Adaure4ever:
That is just a use of grammatical excuse to cover up a Polygamous and Flirting tendecies.

Why would anyone want to cover up polygamy or even flirting in an African Monarchy?

That is like saying you want to cover up the Quran in a Mosque!

Adaure4ever:
Rubbish! You Dump ur 1st wife who has been with u all these while for a notorious Edo 3 times divorcee lady.
Even if he wants to remarry, why these kind of woman with a questionable history of divorces.
The first wife will feel insulted by now.
Yet someone will jump out and be telling women to be submissive and some men will be treating women like rag..

Wonderful! ! 3 times divorcee. That is a track record. But why was she reffered to as miss as if she never married. Nawo. Anyway the two of them get pasts that are similar.

I wish u happy married life

opribo:
When young people mount positions they never thought they will get to this is what you get. In the first place how did a man who cannot manage a home get up there to now mediate into normal peoples affair. Secondly, should this be his first major assignment to divorce his lovely Yoruba wife for Benin Benin woman.

Ok now they say she has been married 3 times before, O No No No, what is this, is it because she is yellow. Now see how the great throne is been demystified by bringing in strange women from other places into the palace.

This is one of the reasons why I will always like president GEJ, he remained with his wife, he didn't do like the leaders and oba, emir and governors would do by marrying a young lady over the one that suffered with them, prayed for them to make it and tolerated their excesses when they had nothing.
GEJ stayed, the more they mocked his wife the more he loved her, his opponents used the wife as a political tool for campaign he still loved her. That is the way it should be.
Not when young men that have not even started have started to change wives at this early stage, that means if he stays on the throne like his predecessor he will have a retinue of wives.

This is one of the most stupid statements you will ever read on NL.

Man, your sense is empty.

In African Monarchy, polygamy is the norm and accepted.

Even kicking out wives that fall out of favour is frequent.

They marry many divorcees and many single mothers.

They marry as many women as they want and kick out of their harem as many as they want.

Read you history before you talk nonsense when your sense is empty.

This is not the Monarchy of Monaco or Moscow.

Have sense before you try to contribute.

I am not surprised at your sense level when someone as stupid as GEJ is your Hero. Especially because he was so weak and stupid he stayed with what many sensible men would call a complete public disgrace and let her be the Man in the relationship.

Sense, you no get!

Setaje:




It's shameful. For a long time my dad said ifa has no hand in picking obas anymore in yoruba culture. I thought it was a lie. This marriage has brought to light a whole lot of issues. The yoruba obaship has been bastardised on the alter of politics. Oba akiolu is another oba that isn't supposed to be on that throne in the first place. They don't even follow tradition anymore. When the wrong person is on the throne, there is bound to be problems and confusion. It is true everybody has a past but this woman's past is to strong. From what I have heard about the oba, they deserve each other. The woman or man an individual marries most of the time is a reflection of who they really are.........this is just the way life is. No hope for virtuous women.

Another one with empty sense.

Go and read your history to get sense.

Yoruba Obaship has not been bastardised, it is your education, your knowledge of your culture/history/traditions and your mentality that has been.

Adaure4ever:
Rubbish! You Dump ur 1st wife who has been with u all these while for a notorious Edo 3 times divorcee lady.
Even if he wants to remarry, why these kind of woman with a questionable history of divorces.
The first wife will feel insulted by now.
Yet someone will jump out and be telling women to be submissive and some men will be treating women like rag..

ya..it is the way they are..men becomes themselve when they attain power and become wealthy while women display thier true colour when the men becomes poor..so no body has any right to lanbast any woman in this forum..becos we are not our real selves untill we all have seen money and power and still the remain the loving and humble men that they are to thier wives,then they can be justified to talk..but for now we are all guilty of any thing until we all have all been tested with power, money and poverty.

Silvofitz:
Real Kings marry virgins.
How can a king marry a divorcee?
Is Wuraola really a divorcee?
If it's true, Ooni has got no class!

Then your hometown and people have never had a real King!

Gamesmart:


Another one with empty sense.

Go and read your history to get sense.

Yoruba Obaship has not been bastardised, it is your education, your knowledge of your culture/history/traditions and your mentality that has been.

If u cannot reply me or argue wivout insults your parents didn't do a good job training you.

Setaje:



If u cannot reply me or argue wivout insults your parents didn't do a good job training you.

Honestly, they did not do a good job training you by educating you on your history and sending you to good schools.

Go and learn your history and stop talking nonsense.

