Bisi Adewale
Many Ladies are known to base their marital decisions on things that will not endure these has led many of them into wrong marriages and life time bondage,we need to check them out here and deal with them:

1) HEIGHT: Every girl dream is a tall,dark guy with a Baritone voice,I wonder where they got the idea that tall guys are better in marriage. Hey Girls,tall guy can give you tall problems it is not the height that matters but the depth of the guy in God and in character.

2) MUSCLE: Muscular guys,heavy looking guys are also lucky,they are seen to be good suitors, girls do say "they look manly" "they look like real men". Sorry Girls,muscles do not make a man,character and ability to shoulder responsibility do. A guy with Muscle without character will use his muscles to deal with you and batter your beautiful face.

3) A WELL SET HOUSE: A guy with a well set house is the dream of any girl any day. Many girls will trow caution into the wind to grab a man who has a house with King size;beautiful Italian Settee,micro wave oven,well stock freezer,home theater,Refrigerator,Gas cooker,Plasma TV,6 by 6 bed,well stuff Kitchen,Dinning table,Laundering marching,dish washers,split unit air conditioner etc is a dream catch for girls any day. Sorry girl,a well set house is good but it may be a well set trouble if the guy is not a man of character,manners or discretion he will make the house look like a prison yard for you.

4) FAT BANK ACCOUNT: Girls are found of
Trying to know how rich a guy is by Checking the guys phones for alerts from their banks. They joyfully decide to marry a guy when they discover the guy is very rich with fat Bank balance. What a mistake? They don't want to know where the money is coming from,they don't even want to know what the guy does for a living what concern them is the money that is available to be spent,many girls ended up finding themselves entangled for life in this kind of situation,don't base your marriage on GREED it won't turn to GREEN.

5) PLACE OF WORK: Some of our girls are in the habit of making marital decision base on the place a guy works. You dare not talk of marriage to them if you are a Teacher or civil servant,you dare not toast them if you are working with a small firm, or one man Business. What an error? Girls note that, that a guy works in ACCESS BANK does not mean he will give you ACCESS to his heart or peace of mind. A guy that works in SHELL may put your life in a SHELL forever, you may not be the FIRST in the life a guy that works in FIRST BANK, a guy that work in GUARANTEE BANK may not GUARANTEE your future. He may be working in NESTLE but not SETTLE you at home,So it it is not about where they are working but about who is working in them

http://www.familyparliament.com/8013/6-wrong-things-girls-check-before-marrying-a-guy-part-1

Some sense... Thats why we have many 30+ going to seek spiritual help at the long run.

i dont see anything wrong with a man having all of the above and i dont see anything wrong with a girl expecting a guy to have all of the above before accepting his proposal.

some ladies are born with a silver spoon while others are born with wooden spoon. you dont expect the daughter of Otedollar to settle for a man living in one bedroom.
before you ask a girl out, check her background and lifestyle if she is way above your league, pls look elsewhere in order to avoid unnecessary lamentations on NL.

Realhommie:
Some sense... Thats why we have many 30+ going to seek spiritual help at the long run.

nope the reason we have many 30+ ladies is because most men nowadays are not manageable let alone marriageable.
they are liars, serial cheats, and broke. Ladies are wiser now, they have refused to believe in the lie that marriage defines you or brings happiness. instead they choose to be 30+ and happy than living in bondage.

CAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAARS

I don't see anything wrong in a lady requiring those before accepting a proposal. If you are broke go for a broke girl.

No man is made perfect.... If ur waiting for a perfect guy, u go wait till dah Kingdom come...

Nnemuka:

nope the reason we have many 30+ ladies is because most men nowadays are not manageable let alone marriageable.
they are liars, serial cheats, and broke. Ladies are wiser now, they have refused to believe in the lie that marriage defines you or brings happiness. instead they choose to be 30+ and happy than living in bondage.

You said most men, right? What's the percentage compared to women in that regard? Lower i bet you..

Women are the most unmanageable let alone marriageable.. They are the most liars and serial 'CHEATS'. They're so broke that they need to be. dependent on men for their survival, Lol. They've become so rude, arrogant, mannerless and carefree in the name of civilization..

You say they've become wiser and hv refused to believe in what lie? SMH. Keep deceiving urself. Yet these ladies who now choose to be 30+ and happy than living in bondage are miserable within and which the tables would turn, they still secretly crave marriage even in their 40's.

Babe no talk am agn abeg...