please have patience to read my long story thanks

i met this girl about a year now, first as friends and then as lover and everything went well until recently.

And i also have this male dog ( a well trained, very big German shepherd) and its free of any dog diseases and pest because his doctor come once in a month to check him up , and the dog is like a very close friend to me due to his behaviour as in the dog understands human language perfectly especially if spoken by me and the dog is very protective because almost all the houses in my estate has been broken into except mine partly due to d presence of that dog, i know God is the overall protector of man.

infact the dog has a special place in my heart

back to the main issue

have dated this girl for a while now but i havent taken her to my place due to her command and control lifestyle, as she wants everything to happen according to her wishes and command and i didnt take it serious because i really love her not until recently. although we havent beeen intimate all this while of which i dont bother or care to ask all because i love and simply give her what she wants just to avoid issues

well after all said and done she finally came to my house the first time and we spent quality time together and she stayed only for few hours then she left all this while she was with me ,my dog was in his house resting because he knows am around and cant bark at her because she is with me because of that she never notice that i have a dog.

after sometimes she came again and this time she stayed for 2 days so as a gentleman that i am i proceeded to show her around my around and then introduce my dog to her.

well all other part went well except for the dog part and please note the dog never barked at her or threaten her in anyway because i told the dog to shut up well she feed the dog right there with the dog food and we left, but i notice that her countenance has change ever since we met the dog and she bluntly refuse to know the dogs name of which i call Tiger and anytime i chip in a discussion about what the dog can do she will suddenly get angry and stop me halfway or walkout

as time went on she refuse coming to my place again demanding i either kill the dog and discard it or i remove it from my compound otherwise she is not coming again and all my plea and discussion of the benefits of that dog fell on a deaf ear as she said i rather hire a security man or do something else as for the dog she doesnt want to see him again

to further compound the issue when i refuse she now say its either the dog goes or she goes and looking that all her possesive life all this while i told her, SHE CAN GO as for the dog am not letting him go not that i love the dog more than her , but the risk and potent danger are too high and i cant risk my safty for someone whose lifestyle doesnt even assure you of marriage

when she was leaving she started telling me how ungrateful i am and how stupid and heartly i am and she went around telling people lies that i am into dogs

please Nairalander was i wrong in letting her go
because her rumours is really getting out of hand

NB; please overlook any typing and grammatical errors

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@lalasticlala frontpage please

You did well ; that was the right thing to do. some girls are just miseries in the life of any man they come in contact with. Forget about her, move on with your life , you deserve someone better.

Good riddance to bad rubbish. Make sure she doesn't return oh. Today is dog. Tomorrow it will be your dad, mum and siblings, close pals etc. Mtchwwwwwww.

Your girlfriend is a queen of the coast, a karishika!

Kindly dumb her... Many Many fishes in the ocean...
Ah hardly take any seriously now...
If you like shout hallelujah I love you...
I always do Wah I deem fit and good to me...
If the dog is good for u... Keep it

@DonEffiong Personally, I think you did the right thing. If your heart justfies you, stand by your decision. She seems like a selfish individual. The dog is a life too na.

Ur bae fit be Calabar winsh






But in as much as I dnt like dogs that are not mine, I can't tell u to discard urz coz I dnt like it.


I will visit only wen u are around shikena.

the problem i observed is that you are too attached to your dog emotionally and she got jealous. i.e you talkmmore abt ur dog anytime both of u are discussing.
MY ADVICE IS DAT, DONT EVER BRING D DOG ISSUE ANYTIME U ARE 2GETHER N DISCUSSING. WIT DAT SHE WILL COPE N MAKE HER 2 UNDERSTAND U SINCERELY.
U KNOW FEMALE ARE ALWAYS JEALOUS N FRAGILE ABOUT THEIR MAN N RELATIONSHIP. OK? GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Daniel1673:
the problem i observed is that you are too attached to your dog emotionally and she got jealous. i.e you talkmmore abt ur dog anytime both of u are discussing.
MY ADVICE IS DAT, DONT EVER BRING D DOG ISSUE ANYTIME U ARE 2GETHER N DISCUSSING. WIT DAT SHE WILL COPE N MAKE HER 2 UNDERSTAND U SINCERELY.
U KNOW FEMALE ARE ALWAYS JEALOUS N FRAGILE ABOUT THEIR MAN N RELATIONSHIP. OK? GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Did you read this part very well?

well after all said and done she finally came to my house the first time and we spent quality time together and she stayed only for few hours then she left all this while she was with me ,my dog was in his house resting because he knows am around and cant bark at her because she is with me because of that she never notice that i have a dog.

after sometimes she came again and this time she stayed for 2 days so as a gentleman that i am i proceeded to show her around my around and then introduce my dog to her.

DonEffiong:
due to her command and control lifestyle, as she wants everything to happen according to her wishes and command and i didnt take it serious.

Dear OP,
I believe this is where your problems lies. How can you condone such bitchy attitude for a girl no matter how much you love her?

Let her go bro. What is it with a dog that didn't even harass her? She is a WITCH ...those people don't like dogs. Thank God for your life

I once met one lunatic like that. Mine was a cat though.... Yes i have a cat, it's understandable if u Dnt like cats, I keep it away from people who don't like it, some people do or some come in and see its nice an wanna play with it. This crazy girl after coming to my house 2wice asked me to kill my cat and send her the picture before she comes to my house again. I don't even like the cat like that per say but we weren't even dating... Like WTF.. Tomorrow she would want you to get rid of something bigger.

See good ridiance... Tell her to duck off, if she liked you she would have adapted to the dog.

Marinza:
I once met one lunatic like that. Mine was a cat though.... Yes i have a cat, it's understandable if u Dnt like cats, I keep it away from people who don't like it, some people do or some come in and see its nice an wanna play with it. This crazy girl after coming to my house 2wice asked me to kill my cat and send her the picture before she comes to my house again. I don't even like the cat like that per say but we weren't even dating... Like WTF.. Tomorrow she would want you to get rid of something bigger.

See good ridiance... Tell her to duck off, if she liked you she would have adapted to the dog.

She wants to be the only pusssycat

Those kinda folks are fake... You don't need a pastor, imam or priest to tell you. Today it's your dog,tomorrow it's something slightly bigger,eventually it's your head. It's a free world. If she was made for your world she would fit in effortlessly. My mum never liked dogs. My bro still went ahead and got one. Long story short. My mum lost weight and all that when the dog died.