I am workin on a salary of about #40000 monthly, i pay the school fee of two of my younger ones, i want 2 get married but don't know how 2 go about it, even if i save i would endup using it for a problem. Pls advice me i really want to get married? Cos i have been telling my girl next year, next year.

Start planning with her by organising an introduction, this will enable your family and younger ones know that they need to fight for theirselves and those bothering you will also understand that you have something coming. don't forget to pick date for your marriage ok and start buying some of the things you needed. that is what i have for now.

How much longer do yoru younger ones have in school? Is it possible for you to wait for them to finish school and then get married. After the wedding then children. How will you afford babies when you have two babies that you are already raising.

People need to make sacrifices in life.

two people are dependant on you for their education. they are your responsibility.
You'll just have to plan yourself very well before you get into trouble.
Once you get married, a baby will be next. you'll now have double responsibilty. i had a similar problem. i had to put off marriage till i sorted out things with my siblings.
They're all graduates now. i knew i couldnt handle it all if i got married then.

i'm not asking you to put off marriage.
Just plan yourself and also explain to your girl the situation of things. who knows, you guys could plan things very well to benefit all involved.

I think you should worry more about caring and providing for your family after you have married, cos getting married could be as cheap as you and the babe made it.
It is not a must you have to wear the wedding gown and all that stuff, you can go to court and serve your guest pop and cookies afterwards, but you need to be sure you have what it takes to be a husband after the guest are gone, meaning, be able to provide for her needs, physically and emotionally, cos a man that cant do that, will be the one to drive the woman to another man's house for a good round of sex and payment.
So be careful and make sure you are ready.
Good luck