Do you know that 60 percent of men imagine they are sleeping with other girls when sleeping with their wives in other to enjoy it. The wife may not know unless they say the name of the imaginary girl.

It is called mental cheating and unfaithfulness. Your man may not be physically cheating on you but he is doing thesame thing mentally. But I will show you how to know if he is mentally cheating on you.

If he is mentally cheating on you he makes love to you without looking at your face.

He is mentally cheating on you when he likes making love with the light off.

He is cheating on you mentally when he says he won't make love to you unless you dress in a particular way.

He is cheating on you mentally when he looks at other girls even in your presence.

He is cheating on you mentally when he makes love to you and stands up immediately.

Mchew. A very stvpid post

I am not generally insultive to differing opinions, so OP please read your post again. Re-edit Any part that makes u ashamed, and if you realise every part makes you ashamed. Please scream very loud to any available mod. So they delete this thread before it goes public. My bad its already public. Bye bye

This OP is a pevert.

amtaken:
This OP is a pevert.

HI

amtaken:
This OP is a pevert.

HI

mentall disturbed OP

Lol. What are you, the thought police? Of course, he fantasizes about other women from time to time. He's married not dead! And it's not just the bullshyt figure of 60% you quite obviously pulled out from your arse, either - nor, is it, as you blindly opined per the OP, strictly a male practice - but an act squarely 99.999999% of the population, male and female (gasp!), engage in; some of them on a regular basis (gasp again).

If you have a lasting problem with this, or insist on pathetically labeling it "mental cheating and unfaithfulness" as you've done, your insecurities are of epic proportions, and you might also consider that you're perhaps the unfortunate subject of a psychological problem of sorts, needing swift remedy.

EnlightenedSoul:
Lol. What are you, the thought police? Of course, he fantasizes about other women from time to time. He's married not dead! And it's not just the bullshyt figure of 60% you quite obviously pulled out from your arse, either - nor, is it, as you blindly opined per the OP, strictly a male practice - but an act squarely 99.999999% of the population, male and female (gasp!), engage in; some of them on a regular basis (gasp again).

If you have a lasting problem with this, or insist on pathetically labeling it "mental cheating and unfaithfulness" as you've done, your insecurities are of epic proportions, and you might also consider that you're perhaps the unfortunate subject of a psychological problem of sorts, needing swift remedy.

take it easy dear, to mention a man's bottoms without provocation is provocative. But I laughed at that oh. Uppercut. Anyway op re edit ur post to include both sexes as madam pointed out. Fact is that everybody does it. I encourage it sef especially the fantasy part, makes ladies approach orgasm faster. Most times those thoughts end immediately after the hoo-ha. By ur analogy my gf is lesbian then. Cos we talk dirty asides gay things. And when the dirty talk isn't happening. Am sure the dirty thoughts are happening. Op take a chill pill oh

Eddygourdo:
I am not generally insultive to differing opinions, so OP please read your post again. Re-edit Any part that makes u ashamed, and if you realise every part makes you ashamed. Please scream very loud to any available mod. So they delete this thread before it goes public. My bad its already public. Bye bye

Looool

why are people foaming at the mouth here like it isn't true? adongerrit.

the only addition to this post is that women are also guilty of this and the percentage of men in this category is probably higher than the OP quoted.

Women are the best example 4 dis. Believe me. D OP is right.

EnlightenedSoul:
Lol. What are you, the thought police? Of course, he fantasizes about other women from time to time. He's married not dead! And it's not just the bullshyt figure of 60% you quite obviously pulled out from your arse, either - nor, is it, as you blindly opined per the OP, strictly a male practice - but an act squarely 99.999999% of the population, male and female (gasp!), engage in; some of them on a regular basis (gasp again).

If you have a lasting problem with this, or insist on pathetically labeling it "mental cheating and unfaithfulness" as you've done, your insecurities are of epic proportions, and you might also consider that you're perhaps the unfortunate subject of a psychological problem of sorts, needing swift remedy.

u are 100% correct. wish I could buy u lunch, for this simple truth.
although its not a healthy practice .

Eddygourdo:
take it easy dear, to mention a man's bottoms without provocation is provocative. But I laughed at that oh. Uppercut. Anyway op re edit ur post to include both sexes as madam pointed out. Fact is that everybody does it. I encourage it sef especially the fantasy part, makes ladies approach orgasm faster. Most times those thoughts end immediately after the hoo-ha. By ur analogy my gf is lesbian then. Cos we talk dirty asides gay things. And when the dirty talk isn't happening. Am sure the dirty thoughts are happening. Op take a chill pill oh

I wasn't trying to be provocative or anything. It's a figure of speech. The OP's post has a shockingly unnecessarily alarmist attitude, to the thought level, about something that is biological directive and completely natural. Although, upon re-reading the comment, I suppose I could see how the wording could be construed as provocative or otherwise offensive, but that wasn't my intention.

