To all the mothers (fathers can answer too) what's your answer to this question?

If she sitdown for house doing nothing, na una go still call her liability. Every woman who does business will need a baby sitter wether family member or a hired help. No woman can care for her child 24/7 365 days for years without help. Just make sure you get a good one.

Hmmm,this is a hard question o ,but I think maids are over hyped,no matter how busy a woman may be your family remains ur number one priority,so many families have been ruined by their maids

SolexxBarry:
Hmmm,this is a hard question o ,but I think maids are over hyped,no matter how busy a woman may be your family remains ur number one priority,so many families have been ruined by their maids

Also by pastors, imams, school teachers, uncles, mother in-laws secretaries etc. So where do we draw the line?

delishpot:


Also by pastors, imams, school teachers, uncles, mother in-laws secretaries etc. So where do we draw the line?

Hmmm,the thing is,families just have to be careful in bringing third parties into their private affair,i still kick against maid though from a personal experience

I will give her a straight answer:
because you aren't that flexible for her to steal and you are covered with blood of Jesus

SolexxBarry:


Hmmm,the thing is,families just have to be careful in bringing third parties into their private affair,i still kick against maid though from a personal experience

Well, yes. But the rate at which people see stay at home moms as liabilities and blood suckers, will you blame women for wanting to live up to expectations? A successful business woman whether self employed or not would need someone to care for her kids at a certain point and that is the problem. Even blood relations can abuse your kids while you are not around. Teachers, pastors and the rest can do so too. But women are not expected to be stay at home wives these days cos men turn around to say they did not contribute anything towards his financial growth. When he kicks her out or if she decided to leave the marriage, what does she fall back on?
I think the society at large needs to be re educated. Women need to be better cared for and not seen as leaches when they stay home to care for their kids. Should the marriage fail, the women should be assisted by the society to start something. That way women will be comfortable to play their roles as mother's and wives.

Mediapace:
I will give her a straight answer:
because you aren't that flexible for her to steal and you are covered with blood of Jesus

so dis is ur final answer? Seems u hav been blind to the things that happen to kids by maids...

Wives need maids... dats just d fact... maids have always been helping homes since the time of Abraham and it just can't be bypassed.


Why not someone set up a company or smth and begin to train young girls who just dnt have any families to stay with, train them how to cook, clean and wash, and instruct them on good morals.. den wives who wish to have a maid will come to this "establishment" and pick up a maid, den she will be paid by her employer at d end of d month just after d person who sought her services has paid directly into d employer's account.
See, i"m giving some very very lucrative idea nw.
And hey, it will only be legit if it's registered. And the government knws what u do. So it won't be tagged as human trafikking.