I am to choose between my 6years relationship and my 10months relationship. The 6years relationship has been a very tough one. He is my first love (We stayed together in Benin before i relocated to Abuja to stay with my Uncle).He is humble,social and fun to be with, although we have our challenges, he is very hot tempered and i am hot tempered as well(nobody to calm one another down that sometimes i end up slapping him and he beats me up,while other times, he just warn me not to try it again).

He is very caring to the core,he is a computer engineer,an OND holder and a yahoo guy as well. He is always there to satisfy me,there is nothing he doesnt give to me except he doesnt have, he...

...changes my phones almost every six months,spends lavishly on me,changes my wardrobe, even his family and friends knows he doesnt joke with me at all and  he is really in love with me and i love him too as well. At first,things were a little bit tough  between me and his parents,they didn't like me,the mum complained I'm lazy,i have pride and they...
...also feel I'm dominating the relationship but when they saw that their son is really bent on marrying me,they gave in and things started moving on fine. Some of his friends believe I can't marry him that I'm only deceiving him. Truly on my side,I have no intention of marrying him but i just keep dating him because i dont want to be changing boyfriends and anytime I...

...tell him I dont think I can marry him he sometimes cry and other times get angry but still does not change his mind on marrying me. The problem with my  boyfriend is that he flirts, he womanizes alot and this is  always causing issues between us. It ‎was during one of our numerous flirting argument that the new guy came into the picture (Abuja). I...
...wanted to break up with him but after several pleas,i accepted and we got back together while on the other side i started going out with the new guy. He was keeping me company and all(since we are in the same city). It wasn't a relationship like that,we just flirted and had s3x like on several occassions. He knows i have a boyfriend cos anytime he calls, i pick his...

...calls in his presence and he doesnt care. Along the line,the new guy started disturbing me that he has fallen in love with me and wants to marry him, he takes me on outings with his friends and he took me to his father's house,he said he wanted a fling before but now he is in love. Then he started giving me attitude whenever my first love calls and i dont...
...have a choice than to beg and promise i will find a solution to it because am already liking him. My first love noticed i was cheating when i travelled to benin for christmas. He beat the hell out of me and made me swear naked with the bible that i wont break up with him. After the incident he begged me again,brought his father and mother to beg, i accepted...
...again and we got back. Now I am having issues with him and the new guy. The new guy is telling me to choose btw him and my first love while my first love is bent on marrying me at all cost,He is really on my neck for marriage now. I dont really love the new guy but i can't just figure out why i can't let him go,its not like he spends more money on me compared to my...

...first love although he is more matured in handling issues compared to my first love,he doesnt talk anyhow,he is peaceful,well mannered and we hardly have issues. When i told my elder sisters I am breaking up with my first love, they all stood against it. They said i must marry him because he has spent a lot on me and morever the relationship is too long that i...

...should stop looking at the bad side that i was not looking at when i was spending all his money  and i cant just cut someone that truly loves me like that and all his family members knows me and its dangerous that they might just harm me for wasting their son's time. They said I should not have kept the relationship...

...that long knowing i cant marry him. Aside that,they said the new guy might just be making empty promises,that i dont know the kind of attitude he might show later. I'm really confused. Marrying my first love is a no go area for me, he isnt the type of father i want for my kids,i still prefer the new guy. I can't even face my...

...first love to tell him i can't marry him.Will the new guy not use all this against me later in future? Am i not selfish with my decision? Please help with your advice



Source: http://gennypearl..com.ng/2016/03/he-made-me-swear-naked-with-holy-bible.html?m=1

I fink some witches in ur fathers village are using ur destiny to play kalokalo...oponu, no sense in ur head watsoeva, how can only u one be ds stupid, isn't it too much for u?

So you are double dating shebi?? And you still want Advice!!

I Pity our Nigerian men that put hope on Nigerian Girls!!

Most u marry self?

pls people it seems i don't know the date and year anymore or the op is lying...pls what year are we(2016), what date is today(15) march tuesday, how come she's saying 16 Wednesday 2016 o?..

BiafraBushBoy:
So you are double dating shebi?? And you still want Advice!!