Adaure4ever:
Rubbish! You Dump ur 1st wife who has been with u all these while for a notorious Edo 3 times divorcee lady.
Even if he wants to remarry, why these kind of woman with a questionable history of divorces.
The first wife will feel insulted by now.
Yet someone will jump out and be telling women to be submissive and some men will be treating women like rag..

is it true she hads divorces 3 times?

Gamesmart:


Then your hometown and people have never had a real King!

I thought this ignoramus said he's "smart".

enomakos:
is it true she hads divorces 3 times?

yes.. And all her ex-husbands are still alive.

Silvofitz:

I thought this ignoramus said he's "smart".

Can you tell us the name of your Kings that only married virgins or you are just another senseless soul that does not know his roots and history?

opribo:
When young people mount positions they never thought they will get to this is what you get. In the first place how did a man who cannot manage a home get up there to now mediate into normal peoples affair. Secondly, should this be his first major assignment to divorce his lovely Yoruba wife for Benin Benin woman.

Ok now they say she has been married 3 times before, O No No No, what is this, is it because she is yellow. Now see how the great throne is been demystified by bringing in strange women from other places into the palace.

This is one of the reasons why I will always like president GEJ, he remained with his wife, he didn't do like the leaders and oba, emir and governors would do by marrying a young lady over the one that suffered with them, prayed for them to make it and tolerated their excesses when they had nothing.
GEJ stayed, the more they mocked his wife the more he loved her, his opponents used the wife as a political tool for campaign he still loved her. That is the way it should be.
Not when young men that have not even started have started to change wives at this early stage, that means if he stays on the throne like his predecessor he will have a retinue of wives.

Stop saying something you know nothing about.
The first wife and the Ooni were no more together even before he became the Ooni. So it is deem fits to re- marry, would you say because he is now Ooni, he should go back to a lady that they cannot both live peacefully.

Adaure4ever:
yes.. And all her ex-husbands are still alive.

shaa very bad o

toprealman:
Jazz de pass jazz sha......Edo jazz no be here!

Jazz de pass jazz sha......Edo jazz no be here!

Jazz de pass jazz sha......Edo jazz no be here!

How do people with this kinda thinking sleep at night ?

how do you cope with resting your mind?

Adaure4ever:
Rubbish! You Dump ur 1st wife who has been with u all these while for a notorious Edo 3 times divorcee lady.
Even if he wants to remarry, why these kind of woman with a questionable history of divorces.
The first wife will feel insulted by now.
Yet someone will jump out and be telling women to be submissive and some men will be treating women like rag..

Aunty efarabale.

If you dont know what went down,dont judge.

As for the 3 times divorcee,i guess until we hear the truth behind her previous breakups,we still can not judge anyone.

Man and woman affair is a mystery.

Eromsboy:


Wetin Esan women do you?

Help me ask am

Adaure4ever:
Rubbish! You Dump ur 1st wife who has been with u all these while for a notorious Edo 3 times divorcee lady.
Even if he wants to remarry, why these kind of woman with a questionable history of divorces.
The first wife will feel insulted by now.
Yet someone will jump out and be telling women to be submissive and some men will be treating women like rag..

With this ur comment, my eye went straight to her bosom and I deleted the admiration I had for the young lady @ the initial stage of reading the post, when I didnt have the information you just gave me

Gamesmart:


Can you tell us the name of your Kings that only married virgins or you are just another senseless soul that does not know his roots and history?

Something tells me you're poorly raised.
My comment is not for shallow-minded, gumption-destitute ignoramuses.
Back off, low lifer

Gamesmart:


This is one of the most stupid statements you will ever read on NL.

Man, your sense is empty.

In African Monarchy, polygamy is the norm and accepted.

Even kicking out wives that fall out of favour is frequent.

They marry many divorcees and many single mothers.

They marry as many women as they want and kick out of their harem as many as they want.

Read you history before you talk nonsense when your sense is empty.

This is not the Monarchy of Monaco or Moscow.

Have sense before you try to contribute.

I am not surprised at your sense level when someone as stupid as GEJ is your Hero. Especially because he was so weak and stupid he stayed with what many sensible men would call a complete public disgrace and let her be the Man in the relationship.

Sense, you no get!

So what is the difference between do called educated monarch who are supposed to handle matters differently
Anyway

Hmmm, I love Love stories. If they are both happy then I'm all over it, not that it concerns me o.

Too many kids on this thread..thus the childish comments

1. Is it a crime a divorcee should re-marry?
2. I read up there saying GEJ has only Patience as wife..says who? Havent you heard of Mrs Lott Jonathan married to ex-president ebele jonathan with 2 male children for him.
read ( http://theelitesnigeria..co.ke/2014/03/meet-president-jonathans-second-wife.html?m=1)
3. He's a human and he found happiness in someone most of you judge and condemned with her past escapades, yet you are no better.You be God
4. How many kings in Nigeria marry a virgin or responsoble for breakong the hymen of their wives? name me one please?
5. The new ooni is happy with his Edo princess,if you feel otherwise.. abeg close eye swallow your bitterness, read and give no sermon.


