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My Husband Is Too Flirt! by coolmrs: 6:36pm On Mar 16, 2016
please kindly help me out; how do I cope with my husband that is too promiscuous. I have been trying all my possible best to please him in all ramifications and he pretends to be blameless.The funniest part is that God always reveals his secret to me one way or the other.Pls how do I cope with him because am just fed up of his infidelity. We had 2 boys and d marriage is 8 years gone.I have been confrontational on different cases but he will just apologize n continue.I have been trying to get a job for him in my company because I thought d distance in working place could cause d promiscuity.
Re: My Husband Is Too Flirt! by osesology(m): 6:56pm On Mar 16, 2016
Trust me, ma, u are not alone in this. I have an elder sister whose husband is an expert flirt. I went to visit them one weekend and slept over. The fact that I (his inlaw) was around didn't stop this useless man from going to sleep outside with his mistress. Telling you to divorce him will be as if I am equally telling every woman in similar situation to leave their husband and at the end, we will have a lot of single mothers everywhere.

So I am going to give u the same advice I gave my sister: You need to take this to God in prayer. I know it's not going to be easy but u have to continue showing him love, but never stop praying.

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Re: My Husband Is Too Flirt! by MrPeterson(m): 7:02pm On Mar 16, 2016
He has been a flirt even before you got married, nothing will change that except more patience and prayer from your end, maybe fasting once in a while things will change. Distance relationship is not easy , as a family you should try at all cost to live together.
Also try new things with him , no wat excite him . You could get some porn film and learn new styles lol . Some men like to taste different soup .
Re: My Husband Is Too Flirt! by Miami11: 7:02pm On Mar 16, 2016
Do nothing, just wait until you catch illnesses, at least you will still be Mrs somebody

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Re: My Husband Is Too Flirt! by Dyt(f): 7:07pm On Mar 16, 2016
Hmmmmmm
Nawa

But these promiscuity don't start in a day na
You must have been shouting he will change
He too will promise to be a new man
New year
New man
Yimu
Re: My Husband Is Too Flirt! by BiafraBushBoy(m): 7:07pm On Mar 16, 2016
Instead of you to be thankful to God that you manage get Husband, you are here complaining!

Wait till all these single Nairaland girls collect him finally from you!!

Till then

Keep complaining!

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Re: My Husband Is Too Flirt! by osesology(m): 7:13pm On Mar 16, 2016
BiafraBushBoy:
Instead of you to be thankful to God that you manage get Husband, you are here complaining!

Wait till all these single Nairaland girls collect him finally from you!!

Till then

Keep complaining!
Which kain advice come be dis wan na, ehn?

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Re: My Husband Is Too Flirt! by BiafraBushBoy(m): 7:25pm On Mar 16, 2016
osesology:

Which kain advice come be dis wan na, ehn?

Did we force you to marry him?

Instead of make you go pray give God, you are complaining on Nairaland!!

My Advice for you is.... Pray!!

Till then?.....

Keep complaining!!
Re: My Husband Is Too Flirt! by coolmrs: 7:31pm On Mar 16, 2016
osesology:
Trust me, ma, u are not alone in this. I have an elder sister whose husband is an expert flirt. I went to visit them one weekend and slept over. The fact that I (his inlaw) was around didn't stop this useless man from going to sleep outside with his mistress. Telling you to divorce him will be as if I am equally telling every woman in similar situation to leave their husband and at the end, we will have a lot of single mothers everywhere.

So I am going to give u the same advice I gave my sister: You need to take this to God in prayer. I know it's not going to be easy but u have to continue showing him love, but never stop praying.
Thanks for the advice sir.
Re: My Husband Is Too Flirt! by coolmrs: 7:37pm On Mar 16, 2016
MrPeterson:
He has been a flirt even before you got married, nothing will change that except more patience and prayer from your end, maybe fasting once in a while things will change. Distance relationship is not easy , as a family you should try at all cost to live together.
Also try new things with him , no wat excite him . You could get some porn film and learn new styles lol . Some men like to taste different soup .
Hmm thanks but I never knew him as a cheat when we were dating infact he was always monitoring me up n down.About d new styles hmm lets just say hes a chronic cheat because all these improvements are not new to me any longer.Hes always tired on bed at most 5mins.

