sheunsheun:
Op, grow up and get a Job, she has moved on

grbgrb4:

Abeg tell am,for her mind you are just wastin her time... You know is not all girls that like this good boy thing.... But op you be pastor?

dna4ril:
We even prayed together a times, we evangelised together for sometime leading to souls surrending their life to Christ on those ocassions

I can't believe after you've won souls for Christ along side the chick, you still come here to ask for solution..

do 10days Fasting and prayer.. It is well

sheunsheun:
Lol, op is ooo, they go on evangelism 2geda

sheunsheun:
Lol, op is ooo, they go on evangelism 2geda

grbgrb4:

like seriously op no the shame,for this 21st century.

dna4ril:
There is this girl I met, I admired her from a distance for smtime. ...when I eventually made a move to get her attention, I did , got her no easily and all and we got talking. .
For some time we were good on chat , but in person we hardly spoke until later on as we become closer friends.

Den I paid her a visit to her place even nt minding the parents view. Cos am of the opinion that if I had something ulterior in mind , her house will be the last place in my mind..

I guess she liked my gesture , we became closer and all. Then I could nt refute telling her I liked her , was crushing over her and all , over and over again. ...


Though before I said this, I told her am nt interested in a relationship with her , nt like that oooo, like I mean am nt trying to woo her but I like her really .

Guess her head got swoolen. ...along the line she also told me she couldn't deny the fact the liked me too , I wasn't supposed to be suprised hearing that .I just liked her company really , nting personal abt maybe beauty, figure etc...am nt saying she's nt good looking but that wasn't the basis of my incurable admiration for her , I must say that cos

I called her everyday, chatted late in the night, a times night calls,went out with her (but with another female friend of hers ) once. So u can imagine what was going Tru my head. ..I felt I had found a friend that I liked alongside, that feeling made the friendship beautiful.

Told her I had sombdy incase my head wants to mishve along the line and later she told me the same. The line or boundary was drawn. .for a while , I felt so good .we discusses salient issues of life , nt love, a ex, rubbish for what av u. We even prayed together a times, we evangelised together for sometime leading to souls surrending their life to Christ on those ocassions


Fast track to recently. ..i Travelled, she travelled. After about week things changed.

About a month ago. ..she doesn't call me, i call , can call for as long as I care she doesn't pick , chat her and most times no response .den once a while she picks and reacts like all is good and I seem to be like what's happening.
One day I called for a dialogue but she pretended as if we were good together. ..

So I decided to play along. I stoped calling texting chatting, Al those close rapport died and she appered good , no word from her. Of late worst Is that once in a week or more when I called she will just sound good like "awa u and all, and the next tin is am busy now , I will call u back or can u call me back. If she says call me back , I will call , she will nt pick , if she says she will , she will never call .she even did this ystdsy.

I could have just given up easily on her , like is she feeling fly or something but av been patient over this time to see if there is an explanation for all the sudden change of attitude but it's nt coming. ..
Morova the good times we shared together as friends and all, even with another friend of hers as I earlier said.

Maybe my statements of crushing over her was a wrong move..I just wanted be kinda romantic as I am with anyone close to me , even though i realky did admire her and the attension i gave her proved it so.probably should have just kept that close to me.

I However tot her to be mature to handle that, I belive nt everybody u admire must be ur man or woman, they could fill other important roles in one's life .I was probably wrong by my jugement. In as much as I kept out discussions lifely and full of quality than quantity.never made reference to sex, love or such In such as to prob provoke her or smtn,


So am just in a pitiable state for her cos it's a lesson how we truly miss out on those who truly cares for us and wants us in their life's

I was abt writing her a msg that am done aving condoned all the rejection she's served me over time and all. At that point ,I felt there is no need ,it's pointless, again i tot , probably if she comes terms with what I say It might birth a rebirth of tots within her , and if nt , at list av aired my be views that am out

That's the isssh. ....what do u think probably went wrong , that I did , or she probably did and what u think is the solution.

BreadandBeans:


awon end time evangelist

sheunsheun:
Lol, Baba u don dey use style enta Op ooo