....Next

yoluba people just dey disturb person with their nonsense..d other 1 pack plenty yellow women full everywhere, old man wey im prick no fit stand up again.. dey waste precious to+o just like that!

Silvofitz:

Something tells me you're poorly raised.
My comment is not for shallow-minded, gumption-destitute ignoramuses.
Back off, low lifer

Something should be telling you that you are poorly raised not to know your history and culture.

Your comment was for uneducated-minded, thinking-destitute ignorant, ignoramuses like you.

Step up, lost lifer.

You said Real Kings only marry virgins? And you think you get any sense?

opribo:


So what is the difference between do called educated monarch who are supposed to handle matters differently
Anyway

Differently in what way?

Can you explain what part of your education informed you an educated man is one that does not choose who he wants to be with?

What part of your education informed you an educated man does not make a choice about what makes him happy?

What part of your education informed you an educated man does not marry someone outside his tribe?

What part of your education informed you an educated man does not see a woman worthy of matrimony because she has been married 3 times?

Is it your thinking and mentalitu that demonstrates being educated?

Gamesmart:


Something should be telling you that you are poorly raised not to know your history and culture.

Your comment was for uneducated-minded, thinking-destitute ignorant, ignoramuses like you.

Step up, lost lifer.

I can imagine, how many people you consulted before you came up with this poor response.
Your IQ is very low.

@ gamesmart

You have a few points there but your presentation is rather aggressive.

True, a king's harem traditionally is rather fluid and in the past, considered a sort of boot camp for women. However, in modern times it (harem keeping) is not really expected like that. In addition, many kings decided not to engage in polygamy or harem keeping due to the modern era as well as their personal preferences.

Being part of a king's harem is not really as easy as most women would imagine, outside the glamour and public appearances. Its hard enough even without the presence of a harem, how much more when there is one.

Silvofitz:

I can imagine, how many people you consulted before you came up with this poor response.
Your IQ is very low.

Since you believe your IQ is "high".

List the Real Kings you have had in your hometown and how you came up with the stupidity of "Real Kings marry virgins".

Which people did you consult that led you to state such stupidity in public?

tpiar:
@ gamesmart

You have a few points there but your presentation is rather aggressive.

True, a king's harem traditionally is rather fluid and in the past, considered a sort of boot camp for women. However, in modern times it (harem keeping) is not really expected like that. In addition, many kings decided not to engage in polygamy or harem keeping due to the modern era as well as their personal preferences.

Being part of a king's harem is not really as easy as most women would imagine, outside the glamour and public appearances. Its hard enough even without the presence of a harem, how much more when there is one.

That might be a fair argument, but what I am correcting this people on is their argument that "tradition is being corrupted", what they regard as "historical disqualifiers" of a Yoruba King and their complete lack of knowledge of African history, customs and traditions while postulating their Western culture as the historical norm for Africa.

Gamesmart:


That might be a fair argument, but what I am correcting this people on is their argument that "tradition is being corrupted", what they regard as "historical disqualifiers" of a Yoruba King and their complete lack of knowledge of African history, customs and traditions while postulating their Western culture as the historical norm for Africa.

it's because nowadays there's a lot of glamour which they imagine is attached to being a king's wife (impression of western society and also media photographs in African society).

However, traditionally, there was relatively less glamour attached to the position and most women would prefer avoiding such if possible if they knew what it entailed.

Not saying there is no enjoyment there, at least most times there will be money and a comfortable lifestyle, but you have to be strong spiritually to handle being a king's spouse in the Nigerian context.

tpiar:


it's because nowadays there's a lot of glamour which they imagine is attached to being a king's wife (impression of western society and also media photographs in African society).

However, traditionally, there was relatively less glamour attached to the position and most women would prefer avoiding such if possible if they knew what it entailed.

Not saying there is no enjoyment there, at least most times there will be money and a comfortable lifestyle, but you have to be strong spiritually to handle being a king's spouse in the Nigerian context.

They need to learn those facts instead of talking rubbish, confidently, about their warped knowledge of how African monarchy works.

Imagine Africans claiming it is "cultural and traditional" corruption for an African King to take a new wife or to have a King that does!!!

Completely lost people. I am sure they are the types that would even name their kids Shantella and Monishiqwaqwa instead of indigenous names.