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If Your Girl Friend Cheats by SamMilla1(m): 7:25pm On Nov 11, 2006
If a girl cheats on her boyfriend and the boyfriend knows that she cheats,
but has not caught her red handed.
Is it wrong for the boy to be angry with the girl especially if it is very hard for the boy to let go of the girl for some special reasons.
Please i do not want any answer here to be based on either sentiments or stupidness.
Re: If Your Girl Friend Cheats by Busta(f): 7:28pm On Nov 11, 2006
lol

u really need to be sure of ur suspicious first. What makes u think that she's cheatin in the first place?

people do talk, just be careful wateva u decide if u love her like u claim.
Re: If Your Girl Friend Cheats by Oracle(m): 7:34pm On Nov 11, 2006
I would advice you to first catch her red handed, try to get her first, then you can do whatever you wanna do, so that when you accuse of being unfaithful, she can't deny it.

Besides, Sam itz great to see you make a post that is not a joke just kidding
Re: If Your Girl Friend Cheats by CrazyMan(m): 7:45pm On Nov 11, 2006
If you are suspicious about her,
it's better to catch her red handed as the previous posters have said.
Re: If Your Girl Friend Cheats by kingjoe(m): 12:56pm On Nov 16, 2006
if your girl cheats on you dont wait till you cartch her red handed once you suspect her confront her , ask her , her response will make u know.it is hard to hide guilt.strange behaviours. too many suden cousins,tale by moonlight stories if u are smart u will decode. i will tell u more secrets later.
Re: If Your Girl Friend Cheats by iice(f): 1:05pm On Nov 16, 2006
What if she has no guilt? would you be able to tell by talking to her?
Find out for sure even if its to give your mind rest from considering possibilities and deal with it however you want to.
Re: If Your Girl Friend Cheats by naija4life(f): 2:02pm On Nov 16, 2006
Give her one very good sweet memorable last Bleep and DUMP HER lipsrsealed
Re: If Your Girl Friend Cheats by whitelexi(m): 9:10am On Nov 17, 2006
Wont even come close to doing that
Re: If Your Girl Friend Cheats by cheavroi(m): 9:19am On Nov 17, 2006
First how do u get to know she is cheating on you.ur evidence mite be used to determine how truthfull he allegation is.But if it is that you just got some gut feelings that she is cheating on you,then look inward maybe u the one who is gradually not be interested again and u looking for excuse to dump her.if is the latter then u dont need to call a dog a bad name to hang it,just do it
Re: If Your Girl Friend Cheats by lordjonie(m): 7:53am On May 30, 2009
its simple, discard her coz u r nt meant 2geda.
Re: If Your Girl Friend Cheats by interestin: 8:13am On May 30, 2009
what if your observation is wrong?
Re: If Your Girl Friend Cheats by C2H5OH(f): 8:36am On May 30, 2009
Sam Milla:

if a girl cheats on her biyfriend and the boyfriend knows that she cheats, but has not cautght her red handed. is it wrong for the boy to be angry with the girl especially if it is very hard for the boy to let go of the girl for some special reasons. please i do not want any answer here to be based on either sentiments or stupidness.
Intaresthing

Dude it's okay to be angry if you can't help it. Assuming the trust has taken a big hit then you're going to have some serious issues to nurse in a relationship like that.
Re: If Your Girl Friend Cheats by ievbuomw(f): 8:40am On May 30, 2009
You need to be straight up with her and ask her. COMMUNICATE. Don't EVER assume.
Re: If Your Girl Friend Cheats by C2H5OH(f): 8:47am On May 30, 2009
A lotta cheaters won't admit their wrongs until they're actually caught in the act doing it. Don't wait for her to come out and tell you she's boinking her boss. If you have solid proof that she's getting it dude leave her, if you're not married and there are no kids involved.
Re: If Your Girl Friend Cheats by whitelexi(m): 9:55am On May 30, 2009
Never be too attached to a relationship, if things go wrong, its easy to dust yourself and move on.
If u sense she cheats, u should get some proof - things may not be what they seem sometimes. . .
Re: If Your Girl Friend Cheats by Feelitx(m): 11:49am On May 30, 2009
Be certain she did cheat and walk.
Re: If Your Girl Friend Cheats by eiete(f): 3:43pm On May 30, 2009
That wan no hard at all!!!

Show her the door?

If she do am once wetin make you think say she no go do am over and over again.
Re: If Your Girl Friend Cheats by Tonnie123(m): 5:05pm On May 30, 2009
If i catch her red handed, then i'll kno what to do.
Re: If Your Girl Friend Cheats by follypimpi(m): 5:21pm On May 30, 2009
If my Gf cheat,I walk away.
Re: If Your Girl Friend Cheats by topup: 5:29pm On May 30, 2009
No it's not wrong for the guy to be upset IF HE CAN PROVE THAT SHE CHEATS - because everyone knows that paranoia is a factor in these type of situations. He should not make decisions based on pride or bursts of emotion, he'll need facts.

If the girl in question has betrayed his trust, the emotion that comes with that can be saddness or anger, or if he never loved her (which isn't the case in this particular scenario) he may not be phased.

I think the guy has all the right to be disappointed in his beloved girlfriend, whether he wants to work it out is another question, as she has not chosen to be honest about it with him and he has found out, that type of situation can make a person paranoid; "What else is she keeping from me." e.t.c. .
Re: If Your Girl Friend Cheats by follypimpi(m): 5:36pm On May 30, 2009
topup:

No it's not wrong for the guy to be upset IF HE CAN PROVE THAT SHE CHEATS - because everyone knows that paranoia is a factor in these type of situations. He should not make decisions based on pride or bursts of emotion, he'll need facts.

If the girl in question has betrayed his trust, the emotion that comes with that can be saddness or anger, or if he never loved her (which isn't the case in this particular scenario) he may not be phased.

I think the guy has all the right to be disappointed in his beloved girlfriend, whether he wants to work it out is another question, as she has not chosen to be honest about it with him and he has found out, that type of situation can make a person paranoid; "What else is she keeping from me." e.t.c. .


Work it out my ASS,instead of subjecting yourself to doubting her,just cut her ass off.
Re: If Your Girl Friend Cheats by C2H5OH(f): 5:38pm On May 30, 2009
Yeah I agree. Don't torture yourself with a good for nothing cheater. She has already casted the shadows of doubt in your mind, and you would have a difficult time trusting her again for a very long time.
Re: If Your Girl Friend Cheats by walatar(m): 5:49pm On May 30, 2009
guy wait till you catch her, but if you you should sit down and discuss about it
Re: If Your Girl Friend Cheats by SamMilla1(m): 5:54pm On May 30, 2009
now, who brought this 3 year old thread out here again?
Re: If Your Girl Friend Cheats by UyiIredia(m): 5:57pm On May 30, 2009
if u truly luv her forgive her !!!!!!!  undecided undecided
u count ur cost & u decide nshe ain't worth forgiving >>>>
get it over with her >>>your time is to precious to waste   wink wink
Re: If Your Girl Friend Cheats by Nobody: 6:52pm On May 30, 2009
You cant hand out judgement on sentiments. Signs you might think point to the fact that she is cheating on you might actually be false alarms.
You must have strong evidence to prove beyound reasonable doubt, before you take any decision.

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