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His Religion Forbids Condoms by dearbunmi(f): 6:16am On Apr 16, 2016
Dear Bunmi,

My husband and I got married about 10 years ago and I've just given birth to our fourth child and don't want any more children. But my husband is deeply religious and wont use the condom. Used correctly and consistently, female condoms are 95 percent effective. They help to protect against pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections. As a result, Ive resorted to taking the pill without telling him. My fear is, Im worried my husband will be able to detect I'm taking it.

Franka, by e-mail.



Dear Franka,

Women, sometimes react to the hormones in the pill by getting fuller breasts or by adding on weight. It is, however, unlikely that your husband will link this with your taking the pill. So, unless he finds your supply in the house, he probably wont know. Seriously though, you're taking the pill without discussing it with your husband and that's a sign that something is not right with your relationship. You have every right not to have another child if you think four are enough, but lying to your husband is not the way to a good marriage and a happy life. Face your husband and talk this over with him until you find a solution that's right for you both.

Bunmi

ask@dearbunmi.com

http://www.dearbunmi.com/religion-forbids-condoms

Re: His Religion Forbids Condoms by Galacious1: 6:22am On Apr 16, 2016
The husby practices the same religion with 2face.

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Re: His Religion Forbids Condoms by Nobody: 6:25am On Apr 16, 2016
Who is a gynecologist??









Err.. He's a Ghanian doctor!!!


Lol... Sorry to derail... But I think your thread is just to bring attention to your website... N what its all about... As you don answer the problem already.... grin
Morninggrin
Re: His Religion Forbids Condoms by donbenedict(m): 6:26am On Apr 16, 2016
Seriously me too, I dnt like dat thing
Re: His Religion Forbids Condoms by Smellymouth: 6:32am On Apr 16, 2016
donbenedict:
Seriously me too, I dnt like dat thing

Re: His Religion Forbids Condoms by layla129(f): 7:01am On Apr 16, 2016
If he doesn't like condoms that means you're going to continuously have babies. Who does that? Madame continue with your pills. Is his religion against withdrawal too?

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Re: His Religion Forbids Condoms by Nobody: 7:02am On Apr 16, 2016
layla129:
If he doesn't like condoms that means you're going to continuously have babies. Who does that? Madame continue with your pills. Is his religion against withdrawal too?
So says the "virgin" undecided
Re: His Religion Forbids Condoms by layla129(f): 7:05am On Apr 16, 2016
slyIsaac:

So says the "virgin" undecided

Virgins know stuffs hunnae undecided. Good morning
Re: His Religion Forbids Condoms by Nobody: 7:06am On Apr 16, 2016
Biko which religion is that? grin
Re: His Religion Forbids Condoms by Rexhenrex(m): 7:20am On Apr 16, 2016
PinkBarbie:
Biko which religion is that? grin
am most definitely sure its christianity
Re: His Religion Forbids Condoms by AlienStar: 7:22am On Apr 16, 2016
Maybe the guy is a conc. Catholic..... You guys should try FAMILY PLANNING it does help.
Re: His Religion Forbids Condoms by divinehand2003(m): 7:24am On Apr 16, 2016
Does he want more kids too?
Re: His Religion Forbids Condoms by Nobody: 7:29am On Apr 16, 2016
layla129:


Virgins know stuffs hunnae undecided. Good morning
If you say so o.... Good Morning ... smiley
Hw ws ya nait?
Re: His Religion Forbids Condoms by Nobody: 7:31am On Apr 16, 2016
AlienStar:
Maybe the guy is a conc. Catholic..... You guys should try FAMILY PLANNING it does help.
Whatever is goin on in tat fvcked up family 's planning,has nothing to do with being catholic..... Mind yaself oga.....
Re: His Religion Forbids Condoms by Nobody: 7:41am On Apr 16, 2016
This is my new religion too. Will rather not have sex than waste my hard earned energy and sperm on top woman angry
Re: His Religion Forbids Condoms by AlienStar: 7:49am On Apr 16, 2016
What is the one saying? Btw I'm not 'Oga'
slyIsaac:

Whatever is goin on in tat fvcked up family 's planning,has nothing to do with being catholic..... Mind yaself oga.....
Re: His Religion Forbids Condoms by Nobody: 8:01am On Apr 16, 2016
donbenedict:
Seriously me too, I dnt like dat thing
Really?


Even as family planning method?

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Re: His Religion Forbids Condoms by Nobody: 8:10am On Apr 16, 2016
AlienStar:
What is the one saying? Btw I'm not 'Oga'
nonsense talk attracts oga regardless of the gender undecided
Re: His Religion Forbids Condoms by AlienStar: 8:30am On Apr 16, 2016
C'mon take a bow!
slyIsaac:

nonsense talk attracts oga regardless of the gender undecided
Re: His Religion Forbids Condoms by donbenedict(m): 9:16am On Apr 16, 2016
missbronze:
Really?


Even as family planning method?

leme browse on what vasectomy is all about first, before I give u an answer
Re: His Religion Forbids Condoms by Nobody: 10:18am On Apr 16, 2016
donbenedict:
leme browse on what vasectomy is all about first, before I give u an answer
I know what you are saying.


But, I just felt since we are not yet done giving birth, why go for it?

I feel as long as the couple are still giving birth, condom should be their own contraceptive. when they finally decide they are done, vasectomy, tube tying, drugs, Implanon etc, should then come in.
Re: His Religion Forbids Condoms by donbenedict(m): 10:26am On Apr 16, 2016
missbronze:
I know what you are saying.


But, I just felt since we are not yet done giving birth, why go for it?

I feel as long as the couple are still giving birth, condom should be their own contraceptive. when they finally decide they are done, vasectomy, tube tying, drugs, Implanon etc, should then come in.
ok dats true. I agree with u totally.. maybe i'v not used a condom before, hence my reasoning..


I should just try one and see how it feels like
Re: His Religion Forbids Condoms by Nobody: 10:36am On Apr 16, 2016
donbenedict:
ok dats true. I agree with u totally.. maybe i'v not used a condom before, hence my reasoning..


I should just try one and see how it feels like
Lol.


Try it.

I will be here waiting for your feedback.
Re: His Religion Forbids Condoms by donbenedict(m): 10:49am On Apr 16, 2016
missbronze:
Lol.


Try it.

I will be here waiting for your feedback.
smiley lol its not as easy as u think it is...
Re: His Religion Forbids Condoms by isacolukay(m): 5:11pm On Apr 16, 2016
missbronze:
Lol.


Try it.

I will be here waiting for your feedback.

Missbronze, chai! No be so oooo.
Re: His Religion Forbids Condoms by Nobody: 4:18pm On Apr 17, 2016
isacolukay:

Missbronze, chai! No be so oooo.
Lol.

OK, I am sorry. Can we go back to the days our love was so strong?

please, let me have your contact back.
#Down on bended knees#.
Re: His Religion Forbids Condoms by isacolukay(m): 4:56pm On Apr 17, 2016
missbronze:
Lol.


OK, I am sorry. Can we go back to the days our love was so strong?


please, let me have your contact back.

#Down on bended knees#.

I'm sorry too for my inaction(s). I guess you read too many meanings to them. But I felt u should understand me better.

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