We all know that to find a soulmate isn't easy, then when u finally find the one your willing to spend ur life with, your family disagrees. Their reason being tribe or religion or social status...
What's ur opinion on this?

But for the reasons stated above, u ought to convince ur ppl. Those reasons u stated aint big deal to some families, but to some, it's a no no.

Before i got married my mom use to say ur second wife can be any tribe of ur choice but the first she insists must be our tribe! She never explained but as i grew older, i reasoned with her. Love u mom!

That's just the definition of problem

I will fight for what I feel no matter what..but eventually, my family is pushing me to settle down now but I don't want..they can't do anything but juz respect my decision..

It depends on how treats me if its good family will accept it like dat i do wat i like dem know me


But if he treats me bad family all d way o

Yes, imfact the one my family disapprove is the one am hell bent on marrying, am the one that gets to spend the rest of my life with her not my family and there must be something i see in her that my family isn't seeing

Jonathan2787:
Yes, imfact the one my family disapprove is the one am hell bent on marrying, am the one that gets to spend the rest of my life with her not my family and there must be something i see in her that my family isn't seeing

Be careful

ask them why first o

Thank God i won't be getting married.

halfricanadian:

Be careful
ask them why first o

families are egocentric.

Olusanya333:
families are egocentric.

I know well all the best

But its not fair marrying a lady that will never feel loved warm or comfortable around ur family
When she is already a member dat shii hurts o


Just let them see d good in her nd pray bou it

First off, I would never even date a a guy outside my religion
Secondly my family don't care about tribe but even if they did, its easy to persuade them on that
Social status? I don't care about that as long as he is ambitious and not content with a less than average life.

If I really love someone, my family have no say tbh
My life, My rules

halfricanadian:


I know well all the best

But its not fair marrying a lady that will never feel loved warm or comfortable around ur family
When she is already a member dat shii hurts o


Just let them see d good in her nd pray bou it

Family? That is the exact reason i choose celibacy. Imagine mum saying things like "you no fit marry igbo girl" nd dad "no Akure woman" like someone interfered in their affairs when they get married. Well I have got younger ones they will do as they please.

Olusanya333:
Family? That is the exact reason i choose celibacy. Imagine mum saying things like "you no fit marry igbo girl" nd dad "no Akure woman" like someone interfered in their affairs when they get married. Well I have got younger ones they will do as they please.

Hmmmm it hurts sorry

Find a good girl from d tribe dey want na

MissGdope:
First off, I would never even date a a guy outside my religion
Secondly my family don't care about tribe but even if they did, its easy to persuade them on that
Social status? I don't care about that as long as he is ambitious and not content with a less than average life.

If I really love someone, my family have no say tbh
My life, My rules

kikiki.... And what miss is your religion

halfricanadian:


Hmmmm it hurts sorry

Find a good girl from d tribe dey want na

my brother will do just dat. As for me i no get time

Olusanya333:
my brother will do just dat. As for me i no get time

So u will just have gf?

If d orente no complain her family will o

Her mum is a Mrs nd her dreams is for her girl to b a Mrs too nd gain societal respect

sadly a married woman is much more respected in the society a 32yr old single lady wud b termed as a youth in churches nd not part of good women cos no hubby

halfricanadian:


So u will just have gf?

If d orente no complain her family will o

Her mum is a Mrs nd her dreams is for her girl to b a Mrs too nd gain societal respect

sadly a married woman is much more respected in the society a 32yr old single lady wud b termed as a youth in churches nd not part of good women cos no hubby

since i have no plans for marriage keeping a gf will be wasting somebody else's time, which to me is wickedness. So i will make do without one.

Olusanya333:
since i have no plans for marriage keeping a gf will be wasting somebody else's time, which to me is wickedness. So i will make do without one.

wow

Good luck to you

halfricanadian:


Hmmmm it hurts sorry

Find a good girl from d tribe dey want na

issorite hmm

robosky02:


issorite hmm

issokay too

halfricanadian:


issokay too

whats you race

robosky02:


whats you race

An alien just like stars on earth

halfricanadian:


An alien just like stars on earth

ok welcome miss alien

to africa so now your


halfricanadian

halfricanadian:


Be careful

ask them why first o

shes good enough for me, thats all the opinion i need

Yes i will. But i can't marry anyone outside of my religion. Itz my life to leave not my family.

Olusanya333:
kikiki.... And what miss is your religion

Christian

MissGdope:
Christian

I doubt as much.

Olusanya333:
I doubt as much.

why doubt?

MissGdope:
why doubt?

oops..... Never mind

Since my people don approve halfricanadian, dat question na for singles ooo. We're good to go! *dancing_awilo*

discoprophet:
Since my people don approve halfricanadian, dat question na for singles ooo.
We're good to go!
*dancing_awilo*

U nd who?

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