I am a caring guy and i believe in 2nd chances because i know we all make mistakes but at this level i dont know what to believe or do anymore. A friend of mine who we regularly chat on palmchat confided in me,she said she has been dating her guy for almost a year and they have been in love. she was very truthful and into him like he was into her. He stays far from her and they see rarely on some occassions,then one day,the crazy happened. She was bored at home,she called on her girl friends but they seems at a party,so she felt ok,let me stay indoor. then her guy friend called and she agreed he come over so they watch a movie together,as they were watching the movies,he was robbing her legs as she lay on the sofa next to her. She felt it was an innocent massage until it got erotic and she got turned on and kissed him. She jumped up and asked him to leave and she got really angry at him and herself. She called her guy and confessed,he was angry and threw the question at her,"What do you want me to do?"
He has not picked her call till now,i have been chatting her up on palmchat to make her feel calm and believe he will forgive her.What do think he will do,Leave her or Forgive her

forgive her

So wat do u want me to do? Jump up too?

He is the owner of his property.... In relationships there are no third parties... So since it's not us she kissed.... Let him decide.... For if he marries her... We are not the ones getting married... And if he dumps her.. We won't be the ones crying. It's a free world. This is a private matter not for public consumption.

Gf

She kissed, what's the big deal? who doesn't get tempted once in a rear while? Abeg, forgive her and move on with your relationship.

wemmieslim:
She kissed, what's the big deal?
who doesn't get tempted once in a rear while?
Abeg, forgive her and move on with your relationship.

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Same chick will cry blood if her man kisses another babe.

Jst pray. Mistake r bound to happen. Hw sure r u that ur guy has not kissed another babe too. I hate it when some guy act like Jesus in a relationship. We r not perfect and mistake r bound to happen.

tripplephi:
He is the owner of his property.... In relationships there are no third parties... So since it's not us she kissed.... Let him decide.... For if he marries her... We are not the ones getting married... And if he dumps her.. We won't be the ones crying. It's a free world. This is a private matter not for public consumption.

you said it all,it is his choice to forgive or not,they know how how far they have come...so watever the decision the guy takes ,am okay by it..na in babe not mine!!!

wemmieslim:
She kissed, what's the big deal?
who doesn't get tempted once in a rear while?
Abeg, forgive her and move on with your relationship.

Are u serious??.. Its a big deal

Don't tell me ur one of those girls

In jermane cole's words "fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me, fool me three times f**k the peace signs, load the chopper let it rain on you". Back to the matter op forgive her but if she tries it again dump her cheating ass, she no loyal.

Better to break up. Kiss indeed. She slept with him and just lied that it was only a kiss. Rubbish.

He should give her space and allow her kiss that guy some more. That girl is a cheat and liar.

Why did she invite him over in the first place?. If she stays home alone for that day, will she die??. She told her BF she kissed him and the BF will be like how am i sure you didn't even have sex with him..He wasn't there and she could invite her "guy" friend over, "she allowed him rub her leg as she lay on the sofa, She felt it was an innocent massage until it got Intimate and she got turned on and kissed him. She jumped up and asked him to leave and she got really angry at him and herself". And who would believe that "Story for the gods"..She try well well...Please ladies - learn to think of the consequence(s) of an action before you even think of taking that action at all...Don't do to people (your boyfriends) what you'll never accept from them.....shikena