A friend of mine has been dating this guy she met in school for 2months now. The relationship has been ok and smooth but she found out recently that she is 2yrs older than this guy. This guy is well built n physically ok. its hard to believe not until she showed me an evidence. Its really bothering her but I have tried to talk to her that if she loves him, age is nothing, moreover, this guy is matured, loving, caring, simple n physically good (with packs...lol).
Now how more can I convince her. I notice that her show of affection has decline a bit. I want them togeda cos I kno d guy loves her so much. How more do I talk to her? Its just 2yrs.

mtcheeeew! she is not serious

simply talk to the guy about the age prblm because from your post it seems it's just the girl that hv prblm with it or perhaps the guy doesn't knw yet but I believe the guy will handle it in a mature way than d way d grl is going abt it.

Av always dated gals older dan me and it was nice. Age no be barrier

I use to think love supersede everything (age inclusive),if my assertion is correct,then I think the relationship is not yet well established.

funkyglitz:
simply talk to the guy about the age prblm because from your post it seems it's just the girl that hv prblm with it or perhaps the guy doesn't knw yet but I believe the guy will handle it in a mature way than d way d grl is going abt it.

the guy doesn't but even if he does, he doesn't care abt that. He is evn a yr more than my friend in schl.

Tell your friend to break up with him and watch another take her place







Confused lady

Don't try convincing her to be with anyone. Relationship is a choice. If she thinks she can't cope with dating someone younger than her, she shouldn't be made to. In the real sense, women age faster than men and in a few years time, she would mostly likely look like his mum (not in all cases tho). Anyways, the fact that you want them together doesn't mean they should be together...talk to her once more and if she still insists on opting out then let her be.

Majesticniyi:
Don't try convincing her to be with anyone. Relationship is a choice. If she thinks she can't cope with dating someone younger than her, she shouldn't be made to. In the real sense, women age faster than men and in a few years time, she would mostly likely look like his mum (not in all cases tho). Anyways, the fact that you want them together doesn't mean they should be together...talk to her once more and if she still insists on opting out then let her be.

She doesn't really want out. She is just confused.

Monalisa185:
very simple... follow these easy steps..

* go to the market, like ASAP.

* look for the oldest coconut in the market, as in that one that's always very difficult to break.

* rush back to her place with the coconut.

* write 'YOU BE MUMU' on a piece of paper and sellotape it on the coconut

* target her bald head from a-5 storey building

* then use all your energy to break the coconut on her head...

in 2, 3 to 5 seconds, her brain go reset with immediate effect...

you welcome in advance

Lolz u no well

Smartguy001:

Lolz u no well

lol... you should be hailing me sf

Smartguy001:

Lolz u no well

lol... you should be hailing me sf

Monalisa185:


lol... you should be hailing me sf

Oya double gbosa 4u...

Monalisa185:


lol... you should be hailing me sf

Oya double gbosa 4u... [b][/b]

[quote author=Rajjah post=43787935]She doesn't really want out. She is just confused.

I can relate with that. I was in a similar case once when I had to decide if I should continue a relationship or get out. What I did was I had a reasoning session...listed out all the positives and the negatives. I then give weighs to both sides and listed out my priorities. I think she should do same on her own. Advice her to list out her priorities...what are the great things about the guy? Is she ready to lose all that because of the age? What's the reason for her counting the age thing as important...bad experience?

And let's not forget the relationship is just two months old. I hope this won't be the excuse she would use in opting out when the real issues in. Relationship starts popping up!

Rajjah:
A friend of mine has been dating this guy she met in school for 2months now. The relationship has been ok and smooth but she found out recently that she is 2yrs older than this guy. This guy is well built n physically ok. its hard to believe not until she showed me an evidence. Its really bothering her but I have tried to talk to her that if she loves him, age is nothing, moreover, this guy is matured, loving, caring, simple n physically good (with packs...lol).
Now how more can I convince her. I notice that her show of affection has decline a bit. I want them

togeda cos I kno d guy loves her so much. How more
do I talk to her? Its just 2yrs.

Stop taking panadol for someones headache..Abi u de eye the guy ni?

I recently just got out a relationship like this... She was 3yrs older than me but we had to call it off cos her needs ain't in line with my plan...it was a hard decision to make but it had to be done, she was under pressure and time is of the essence to her. Like someone said earlier...its all about the priorities.


OP... This is not to ridicule you nor your post. Never use the word matured for humans. Humans never stop maturing, but use mature. #IComeInPeace

So, how this one now take concern U? You no get your own problem to mind abi, Oya come make I give u belle for free

Monalisa185:
very simple... follow these easy steps..

* go to the market, like ASAP.

* look for the oldest coconut in the market, as in that one that's always very difficult to break.

* rush back to her place with the coconut.

* write 'YOU BE MUMU' on a piece of paper and sellotape it on the coconut

* target her bald head from a-5 storey building

* then use all your energy to break the coconut on her head...

in 2, 3 to 5 seconds, her brain go reset with immediate effect...

you welcome in advance

You are wicked. This is an ambush. She no go gree

There is nothing you can she do

She doesn't love him enough to go on because of the age gap

So if she wanna leave, she is free. ....something tells me you are the lady in question.

I guess this is for you op

Loooool . See evil.
LMAO

Monalisa185:
very simple... follow these easy steps..

* go to the market, like ASAP.

* look for the oldest coconut in the market, as in that one that's always very difficult to break.

* rush back to her place with the coconut.

* write 'YOU BE MUMU' on a piece of paper and sellotape it on the coconut

* target her bald head from a-5 storey building

* then use all your energy to break the coconut on her head...

in 2, 3 to 5 seconds, her brain go reset with immediate effect...

you welcome in advance

the guy doesn't have money
the bae is impatient...

small age difference is never an issue in a relationship
especially when it doesn't show physically.

the last 2 girls i been with were older...maybe a year or two...surely they knew bout it but we buzzed on! WICKED!
P.S - me moms older than me dad hahaha

Lol, this sh!t made me remembered last year to the middle of the year; He, Op, Av, Gt were all feeling me even though they knew they were older than me!

SirKriz:
Loooool . See evil.
LMAO

Rajjah:
A friend of mine has been dating this guy she met in school for 2months now. The relationship has been ok and smooth but she found out recently that she is 2yrs older than this guy. This guy is well built n physically ok. its hard to believe not until she showed me an evidence. Its really bothering her but I have tried to talk to her that if she loves him, age is nothing, moreover, this guy is matured, loving, caring, simple n physically good (with packs...lol).
Now how more can I convince her. I notice that her show of affection has decline a bit. I want them togeda cos I kno d guy loves her so much. How more do I talk to her? Its just 2yrs.

Hmmm...






And this crap is sooooooooo confusing