Good day house, a female friend of mine has got some issues/problem disturbing her, and its bothers on trust and fidelity. According to her "she went over to her fiancé crib last weekend to spend some time with him, while there she happened to be having a good time and it was in the process that the fiance asked to go through her phone and she in turn demanded to go through his own phone having gone through hers, there and then she stumbled on her fiance's text messages where she saw some explicit intimate conversations with some female contacts on his phone. She confronted him about it, tho he apologised and called the female contact in her presence and accused her of starting and sending explicit messages and conversations, it ended there.

But ever since then she has been moody and find it very difficult to trust her fiancé and finds herself detesting him and acting abit rude and out of place towards him. She seems to have lost her lively self and cant focus at work, as she had high regards and expectations for him.

Please Nairalanders your candid advice and opinion is needed. She as well will also see your comments. Thanks.

just be patient with him and make sure you dnt monitor him 2 much since he even had 2 give u d phone and apologize just give him d respect and start developing trust or no relationship

That relationship is heading for the rocks pretty soon! How can you go through each others phone? Who does that? You wanna give yourself high BP? Ok now that you'v known each others secret how did it help? I know the numerous messages I receive everyday, I wouldn't be stupid to allow him read my phone else he's gonna die of heartache.

It is said dat d easiet way to get heart attack iz to go thru ur partners fone as 4 me am neva duin dat no mata d suituation It is said dat d easiet way to get heart attack iz to go thru ur partners fone as 4 me am neva duin dat no mata d suituation It is said dat d easiet way to get heart attack iz to go thru ur partners fone as 4 me am neva duin dat no mata d suituation

Sometimes I just dey ask myself, wat if my babe wants to take a peek at my phone. Wetin she go see wey go shock am?