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Am I Being Insensitive? by angiemartinez(f): 7:18pm On Mar 19, 2016
Good day family, pls help a sister out, mature and Godly advice needed.

My MIL came over to our house nov last year she has breast cancer, due to that early sickness she was adviced to change environment for some time.

She has gone through the third chemo and the operation site has healed as she no longer dresses the wound.

Now the issue is that I think it's time for her to go back home, mind you for this past 5 months I have been very supportive of her stay, I always make sure she eats thrice daily and other necessary things.

I think she so comfortable now that she doesn't want to leave anymore, mind you she goes to work once in a while. She only has stress the week she goes for chemo and after that week she is good to go.

At present it's just the two of us at home as hubby has a contract in another location. When he was about leaving he told her to go back home because I will not always be around and in other for her not to be lonely, she started calling every body that my hubby is driving her.

Now we are parking out to a new place by Friday and yet she is not making plans to go, my hubby has being postponing the move because he wants her to go first. Mind you were we are moving to is her brothers house. Not that we can not pay our rentage, the uncle is out of the country so he needs somebody to stay in the house.

My fear now is that if she moves with us to this house, then she will never leave again since it's her brothers house.

Sorry for the long epistle, I just want you to understand, my hubby is not really saying anything because I feel he doesn't want to offend his mum as he is the first. There are other people at home to take care of her, her husband is still at home.

Pls advice me on what to do because I intend to confront my hubby this nite when he comes concerning it.
Re: Am I Being Insensitive? by Iolite(f): 7:41pm On Mar 19, 2016
Travel, go and visit your people for two weeks.

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