In the course of a relationship, there will, no doubt, be times that your partner might feel a spark of attraction for someone else. Of course, the decision on whether or not to take action on this lies with her.

Normally, she should be able to talk through these feelings with you so you can both figure out what is lacking in the relationship that might cause her to be s*xually attracted to another man. But she might be too afraid or too shy to do this.

Look out for the signs below so you can initiate a conversation with her fast. Before things get out of hand.


1. She initiates s*x more often
If your once sexually-shy partner is suddenly into s*x all of a sudden, then be wary. Sure, you might want to give in to the bliss of knowing you do not have to cajole her for s*x but a sudden change like this usually means something is up.

If someone else has her juices flowing all day, she will be so turned on that she will want to let out her s*xual frustration by having s*x with you. It is like she is feeling the excitement of a new relationship but she comes to you for the sex part. Be sure to discuss this before she starts going to him for the sex part too.

2. She keeps trying something new
Normally, you choose the positions and she goes along. But these days, she takes the lead and asks for new things almost every single time you both hit the sheets. If you ask for an explanation, she evades you. This might be because she is practicing for when she gets on with her new guy.

3. She keeps her eyes/mouth closed
When a woman is using you for s*x but wishing she was with someone else, she would want to keep her eyes closed so she can focus on imagining she was with the other guy. Looking at you will ruin this.She might also bite her lips or keep her mouth shut because she is afraid to say the wrong thing (or name).

4. She works towards looking/dressing different
You have never said anything about her weight or style, but you start to notice she is suddenly trying to get fitter or dress different. If you ask her and she is innocent, she will give you a legitimate reason you can understand such as wanting to be healthier or look better for you.

But when you ask and she dodges your question or acts like she is hiding something, she probably is. She might be working so hard to look good to get another man’s attention.

5. She mentions him: more than a few times
If you are someone she considers to be a close friend, then she is very likely to have mentioned this guy at some point. When a woman is excited about someone, she cannot simply keep him to herself.

Sure, she would not talk about him in a romantic way, but she will bring him up in other ways. She might mention a joke he shared, or something funny he did. The point is, when a new guy keeps coming up in your conversations at random times, then you should keep an eye out.

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hmmmmm !

This is the reason why a lot of women especially married women feel that they will be thought of as cheats if they wish to spice up their sex lives if their husband's aren't satisfying them sexually.


With this point of mine, I am able to convince the panel of judges that all what the op wrote is crap and should be banned immediately.

the poster above shah.

I guess this is just nothing but the truth

I totally disagree. Especially 1 n 2.

Daniel2289:
I totally disagree. Especially 1 n 2.

Reasons plz

donbenedict:
This is the reason why a lot of women especially married women feel that they will be thought of as cheats if they wish to spice up their sex lives if their husband's aren't satisfying them sexually.


With this point of mine, I am able to convince the panel of judges that all what the op wrote is crap and should be banned immediately.

Probably u shuld stop reading the headlines and read in details

sheunsheun:

Reasons plz

Are u tryin to tell me if my wife initiate sex dat she is cheating on me I don't buy dat ideal.

Daniel2289:


Are u tryin to tell me if my wife initiate sex dat she is cheating on me I don't buy dat ideal.

Lol. Confirmed!!! You only read the headlines
Please do well and read in details

All i know is girls hardly cheat in a relationship.

All i know is girls hardly cheat in a relationship....

firstking01:
All i know is girls hardly cheat in a relationship....

u ar on a long tiiiiin

sheunsheun:

u ar on a long tiiiiin

chill bro...except you give her reasons to....but it will also depend on the type of girl you are dating.

firstking01:
chill bro...except you give her reasons to....but it will also depend on the type of girl you are dating.

Nw u talking

I don't know what to say....


Cheating or not, Im juz doing my thing...especially 1& 2 or Even the #3

KashyBaby:
I don't know what to say....


Cheating or not, Im juz doing my thing...especially 1& 2 or Even the #3

Hmmmmmm