A friend sent this to me now on Facebook, she needs this advise urgently.


I'm into a relationship with a guy, its less than two months now. We love each other very much but the problem is that there's this other girl who has been on his neck long before he knew me. He said she is very rich and has been asking him to date her even if it means double dating. But i cant let him double date because he cant handle it. This girl is very much accepted in his family but im yet to know his family. I'm so confused because it seems like i am weak to stand up and fight for him. Should i leave for her or should i let him double date or should i confront this girl?
Please help me out.

The table has turn around, chicks fighting over guys since 2016.

A friend? What's the name of your friend?
Ps! Ask for help if u need it, that first paragraph is always a huge turn off..

I like stories like this.

ThuGnificenX:
A friend? What's the name of your friend?
Ps! Ask for help if u need it, that first paragraph is always a huge turn off..

can a male be asking for such advise ? If you have any suggestion kindly drop it pls.

Someone should please help me and invite the mods to move this to front page. If invite them myself they won't come...check my signature

Dere is nothing u /ur friend can do about it, it's up to the guy

Wat if you end up fighting for him den tomorrow he leaves u for the girl or someone different entirely

Fighting over a guy is not a good idea, d guy knows who/what his heart desires, u can't change dat by fighting, he will still go for who his heart desires

If something is urs, no matter how far it goes, it will eventually come back to you someday

Don't ever fight for a man!





I tink u shud giv him a break

I'm tired of such stories like this..
Abeg tell her to give a break...
Confront wetin? Is he the only guy on earth..
Why would he fight over him? Shey if they are meant together, the guy no go come to her?

myfantasies:
Dere is nothing u /ur friend can do about it, it's up to the guy

Wat if you end up fighting for him den tomorrow he leaves u for the girl or someone different entirely

Fighting over a guy is not a good idea, d guy knows who/what his heart desires, u can't change dat by fighting, he will still go for who his heart desires

If something is urs, no matter how far it goes, it will eventually come back to you someday

My Fantasies has spoken. But wait oo. Is she truly mine or are we in an open relationship

sinaj:
Don't ever fight for a man!





I tink u shud giv him a break

lol... You mean you can't fight to have me. Now I know better


On a serious note, one can fight indirectly to keep who he/she truly desire. Though not physical fight or making it appear as if one is desperate. Just try to win his/her heart and if he/she isn't getting your point, you take a walk.

Life goes on, and perhaps in a more beautiful way without he/she

Me, I can not fight for any girl ooh, if she can't fight for herself, let her be calm.

Op, it is left for the guy. Ur friend had three options and leaving the guy is not one of her options, Ee hard oh

Talk to him

His reaction would let u kno if he cares for u

Really really talk to him let him kno ow u feel
If he respects u value u he wud correct d oda girl nd caution her

Lovelynature:
lol... You mean you can't fight to have me. Now I know better


On a serious note, one can fight indirectly to keep who he/she truly desire. Though not physical fight or making it appear as if one is desperate. Just try to win his/her heart and if he/she isn't getting your point, you take a walk.

Life goes on, and perhaps in a more beautiful way without he/she

Indirectly u say.

First of all, u can't force a man to love or go against his heart.

When I said give him a break, I didn't mean she should let go.



It will make the both of them reflect on the situation, if the man really luv her, during the break he will call her nd might talk things over with her