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Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by Tombilly(m): 12:32am On Mar 22, 2016 |
whenever she starts nagging just pull her wit force close yo yourself as if you wanna deal with her, then give her a soul crushing kiss that will melt her body and soul ...after that look her in the eyes and say baby you know I love you? when she will be thinking of saying yes I know the anger will metamorphose into love..... try it and thank me later. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by ManTiger(m): 12:35am On Mar 22, 2016 |
Anger is a small madness So do nothing when you are angry, Because what you will spoil Maybe more than what causes your anger. Print on A4 paper and paste it where she can see it. Don't forget to ref me. |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by Nobody: 12:41am On Mar 22, 2016 |
Tombilly:better person. Lover Boy i like ur style. |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by komododragons: 12:43am On Mar 22, 2016 |
herbie27:I swear you don't know how hot temper is. soft spot on you had an little argument with your spouse and before you knew it he just started beating you, will you be looking for soft spot to calm him down gezzz! now I know I'm talking with someone who don't know anything. have a nice day and go get yourself a chill drink. you don't know what you are talking. pls don't quote me again..... |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by Hades2016(m): 12:44am On Mar 22, 2016 |
Chase her away ok 1 Like |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by Neverquit(f): 12:53am On Mar 22, 2016 |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by Nobody: 12:56am On Mar 22, 2016 |
komododragons:i was quoting you base on the fact dat a guy was seeking for advice on how to handle his hot tempered girlfriend not base on how to handle a hot tempered boyfriend. Hope u comprehended dat?. Ur really confuse...u jst advice him to beat her up and am saying beating a woman is wrong. Plz! Gudnyt. |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by haakolad: 12:58am On Mar 22, 2016 |
Hmmmm |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by Neverquit(f): 1:01am On Mar 22, 2016 |
Mort de rire . I give up ...you're incorrigible. On a more serious note , I really hope he doesn't marry her in that condition in order to avoid stories that touch. To the readers: martial/relationship abuse should not be joked with. ilawanson44: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by Nobody: 1:02am On Mar 22, 2016 |
OP, If you can't beat them join them. When she gets angry you can try and appear even angrier. @topic From your write up I think you are part of the problem. Why u blocking her from phoning people who may ultimately help calm her down? You could even speak to the people she calls and get them to convey you point of view to your gf for you. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by KiNiBiGd: 1:21am On Mar 22, 2016 |
Thank God she's not living with you in pretence, since you know her real person, the decision is yours either to accept and tolerate her or to quit. She can still change for better n she may not. God will help you to make the right decision. |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by ManTiger(m): 1:21am On Mar 22, 2016 |
Tombilly:He will thank you when she landed him resounding slap, you think this is Telemundo abi? OK o. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by idupaul: 1:35am On Mar 22, 2016 |
Never marry a woman who thinks Pastor has sense more than u |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by baby124: 1:37am On Mar 22, 2016 |
You expect a 23 yr old to not act her age? Since you decide to go for young and sweet. There are many things you will have to endure and accommodate till hopefully she matures a bit more as life goes on. |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by Nobody: 1:51am On Mar 22, 2016 |
mencade5, what about a psychologist and couple therapy. If she doesn't change, dumb her ass I no wan hear stories that touch |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by Nobody: 1:56am On Mar 22, 2016 |
GenBuhari: So it is okay to disturb the whole world because she is angry |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by Nobody: 2:01am On Mar 22, 2016 |
herbie27: She #has anger issues, she is not abusive now but please don't ever tell anyone to appease an abusive partner. If you are familiar with how perpetrators thin and behave you wouldn't suggest it |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by doveda: 2:04am On Mar 22, 2016 |
komododragons: So it is okay to beat a woman who doesn't act accordingly? |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by Perewene(m): 2:12am On Mar 22, 2016 |
The issue is has she reliazed her anger Problem? Being a christian its easy let her study the books of probs and Eccle, bible says anger lieth in the bosom of a fool, a wise woman keepth her house a foolish woman tearrth it down same bible,Says let us come boldly before the throne of grace and obtain mercy in times of need, my grace is sufficient unto you. And my strenght is made perfect in weakness. Bro it works. I used to hav anger. Issues bt. The bible changed me. , the bilbe works when you believe and accept it. In humility and as the final authority |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by Nobody: 2:14am On Mar 22, 2016 |
