layla129:
One night stands, booty calls, friends with benefits -all of these types of relationship exists but is any of them really worth it? Is it possible to have sexual relationship with someone without catching feelings? I know its quite easy for the guys...is it easy for some ladies too?

Share some experiences please

layla129:


Ok, now you can move along

your hands were inching that was why you typed that shiit right?

layla129:

Amazing. Sex is a big deal to me

pinceprinz:


- cos you don't deserve the mental stress to ginger me into summarizing .

JoeBlocks:
Sex, or love making?

JoeBlocks:
Well depends on how you want to look at it. If its just about letting off some steam, why not. Must one have sexual relations with someone one has feelings for. Its not always the case.

Guys who shag runZ girls don't do it all the time. So do the girls. It has to do with setting your priorities right, and know what you want.

layla129:


What is the difference?

JoeBlocks:
Sex usually involve the no feeling attached syndrome. No necking, frolicking, teasing and the likes... Just the bam bam bam and release, while love making is the total package. It forms a bond, a unity known to only the two who joined together in bliss unison.

layla129:


Ok, lets focus on booty calls and friends with benefits. Exclude one night stands

JoeBlocks:
So this as an arrangement. A business deal, like do you catch feelings with people you transact business with?

Friends with benefit is more like being in an open relationship, you both can do whatever you guys want without getting jealous or suspecting each other of cheating. That's where the arrangement comes in.

layla129:


Lmao nigga doesn't even know what "so long" means... It means goodbye. You don't even have a brain to process anything whether short or long...move along brother! Its not by force to make a comment. Rude morrafucka

AlexCk:
Hmmm, Depends op, some people are either "emotionally unavailable" or "emotionally damaged ", and myt just have sex as a sport.

U'd be amazed how some people aint got no feelings

layla129:


Is that your own definition? Ok, love making then. I don't have sex

layla129:


Did i hear you say "wife" if you're married, the above is not even an option

layla129:

Lol, i know what they mean.

layla129:


Some plan it that way but end up getting trapped

JoeBlocks:
LOL. Its the way it is. From the way you sound, I'll say you're the type of girl who get emotionally attached to her man, and you're emotionally sensitive too.

But since love making is what gets to you, like what you love, what happens when you make love to that guy you can't connect with?

BiafranNigerian:


Its a wonderful option, especially for married men. To be able to withstand the antics of wife, and not be like Omotola's husband who goes to market for her, we try to lessen our demands when a wife uses sex as a ploy for her antics.

To be a loving and 'independent' husband, you must refuse to fall into 'sex traps' of wife. Wives use sex as leverage for their incessant manipulation. A wise man goes to club when there is a trap set at home, and conji calls.

Equation: Conji+wife manipulative entrapment = captured husband.

Solution: Conji+escort model = independent husband.

Why do you think some men are called woman wrapper ? Answer is, they keep falling for the sex traps. I dont fall for that trap.

layla129:


How will i make love with someone i'm not connected with? What makes it love making then?

layla129:


Lool, you're funny i swear. Don't let that woman catch you

JoeBlocks:
Guys fake love too you know.. Your feelings might be pure, but his might not be. Have you ever made love to someone, afterwards, you feel unsatisfied?.

layla129:
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No

JoeBlocks:
Well lucky you. I suppose your boify must have mastered the art of Kuma Sutra to have imprinted on you this much. Niceeee

layla129:

Lol, funny

Aguiyi13:
I for one ain't a fan of sex without emotions, definitely not My kinda fun. can only have sex with someone I share same feelings with no matter how little it is. thats why I distant Myself from sex hawkers and friends with benefits. My Dīck got dignity too.

Headlesschicken:
Sex wivout emotions x great,relationships r overrated,u tend 2knw more bout d gal whom x yuh frnd wiv benefits,than yuh galfrnd of 3yrs,their r no unnecessary coplications wiv those,n funny enuf d gals r more free wiv u,n tend 2b more open wiv u....

stubbornman:
I've had it all.....relationship is a crazy old fella, no strings attach became the logo...I go as far as letting them know even before we get laid

JoeBlocks:
How? Care to enlighten me? Would love to know...