ***------------ by Emperoh(m): 11:41am On Jul 17, 2009
Ask her to move on if its no you. . . . . . .I don't advice on girls going back to relationships broke up cos of cheating.
Its bound to happen again unless the initial cause was not explicitly his fault. Is he a chronic cheat?
Re: ***------------ by Memunah(f): 11:49am On Jul 17, 2009
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Re: ***------------ by omofola(f): 11:53am On Jul 17, 2009
I wouldn't advise her to just quit the relationship yet but she should look for a second option since she is not yet married to the guy so that at the end of the day she wouldn't loose out completely because in this situation am sure it will be very difficult for her to trust the guy again.
Re: ***------------ by Memunah(f): 11:57am On Jul 17, 2009
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Re: ***------------ by theolar: 12:00pm On Jul 17, 2009
I wuld advise she moves on not becos of d guy but becos of d oda lady involvd . D lady will neva let her have peace as she wuld love to be wit d fada of her child where does dat put u. Ur guy made his bed let him lie on it. It is to early to get mixd up in a very complicatd r/ship. Take heart it is well.
Re: ***------------ by frank317: 12:14pm On Jul 17, 2009
I can hear some girls call him he goat and asking @poster to leave her boyfriend. If it was a guy complaining about his girld friend, most girls will say "give her a second chance'

the question I want to ask the the poster is, "is that a guarantee that the next guy u will date will be better of if u leave ur present lover?"
He is a guy, its not like he is the one carrying the baby. since he still wants to stay with u I guess u are lucky
Re: ***------------ by emilyone(f): 1:47pm On Jul 17, 2009
Both theolar & frank have made a remarkable point

I’ll suggest your friend prays and let God direct her decision of either to stay in the r/s or not

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Re: ***------------ by gen2genius(m): 1:55pm On Jul 17, 2009
If it was a guy complaining about his girld friend, most girls will say "give her a second chance'

Yeah, that's the sort of response you get from them most times. Or this, "I don't know what I'd do" grin grin
Re: ***------------ by biola44: 2:00pm On Jul 17, 2009
she should quit cos cheating 2 dat extent is unacceptable!
will d guy accept her if she were carrying another man's baby? grin
Re: ***------------ by MissyB1(m): 2:06pm On Jul 17, 2009
Choice!!!
Life is all about choices. . . . .You choose and live with the corollary afterwards.
Can she cope with it? Would she ever be able to forgive him? Does she want to go on?

This Dude sounds like a selfish one to me . . . If he so wanted a child,
whatever made him not have one with his 'lovey dovey' instead of cheating?
I'm sure the only reason he told her about his perfidy is 'cuz there's a child involved.
I just hope Your friend chooses wisely and doesn't end up as a 'spare tyre'.

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Re: ***------------ by finguy(m): 2:13pm On Jul 17, 2009
you make it sound like she got on a boat with a guy, then they get to the middle of the atlantic oceans, then he shows her he is the beast. and she is only faced with the option of jumping in the ocean and get drowned or stick with the beast. for goodness sake, she is on the bleeping land, and there are other 3billion men on the it. why stick to the mutherfcuker!!!

better out now when there aint no ring innit, than when its too late.
Re: ***------------ by kok(m): 5:35pm On Jul 17, 2009
The situation depends on a lot of circumstances, in all, the choice is yours. The guys is bold enough to own up his faults and still wants to continue with the relationship its up to you to decide if he actually wants to have you. Check his relationship with the other lady, if it is still intact, then flee!.
Re: ***------------ by iice(f): 4:19pm On Jul 18, 2009
Missy B:

Choice!!!
Life is all about choices. . . . .You choose and live with the corollary afterwards.

Word. . .but people don't like making hard choices (relative), they want someone else to make it for them.
Re: ***------------ by kok(m): 5:19pm On Jul 18, 2009
iice:

Word. . .but people don't like making hard choices (relative), they want someone else to make it for them.

most time due to indecision, or fear of loosing out!
Re: ***------------ by obiak4(m): 10:19pm On May 20, 2016
Memunah:
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Re: ***------------ by Memunah(f): 8:46am On May 21, 2016
obiak4:
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Re: ***------------ by UEDIBO: 7:10am On Jun 08, 2016
Memunah:


Errrrnmmmm.
are you still in kogi state?
Re: ***------------ by Memunah(f): 9:46am On Jun 08, 2016
UEDIBO:
are you still in kogi state?
yea
Re: ***------------ by UEDIBO: 9:24pm On Jun 08, 2016
Memunah:

yea
WHICH PART OF KOGI STATE,
Re: ***------------ by Memunah(f): 12:34am On Jun 09, 2016
[quote author=UEDIBO post=46397682] WHICH PART OF KOGI STATE,[/quote

Lokoja

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Re: ***------------ by UEDIBO: 5:23am On Jun 09, 2016
[quote author=Memunah post=46401667][/quote]
ok. am staying at Idah.

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