Good day, I am scared and confused on what to do. I am in a serious relationship that is a year plus old, we shared so many good memories together and I can confidently say that we genuinely love eachother. However, there has been series of issues which has really threatened our commitment, and has made us reach the point of breakup.
The lady in question is older than me by some margin. This has made my family uncomfortable and they do not really accept her and she could feel it as well.
Aside that, she feels she has a spiritual problem which she feels has been affecting me. She tried looking for solution with none forthcoming and she feels someone is against her from settling down, and that the person or thing whatsoever looks to stagnate the life and career of the person that she wanna settle down with, while she progresses in life. This will make her be the breadwinner of the house. This problem affected her parents and she can see the signs with us too because She has got a good job while I am yet to get one.
She explained to me, and said she is loves me so much, and that she wants me to reach my potentials and careers goals and not suffer.
She advised we remained friends and nothing more... However, we find it difficult doing that because we have genuinely got connected to eachother and we so much slice eachother that we virtually do everything together. Hence its so difficult for us.
I need your advice as to what to do next, because as it is now, it's really driving me crazy. Matured mind pls because this is a very serious and sensitive issue.

Tb Joshua fast...

is hard to let go but you just have to, except you want to remain stagnant in life...bro you are strong o if any girl tell me such, she won't see my back again talk more of pondering about the whole issue and your family don't like her as well..lol heaven help those who help respect themselves

my brother before I give anything meaningful advice I will like to ask..........have you fvcked her.

I dont even understand the write up,moreless advising...

Hmmm,this is serious.Op just wait for the wise elders here to arrive.

Lasting solution is to seek the face of the Lord, He has solution to every problems

hold on. *scrolling through my contacts for TB Joshua's number*

Hmmmm..... The dream could be true at the same tym it myt not be true cos we ladies are very intelligent

Do you want to marry her?
Do you believe in yourself as a human being?
Do you believe you can be successful?

Do your thinking for yourself because if you don't others will do your thinking for you then you live their opinions.

Be careful of stories that create fear and rob you of having what you really want besides your family does not like her so she may be avoiding stress.

Op pls look for someone else.......#shikena# stp taking unnecessary risk ma guy,did I jez hear spiritual prob? Mah guy take the next flight.....use ur head

This is a spiritual battle. But B4 I give u my advice, do u want to marry dis girl in question If yes, then I think u and ur wife to be, need to to see a man of God. I mean a real servant of God, so that he will counsel u, and organise a deliverance for u. Because without dis, the two of u will not move forward in life. This is my take on this.
Goodluck .

she is politely breaking up with u bro...probably cos she well to do dan u are. Shit happens, tell her gals u broke up with tend to loose favour (tranfer d spiritual fear bs to her) she a bish.

You need mature advice but you ain't mature

Most people lack emotional intelligence, acquire it and I can tell you how fast you'd be at moving on from a failed relationship.

She told you the thing or spirit "looks to stagnate The Life of whoever she's with"?, she told you those deep and serious things about herself because she loves you, but let's face fact, do you believe those things she said? do you believe her been in your life will cause, is causing or has caused you stagnation? if you believe those things, then you should run for your dear life, if not, stay put, nothing dey happen, and as for the fact that she's older than you, that does not matter cos age is just a number.