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Re: My Husband Is Too Flirt! by coolmrs: 7:40pm On Mar 16, 2016
BiafraBushBoy:
Instead of you to be thankful to God that you manage get Husband, you are here complaining!

Wait till all these single Nairaland girls collect him finally from you!!

Till then

Keep complaining!
undecided
BiafraBushBoy:
Instead of you to be thankful to God that you manage get Husband, you are here complaining!

Wait till all these single Nairaland girls collect him finally from you!!

Till then

Keep complaining!
Anyway am not surprised because u could be birds of thesame feathers.

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Re: My Husband Is Too Flirt! by coolmrs: 7:46pm On Mar 16, 2016
BiafraBushBoy:

Did we force you to marry him?
Instead of make you go pray give God, you are complaining on Nairaland!!
My Advice for you is.... Pray!!
Till then?.....
Keep complaining!!
Must u run your mouth/hand anyhow?

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Re: My Husband Is Too Flirt! by BiafraBushBoy(m): 7:47pm On Mar 16, 2016
coolmrs:
undecidedAnyway am not surprised because u could be birds of thesame feathers.

Hahahaha... No sir oo

I don't flirt. I don't even keep girlfriends
Re: My Husband Is Too Flirt! by BiafraBushBoy(m): 7:49pm On Mar 16, 2016
coolmrs:
Must u run your mouth/hand anyhow?

undecided

Are you the husband to the girl

Gerarahia mehn!!

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Re: My Husband Is Too Flirt! by lilmax(m): 8:28pm On Mar 16, 2016
BiafraBushBoy:
Instead of you to be thankful to God that you manage get Husband, you are here complaining!

Wait till all these single Nairaland girls collect him finally from you!!

Till then

Keep complaining!
grin
Re: My Husband Is Too Flirt! by Miami11: 8:31pm On Mar 16, 2016
Your husband is a chronic cheat and instead of dealing with him you are here asking for solutions?
Suppose you get some irreversible illnesses,
Just endure and pray, my dear

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Re: My Husband Is Too Flirt! by lilmax(m): 8:48pm On Mar 16, 2016
Miami11:
Your husband is a chronic cheat and instead of dealing with him you are here asking for solutions?
Suppose you get some irreversible illnesses,
Just endure and pray, my dear
grin grin

Give her ways
Re: My Husband Is Too Flirt! by Nobody: 9:45pm On Mar 16, 2016
My best friend was always complaining to me about how her husband cheats with disregard.

At a point she had to leave the house for him but nothing changed.

After a while I noticed she no longer complained and seemed happier.
I asked her how far?
What happened?

She told me she just saw a movie and is practicing what she learnt from the movie and everything is better now.
The name of the movie is WAR ROOM.

It's a Christian movie. I'll advice you to see it too.

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Re: My Husband Is Too Flirt! by dangotesmummy: 12:55am On Mar 17, 2016
Hmm

Re: My Husband Is Too Flirt! by dangotesmummy: 12:56am On Mar 17, 2016
Hmnnn

Re: My Husband Is Too Flirt! by dangotesmummy: 12:58am On Mar 17, 2016
Hmnn

Re: My Husband Is Too Flirt! by cococandy(f): 1:36am On Mar 17, 2016
osesology:

Which kain advice come be dis wan na, ehn?
what is the difference between his advice and yours?
Re: My Husband Is Too Flirt! by osesology(m): 6:12am On Mar 17, 2016
cococandy:
what is the difference between his advice and yours?
I know u can read well, so I'll advice u to go read the trash he wrote up there again. I dont see any similarities between our comments. Thanks.
Re: My Husband Is Too Flirt! by Nobody: 6:28am On Mar 17, 2016
wapu:
My best friend was always complaining to me about how her husband cheats with disregard.

At a point she had to leave the house for him but nothing changed.

After a while I noticed she no longer complained and seemed happier.
I asked her how far?
What happened?

She told me she just saw a movie and is practicing what she learnt from the movie and everything is better now.
The name of the movie is WAR ROOM.

It's a Christian movie. I'll advice you to see it too.