Well, there's a stark line between fantasy and reality. Plenty of folks out there get off on dirty talk and/or fantasies regarding scenarios they wouldn't be interested in IRL. They get off more on visualizing the risqué, taboo, illicit nature of whatever the act may be. On the other hand, the opposite is also true, and there are others who tend to fantasize about exactly the scenarios they'd like to actualize, so I wouldn't know your GF's orientation based solely on the type of dirty talk she likes. I've heard of some straight women having the stray girl-on-girl fantasy here and there, but that isn't something I've ever experienced, even as someone who's occasionally hit on by other women, and was once kissed on by some chick I met through a friend at a party.

She'd broken up with her BF at said party, and we were consoling her. Friend went off to go grab some drinks, etc. Meanwhile, I was making some matter-of-fact observations - that she was a smart and pretty girl that could def do leagues better than dude Beaverteeth McJiggle-lard I'd gotten a glimpse of earlier, whom I was frankly appalled was the guy in question, etc. Her face fluctuated somewhere between offense and flattery for a moment. And then, next thing I know, I was being assaulted by the distinct taste of sugary alcohol mouth w/ a hint of salt. I deftly reflex-slapped her straight into next year. Oops. I later learned she was Bi, and reparations were made ("I'm sorry, it was a reflex" ), but she effing hated me after that, which I was OK with TBH.

Kinda true though. I once dated a girl that wasn't my spec and I was guilty of almost all of those points.

Ajinoride:



u are 100% correct. wish I could buy u lunch, for this simple truth.
although its not a healthy practice .

Lolll. That made me laugh, 'cuz someone's been stealing my lunches at work lately, which has meant moving my lunch break and calling X to bring or buy me another lunch. Just this weekend, I filled a shift for a coworker and brought some eggplant lasagna I'd made. Stolen. I went in today, and saw the container I'd brought it in placed neatly near the sink, clean and dried. I couldn't help but be amused. What an interesting set of morals this here lunch larcenist is working with. Whatever lost, misguided soul keeps stealing my lunch, I hope he can sleep at night

It's fairly harmless. I don't think it's unhealthy unless it's a LT committed partner that you're constantly fantasizing away, i.e, essentially completely erasing. In which case, you'd be wise to reassess yourself and your relationship and/or dump him/her, if necessary. Some folks are actually in happy relationships, but have a high sex drive or what have you, and just can't help it. Whatever the case, most people, understandably, don't have the capacity to be open enough to discuss such things as a couple so it's probs best to keep it to yourself.

EnlightenedSoul:
And then, next thing I know, I was being assaulted by the distinct taste of sugary alcohol mouth w/ a hint of salt. I deftly reflex-slapped her straight into next year.

All I wanna know is was she hot ?

@op - We always notice if a hot sexy girl or a fine hunk walks by , it makes us human. I don't see it as cheating as long as you don't take the step of wooing and subsequently hooking up with him/her.

neoapocalypse:



All I wanna know is was she hot ?

@op - We always notice if a hot sexy girl or a fine hunk walks by , it makes us human. I don't see it as cheating as long as you don't take the step of wooing and subsequently hooking up with him/her.

Hey, you. Lolll, typical male line of questioning. Well, I won't oblige you.

Ya, I'm not proud of my reaction, tho. The truth is, it wasn't strictly a reaction to her at all, but a culmination of other things I was dealing with at the time. I used to get ridiculously angry as a kid. It was a fairly rare occurrence, but every so often, especially throughout my teenage years, it'd build up to a boiling point to the extent that there was just no telling what I'd do. My ears would turn beet freakin' red, I would almost quite literally see red, and experience anger the likes of which I simply couldn't control. As time's gone by, I've been able to get it down to a science. The last time I got so angry was maybe some odd 4 or so years ago. This was pretty much as mild as they come, tbh. Someone got slapped and that was that.

EnlightenedSoul:


Hey, you. Lolll, typical male line of questioning. Well, I won't oblige you.

Ya, I'm not proud of my reaction, tho. The truth is, it wasn't strictly a reaction to her at all, but a culmination of other things I was dealing with at the time. I used to get ridiculously angry as a kid. It was a fairly rare occurrence, but every so often, especially throughout my teenage years, it'd build up to a boiling point to the extent that there was just no telling what I'd do. My ears would turn beet freakin' red, I would almost quite literally see red, and experience anger the likes of which I simply couldn't control. As time's gone by, I've been able to get it down to a science. The last time I got so angry was maybe some odd 4 or so years ago. This was pretty much as mild as they come, tbh. Someone got slapped and that was that.

Don't mind me I was just yanking your chain.

A lot of people had to deal with anger issues as teens , I was no exception as my anger was legendary but there's always that point where an event often changes our temperament - for better or worse.

How you doing ?

neoapocalypse:


Don't mind me I was just yanking your chain.

A lot of people had to deal with anger issues as teens , I was no exception as my anger was legendary but there's always that point where an event often changes our temperament - for better or worse.

How you doing?

Hey, don't sweat it

Ain't that the truth. Well, I almost don't believe you @ bold. But then, people don't believe me when I tell 'em I have a sleeping temper, unless they've known me since. I take it as a good sign.

I'm doing fine. Busy, but winter weather's out of the way. HBU?