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Can A Relationship Go Back Ti Exactly How It Was After One Partner Cheats? by gretop(m): 9:40pm On Mar 07, 2016
Guys/Ladies,
Can a relatiinship go back to what it was after one partner cheats?

How would you react if you were cheated on?

How would you react if you were the cheat?

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Re: Can A Relationship Go Back Ti Exactly How It Was After One Partner Cheats? by Nobody: 9:42pm On Mar 07, 2016
The relationship wont be same as b4 again.

As for the cheating, i ve neva cheated on her cool

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Re: Can A Relationship Go Back Ti Exactly How It Was After One Partner Cheats? by Meeloreh(f): 9:51pm On Mar 07, 2016
Hmmn, time they say heals things and it depends on our individual personalities on forgiveness n forgetting . Me don't easily forget things esp the ones that hurt me
Re: Can A Relationship Go Back Ti Exactly How It Was After One Partner Cheats? by gretop(m): 9:52pm On Mar 07, 2016
Please keep it up.....Dont fall into that trap

adepeter26:
The relationship wont be same as b4 again.

As for the cheating, i ve neva cheated on her cool

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Re: Can A Relationship Go Back Ti Exactly How It Was After One Partner Cheats? by Cholls(m): 9:52pm On Mar 07, 2016
my brother when an egg is broken can it be joined back exactly the way it was before it was broken?

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Re: Can A Relationship Go Back Ti Exactly How It Was After One Partner Cheats? by gabinogem(m): 9:57pm On Mar 07, 2016
Yes ofcourse...people cheat one way or the other. If u are the cheat, just know how to ask for forgiveness, & also know how to lit the fire under the àss of the relationship.

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Re: Can A Relationship Go Back Ti Exactly How It Was After One Partner Cheats? by Nobody: 9:58pm On Mar 07, 2016
In Babagida's voice, 419 is a game but when u are caught, it become a crime, mere knowing that she has cheated on him, i have enough red card, just to apply it the way Mike Dean gave it to Juan Mata
Re: Can A Relationship Go Back Ti Exactly How It Was After One Partner Cheats? by gretop(m): 10:03pm On Mar 07, 2016
Previously, I would say NO because I am self centered just like the average man but I learnt my lessons the hard way..... This time around I was the cheat and it dawned on me that we are all humans at the end of the day.... The most painful part of been a cheat is knowing that you are the cause of your partner's hurt, pain and betrayal.

Here's my 1kobo - Don't allow it to breathe when it shows off it's ugly head....You don't want to be the cause for someone's pain.

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Re: Can A Relationship Go Back Ti Exactly How It Was After One Partner Cheats? by Nobody: 10:13pm On Mar 07, 2016
gretop:
Please keep it up.....Dont fall into that trap

Lol..

Will as much not to fall into trap grin
Re: Can A Relationship Go Back Ti Exactly How It Was After One Partner Cheats? by myfantasies(f): 10:18pm On Mar 07, 2016
It won't

If my partner cheats on me it's best to forgive him and end d relationship

If i cheat i will ask for forgiveness and walk away from the relationship, cos no matter what, it will never be the same again

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Re: Can A Relationship Go Back Ti Exactly How It Was After One Partner Cheats? by prahcetomi(m): 10:22pm On Mar 07, 2016
I forgive,bt don't easily forget.
Re: Can A Relationship Go Back Ti Exactly How It Was After One Partner Cheats? by efficientleke(m): 10:27pm On Mar 07, 2016
naah... it's possible but highly unlikely... if na me.. everytime we dey together.. I go just be imagining how d guy dey take kpansh her.. no way!

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Re: Can A Relationship Go Back Ti Exactly How It Was After One Partner Cheats? by efficientleke(m): 10:29pm On Mar 07, 2016
naah... it's possible but highly unlikely... if na me.. when we dey together... I go just be imagining how d guy take kpansh her... no way!
Re: Can A Relationship Go Back Ti Exactly How It Was After One Partner Cheats? by emperorchedda(m): 11:30pm On Mar 07, 2016
efficientleke:
naah... it's possible but highly unlikely... if na me.. when we dey together... I go just be imagining how d guy take kpansh her... no way!
EXACTLY! You will keep imagining how she was moaning for the guy and if she moaned for the guy better than she did for you
Re: Can A Relationship Go Back Ti Exactly How It Was After One Partner Cheats? by Nobody: 4:29am On Mar 08, 2016
Never.
Re: Can A Relationship Go Back Ti Exactly How It Was After One Partner Cheats? by Nobody: 7:47am On Mar 08, 2016
efficientleke:
naah... it's possible but highly unlikely... if na me.. everytime we dey together.. I go just be imagining how d guy dey take kpansh her.. no way!
lol how she dey take enjoy am abi
wink
Re: Can A Relationship Go Back Ti Exactly How It Was After One Partner Cheats? by Mopricelezz(f): 8:09am On Jun 23, 2016
There is absolutely no way it can go back to the way it was. I forgive, and pretend to forget.. But trusting him again will be very hard.. Mehn!!!
Re: Can A Relationship Go Back Ti Exactly How It Was After One Partner Cheats? by foolinlove(f): 8:14am On Jun 23, 2016
NEVER.

Once a cheater, always a cheater.

Turn away and don't look back ever.
Re: Can A Relationship Go Back Ti Exactly How It Was After One Partner Cheats? by Mopricelezz(f): 8:17am On Jun 23, 2016
foolinlove:
NEVER.

Once a cheater, always a cheater.

Turn away and don't look back ever.

