About seven months ago or thereabout, one of 2face's baby mama and happily married mum of two boys, Sumbo Adeoye, gave a 45 minutes message at her husband's church, Royalty Christian Centre for single parents.

It was indeed a powerful and eye opening message and KFB has finally succeeded in transcribing it...yup, it took that long.

Sumbo did not only address single moms but also single dads.

According to her, one doesn't necessarily become a single parent by engaging in fornication or immorality. Citing four scenarios, she explained that one could become a single parent either by rape, premarital sex, losing one's spouse or having one's spouse abandon one for greener pastures.

"Anyone who marries a single mom or dad is very lucky because they have been there or wounded so they will do everything to make it work, they won''t want people to be counting their husbands/wives for them...it is a unique marriage that is not for everybody.

I remember when I used to be a single mom, I knew what I wanted. For about five years, my prayer point was God give me a man after your own heart, lord let your will be done, I let go of my choice for the choice you want for me, I let go of everything that I see as picture perfect. I made this my prayer point everyday. I would be like God, I have tried my best I am overwhelmed, there is nothing I can do...when you pray such prayers, make sure you don't have a different expectation because as at the time my answer to the prayers came, it came in form of a pastor, and i am like for real, No oh,I know I was asking for a man but not a Pastor. And then the holy spirit reminded me that you are after a man after my heart and I am giving you David, what else do you want?...and then I succumbed.

She further said

I remember the day when my baby daddy proposed to his girlfriend, I was on the list of those that will take praise in church for that Wednesday..well I had known what was going on but it didn't affect me because I had known what I want, so i had let go of that choice for God's will for me...so i came to church, I was leading the Praise session and everyone was just looking at me with pity eyes like 'omo yi o mo nkan ti on sele (this girl doesn't know what's going on o)'....after service, one sister even came to me and said It is well and in my mind, I am like what happened, did somebody die....the person felt i was faking that i wasn''t hurt by the proposal but she and the others didn't know i had been healed by God for my own expected end..so don't be desperate.

That bobo that you are killing yourself over and putting yourself in strategic places over..may not be God's choice for you.....but if he is God's choice for you like Mary's spouse Joseph in the Bible....God will fix it...he made sure Joseph did not leave Mary so if you are waiting for a Man as a single mum, as long as you trust God enough, he will speak to the Man that will come for you.

If you are marrying a single mom/dad, you need to go for counseling, because it is not easy...cos you need to love her/him, flaws and kid(s)..and be ready to take up their responsibilities.

Read other highlights from the message below
http://www.kemifilani.com/2016/03/exclusive-any-man-that-marries-single.html

Lucky?.but this ur new husband no fine reach Tubaba na.