I Pity our Nigerian men that put hope on Nigerian Girls!!

Lol. she is a confused being

Sexytemi:
pls people it seems i don't know the date and year anymore or the op is lying...pls what year are we(2016), what date is today(15) march tuesday, how come she's saying 16 Wednesday 2016 o?..

Meself. Ah taya

OP Get small sense. What is the date? I pity your live when the first guy comes for revenge for wasting his time and resources and also playing with his emotions. Be prepared for the acid that will poured on you two weeks to your weding since the guy is hot tempered.

She don dey predict future?

young gal, i see confusion all over you. You have greed in you, just know the second guy is cunny...the first guy isn't the best for you either. But you will end up settling for the worst, cos thats what you deserve.

This is exactly 12:00 A:M

Sexytemi:
pls people it seems i don't know the date and year anymore or the op is lying...pls what year are we(2016), what date is today(15) march tuesday, how come she's saying 16 Wednesday 2016 o?..

i confuse, have been checking my calendar. The op no try, fear catch me cos i think say every body don go Wednesday 16 of march 2016 leave me 4 Tuesday 15 march 2016

So many incoherences

You knew all along that he just wasn't the right guy for you and you sat down comfortably spending his money and enjoying the affluence? You saw the handwriting on the wall.. It was clear and plain. Buh you still kept on with him, led him on and its just now you're waking up to the reality that he's not the right guy.
Honestly, I really don't get why sisters can be so insensitive.. You even swore unclad with the holy bible! That's the height of it. Well, I won't advise you to continue with him if you're not happy with the relationship but like your sisters said, he might come for your neck if you dare break up with him. You need God's wisdom and direction.

mcteeeew abi hw dem dy hiss again sef...na until u die b4 u knw wusup

You dey Bleep two dicks at the same time... When. You dey enjoy who you call... You dey double date... Idiot

Worst day on NL. I've had enough BS for today. I'm off to Netflix.

the only thing I saw was that one of them beats you......

I hate it when people waste their talent instead of putting it to good use. Nollywood can buy this story

Av got specialtiy nose.... Sniffs bullshiit from sun distance

I hear you! So you want somebody to tell you what to do abi?

When you are done with your story, let me know.

Becoz of yo greed and selfishness, choosing anyone of these 2 guys will give u a cursed future. U wil never know piece. Dump both and b single for a year. During this single year, clear yo mind and conscience, and ask for a clear direction, and only den, wil u meet yo real husband, bt dnt ever ever date or play wit the feelings of 2 souls at de same time ever again

captainjoh:


i confuse, have been checking my calendar. The op no try, fear catch me cos i think say every body don go Wednesday 16 of march 2016 leave me 4 Tuesday 15 march 2016

Lol
The thing tire me too o, i don't know y people don't lie with sense when posting online

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Sexytemi:
pls people it seems i don't know the date and year anymore or the op is lying...pls what year are we(2016), what date is today(15) march tuesday, how come she's saying 16 Wednesday 2016 o?..

Abi ooo. @op you are seeking advice for wrong reasons. You should be bothered about your future as a wife to a woman beater. Dont be fooled by his parents\siblings apologising to u on his behalf while they watch you being punched to death by there son. Once you marry the guy,they will turn their backs on you and say to your face that "don't you know he is like this before you marry him?". It seems you dont know what you want. Life is too short to live your in pain and misery all because you feel indebted to him. Since you seem not to mind the heavy beatings and hot slaps,you might as well go for him. Just know that your sisters and friends won't go there with you. I rather you go for the second guy because it is not how far but how well.

Ogidi gan

Op, I just think we should go back in time(year and month you were conceived) look for your dad and den find him some packs of condom,



The way I see things, he made a mistake of "cuming" inside ur mumsy.

pray to God let him lead you

All what keeps coming to my mind is the numbers of abortion.
If you love ur life, find Gods direction.

remember






these hoes ain't loyal

halfricanadian:
pray to God let him lead you

God does not answer all prayers, especially from the one that will come from the(sinner) OP

wizzyrich:
God does not answer all prayers, especially from the one that will come from the(sinner) OP

Even if d sinner is innocent God will answer his or her prayers