Your moniker reminds me of Rihanna's song
Re: Can A Relationship Go Back Ti Exactly How It Was After One Partner Cheats? by foolinlove(f): 8:18am On Jun 23, 2016
Mopricelezz:


Your moniker reminds me of Rihanna's song

It's just true. I can't stop loving a stupid man who broke my heart. I am an idiot fool.

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Re: Can A Relationship Go Back Ti Exactly How It Was After One Partner Cheats? by Mopricelezz(f): 8:32am On Jun 23, 2016
foolinlove:


It's just true. I can't stop loving a stupid man who broke my heart. I am an idiot fool.

Easy dearie, it happens and trust me you are not alone wink
Re: Can A Relationship Go Back Ti Exactly How It Was After One Partner Cheats? by foolinlove(f): 8:34am On Jun 23, 2016
Mopricelezz:


Easy dearie, it happens and trust me you are not alone wink

I know. I am so angry and can't stop crying for him. He calls me and I always have hope and pray he will come back. Even though I know he hate me and just use me for attention. I am such idiot fool. I feel like to die.
Re: Can A Relationship Go Back Ti Exactly How It Was After One Partner Cheats? by Mopricelezz(f): 8:41am On Jun 23, 2016
foolinlove:


I know. I am so angry and can't stop crying for him. He calls me and I always have hope and pray he will come back. Even though I know he hate me and just use me for attention. I am such idiot fool. I feel like to die.

Get your acts together, count your losses and MOVE On. Life goes on, it might seem hard but yes you can.. You can MOVE on
Re: Can A Relationship Go Back Ti Exactly How It Was After One Partner Cheats? by samuelUMOH(m): 8:44am On Jun 23, 2016
myfantasies:
It won't

If my partner cheats on me it's best to forgive him and end d relationship

If i cheat i will ask for forgiveness and walk away from the relationship, cos no matter what, it will never be the same again
will you be ending all relationship because of someone indsicipline act ?
Re: Can A Relationship Go Back Ti Exactly How It Was After One Partner Cheats? by myfantasies(f): 9:19am On Jun 23, 2016
samuelUMOH:
will you be ending all relationship because of someone indsicipline act ?
Bros a partner cheats dat trust will never be dere again

Dere will be strain in the relationship
Re: Can A Relationship Go Back Ti Exactly How It Was After One Partner Cheats? by Nobody: 11:01am On Jun 23, 2016
It can't be the same. I can't stand him touching me, it's irritating. I just wonder is that how he touched her, kissed her, sucked her breast and how did she respond to him.the imaginations drive me crazy. Then the lies are the worst of all, I just look at him when he talks , I don't believe a word he says most times, everything he ever said turned out to be a lie, every promise broken.
I just learnt to keep my sanity by being numb emotionally. Not caring what he says or does. He is my husband in word only, my heart is long gone. I can't continue to hurt, so I look unto God who keeps me happy. No man is worth.it. if it where a relationship I would have worked out long ago.
Re: Can A Relationship Go Back Ti Exactly How It Was After One Partner Cheats? by Nobody: 11:05am On Jun 23, 2016
There will be trust issues and constant reminder of what happened.
Re: Can A Relationship Go Back Ti Exactly How It Was After One Partner Cheats? by zeetyzin(m): 11:30am On Jun 23, 2016
Hmm...Most ppl say it wont be d same anymore.... Well, in my own case, the relationship grew stronger. We promised to be better lovers and put d past behind us.. it depends on d partners involved sha.. it can be d same if u want it to, just try.
Re: Can A Relationship Go Back Ti Exactly How It Was After One Partner Cheats? by zeetyzin(m): 11:38am On Jun 23, 2016
mizcyn:
It can't be the same. I can't stand him touching me, it's irritating. I just wonder is that how he touched her, kissed her, sucked her breast and how did she respond to him.the imaginations drive me crazy. Then the lies are the worst of all, I just look at him when he talks , I don't believe a word he says most times, everything he ever said turned out to be a lie, every promise broken.
I just learnt to keep my sanity by being numb emotionally. Not caring what he says or does. He is my husband in word only, my heart is long gone. I can't continue to hurt, so I look unto God who keeps me happy. No man is worthit. if it where a relationship I would have worked out long ago.
Maam, im sorry to pry into ur personal life..
I knw im young nd stuff.
But, do u knw u both can make it work?...
yeah, cheating in marriage is actually on a whole different level....Still u can make it work..
Is he remorseful and repentant?..Did he confess or u caught him?...Pls ill like to know.
Re: Can A Relationship Go Back Ti Exactly How It Was After One Partner Cheats? by halfricanadian(f): 11:55am On Jun 23, 2016
Yup wen im done singing beyonce lemonade album

More especially sorry i aint sorry tongue tongue

No body said u guys shdnt cheat

Bt dont stop ur other partners grinding while u cheating dats wat we cant take from cheaters
Re: Can A Relationship Go Back Ti Exactly How It Was After One Partner Cheats? by zeetyzin(m): 12:03pm On Jun 23, 2016
halfricanadian:
Yup wen im done singing beyonce lemonade album

More especially sorry i aint sorry tongue tongue

No body said u guys shdnt cheat

Bt dont stop ur other partners grinding while u cheating dats wat we cant take from cheaters
juz because an orange tastes sour, u cant say there r no sweet oranges.
Re: Can A Relationship Go Back Ti Exactly How It Was After One Partner Cheats? by halfricanadian(f): 12:18pm On Jun 23, 2016
zeetyzin:

juz because an orange tastes sour, u cant say there r no sweet oranges.

grin grin i rada slash each orange with a diamond sword period

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