She is only likely to phone one person. But really it may be that her need take issues outside shows a lack of commitment, or deep discontent in that she has been complaining to people outside. daretodiffer: |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by jaymdee(m): 2:56am On Mar 22, 2016 |
It might seem odd to ask, but how passionate are you guys sexually? Any chance she is a virgin? Anger comes from a lot of sources, I'm trying to find out something. |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by rebranded(m): 3:10am On Mar 22, 2016 |
tuscani: Seems like thats what the OP is dealing with, and his issue is hes not in control of the relationship. My advice walk away, these things hardly get any better. Shes gone through a lot also, so please know how you walk away with minimum trauma 1 Like |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by kobonaire(m): 4:42am On Mar 22, 2016 |
Find another a beg .... leave this fire alone, you no be water to be quenching fire all the time!! |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by lielbree: 4:56am On Mar 22, 2016 |
mencade5:Typical of men... you piss her off and don't expect her to be pissed off! Tell us what u did! You knowingly offended her for no reason. Stop trying to paint yourself as a victim. |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by Nobody: 4:56am On Mar 22, 2016 |
Most Naija girls have anger issues. They are not supposed to be in any relationship. Look beyond the food, prayers she made- all these will cease to impress upon exhibiting her true attitudes after marriage. |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by toprealman: 4:58am On Mar 22, 2016 |
She is 23, flares up at easily, unpredictable, won't calm down......this is the type if girl every man needs. Bruv, with these few points I beg to disagree with ya. Life has got no duplicate. The easiest way to the grave is to call a girl with these attributes your WIFE....not for me, NEVER! |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by komododragons: 5:02am On Mar 22, 2016 |
doveda:yes! |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by Ogojohn(m): 5:02am On Mar 22, 2016 |
Do not make your life miserable with a woman. You can not manage her temper now. You can not manage it in the future. Quote me. What she could not hide from you now. Their is no need pretending about it in the future. It can only get worst. Unless you are now buying a ticket to be a prospective polygamist. Thank you. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by darlenese(f): 5:21am On Mar 22, 2016 |
She isn't matured at all, the first three years of your marriage won't be easy ! She should work on herself, else no marriage |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by dollarlander: 5:28am On Mar 22, 2016 |
mencade5: If you really love her, pray for her and since you said she is religious and prayerful tell her she is behaving like a fool because the bible says anger rests in the bossom of a fool. You both should study the entire book of proverbs I believe before you finish it, her mood must change. But to be truthful with you, a dry morsel with peace is better than a brawling woman. If she dies not change, since she is not yet your wife, ill advise you look for another lady that has all those characters you love in her but without anger. Because if you go into marriage with that thing, you will have more problems. Marriage itself has issues now combine with an angry woman, you are finished. One day she will be angry and smash a bottle on your head. |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by mamajaz(f): 5:39am On Mar 22, 2016 |
chocolateme:You are absolutely correct. I don't love it when outsiders in the name of what ever intrude into family matters. My husband invited one of our best pastor's wife into an area of argument last month, till date I didn't give her any reply. She even branched at my place of work during a visit to a sick friend and was like, "you are sooooo lean oh, why wouldn't you be lean when you don't give yourself rest of mind"? I never gave any response, meanwhile people have been telling me that whoaaaa... you are looking great, fresher etc. Sis. mamajaz, I hope you won't have tension? I answered her not good or evil. She pressed further daddy even called but you didn't pick it up, I told her my phone was with my husband then. Meanwhile, I have seen her messages on my husband's phone where she was asking him to keep on displaying maturity. Now when the boss asked me why I didn't tell her anything, I told him that the woman 'S daughter is about 7 years younger than me in age, 2 years younger in marriage, yet she had never reported her family challenges to me then I had made a report to her sometimes ago and she said, you know if you are not adults you would not get married. So, don't report everything to us. Now, the reason for the preferential treatment for my husband baffled me. My boss man was silent for a while then shrugged his shoulders and left. I know mama was offended but that has remained my stance! |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by OCHOdee(f): 5:43am On Mar 22, 2016 |
Religious woman, religious woman Sorry to say but any woman that doesn't respect and submit to her husband the way the bible described it is a no go area. Any woman that bows to her pastor at any given time and doesn't respect her husband should check herself... #enoughsaid |
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