WAR ROOM, very emotional film. Definitely for women going through marriage brouhahahahahaha.
Re: My Husband Is Too Flirt! by coolmrs: 12:33pm On Mar 17, 2016
[quote author=wapu post=43835487]My best friend was always complaining to me about how her husband cheats with disregard.

At a point she had to leave the house for him but nothing changed.

After a while I noticed she no longer complained and seemed happier.
I asked her how far?
What happened?

She told me she just saw a movie and is practicing what she learnt from the movie and everything is better now.
The name of the movie is WAR ROOM.

It's a Christian movie. I'll advice you to see it too.[/quoteReally! Thats so lovely ma.I will try and look for d film and watch it.Thanks alot.
Re: My Husband Is Too Flirt! by oluseyiforjesus(m): 4:21pm On Mar 17, 2016
coolmrs:
please kindly help me out; how do I cope with my husband that is too promiscuous. I have been trying all my possible best to please him in all ramifications and he pretends to be blameless.The funniest part is that God always reveals his secret to me one way or the other.Pls how do I cope with him because am just fed up of his infidelity. We had 2 boys and d marriage is 8 years gone.I have been confrontational on different cases but he will just apologize n continue.I have been trying to get a job for him in my company because I thought d distance in working place could cause d promiscuity.
put him in prayer, Dats y I advise most lady to marry God fearing husband. With prayer he will change
Re: My Husband Is Too Flirt! by onyekachee(f): 7:02pm On Mar 17, 2016
I know how it feels to catch a cheating husband,my dear it is not a good sight to behold neither is it a pleasant story to tell,bitter truth is that it will only take the grace of God for him to change,keep him in prayers ma'am..things will only get better
Re: My Husband Is Too Flirt! by austine4real(m): 8:12pm On Mar 17, 2016
Put aboliki& peper on his prik nxt time u catch him
Re: My Husband Is Too Flirt! by SURElee(f): 11:57pm On Mar 17, 2016
Dear married sister, you say your husband is a chronic flirt and you're conidering getting him a job in your office for proximity? Wait o! What your husband does outside, you want him to be flirting with small small girls and female bosses in your office, in the same company with you? The small respect will just go out the window. God help you on this one. This too shall pass my dear.

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Re: My Husband Is Too Flirt! by GodnGold: 3:09pm On Mar 18, 2016
Nobody lacks salt at home.

That is how you should not lack condom in your home.

Keep it on the TV stand,on top of the washing machine,on top of the freezer,under your pillow even in your purse...yesssssssssss oooo.

If you contact chanchachancha,nne,the world will become a hellhole for you.

Then some people advised you to pray...It is good.

But be wise about it.

Save yourself heartache,hbp,chest palpitations and aging drastically by taking charge of your life.

Be Happy bae.

Have you seen a spouse die with his/her partner on the same day because of marriage..Mba! !!

My dear,buckle up,put on the whole armour of shock absorber.
Love your husband and stop nagging,you will get old and bobo will be hopping from one shawty to another ajibo.
Pamper yourself,eat healthy,drink healthy,laugh so loud people will start questioning your sanity,above all tell God to be your husband.

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Re: My Husband Is Too Flirt! by porshuch: 6:02pm On Mar 18, 2016
coolmrs:
please kindly help me out; how do I cope with my husband that is too promiscuous. I have been trying all my possible best to please him in all ramifications and he pretends to be blameless.The funniest part is that God always reveals his secret to me one way or the other.Pls how do I cope with him because am just fed up of his infidelity. We had 2 boys and d marriage is 8 years gone.I have been confrontational on different cases but he will just apologize n continue.I have been trying to get a job for him in my company because I thought d distance in working place could cause d promiscuity.
my only advise to you now, is to go and take hepatitisB and C vaccine, also cervical cancer vaccine. Then mandate him to use condom you, if not hehehehheheheh, see you see STD and HIV/AIDS

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Re: My Husband Is Too Flirt! by byvan03: 7:09pm On Mar 18, 2016
Same stories, same solutions proffered , 0% effectiveness. Only you can take charge of your life, you can't control what he does, but you can control how it affects you. I have no solutions for you, we all know the solutions to our problems. Whatever will make you whine less, do it.

You have to understand that God will not deprive your spouse of free will because you want him to. Except he is under hypnosis of some sort, you probably might be disturbing God.

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