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That Awkward Moment When You Are Duped By Your Girlfriend! by sapien(m): 12:47pm On Apr 22, 2016
She arranges for a date for both of you to see a movie at the cinema. She decides to foot the movie bill.
Meanwhile, you pay for the cab to and fro the cinema. After the movie, she says she is hungry and you order for a food worth three times the movie ticket.
Who gains, who loses?
Nigerian girls are bunch of smart asses.
On her birthday, you spend for her. On your birthday, you still spend for her.
You recharge her phone.
You fuel her car tank.
You give her money to fix her hair.
And someone, somewhere would still be championing the gender equality cause.
We can never be equal. At least, not in this country - Nigeria.
Until Nigeria women take full responsibility for their action and inaction, we are never equal.

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Re: That Awkward Moment When You Are Duped By Your Girlfriend! by Nobody: 12:53pm On Apr 22, 2016
sapien:




She arranges for a date for both of you to see a movie at the
cinema. She decides to foot the movie bill.

Meanwhile, you pay for the cab to and fro the cinema.
After the movie, she says she is hungry and you order for a
food worth three times the movie ticket.

Who gains, who loses?

Nigerian girls are bunch of smart asses.

On her birthday, you spend for her. On your birthday, you
still spend for her.

You recharge her phone.

You fuel her car tank.

You give her money to fix her hair.

And someone, somewhere would still be championing the
gender equality cause.

We can never be equal. At least, not in this country - Nigeria.

Until Nigeria women take full responsibility for their action
and inaction, we are never equal.
How many of you guys actually do these, you lots that are quick to call a girl golddigger when she makes demand, you come online to spew rubbish undecided

Abegi

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Re: That Awkward Moment When You Are Duped By Your Girlfriend! by koolpope(m): 12:55pm On Apr 22, 2016
As far as when I request for her p.....sly nd she dey giv me wella,no wahala
Re: That Awkward Moment When You Are Duped By Your Girlfriend! by ronald4lif(m): 12:58pm On Apr 22, 2016
sapien:




She arranges for a date for both of you to see a movie at the
cinema. She decides to foot the movie bill.

Meanwhile, you pay for the cab to and fro the cinema.
After the movie, she says she is hungry and you order for a
food worth three times the movie ticket.

Who gains, who loses?

Nigerian girls are bunch of smart asses.

On her birthday, you spend for her. On your birthday, you
still spend for her.

You recharge her phone.

You fuel her car tank.

You give her money to fix her hair.

And someone, somewhere would still be championing the
gender equality cause.

We can never be equal. At least, not in this country - Nigeria.

Until Nigeria women take full responsibility for their action
and inaction, we are never equal.


The bold is faulty. A handful of women who champions equality takes full responsibility and are in total control of their sustainability. The ones who don't are cool with the status quo. So do we lump these two together and punish the former for what is ordinarily not their offence?

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Re: That Awkward Moment When You Are Duped By Your Girlfriend! by Nobody: 1:04pm On Apr 22, 2016
pls stop talking like u guys actually do it for free.

u claim men spend on ladies, but u forget the part where u guys ask for sex undecided u guys are too selfish to give anything to ladies free from the heart.
only very few give free.

as far as I'm concerned everything is balanced and equal.
bring ur part, I bring mine.
obviously u guys need sex. dats why u buy stuff for gals.
some don't even give at all.
Girls go make something out of urselves so that when these stingy azzholes start doing their shakara, u give them the finger and say "I don't need this bullsheet, nigga, when u ready for something serious, just holla at my PA" then u write the number of ur PA on a #1000 note and fling it at their face tongue
Re: That Awkward Moment When You Are Duped By Your Girlfriend! by HolyHero: 1:06pm On Apr 22, 2016
Until they stop being bunch of lazy asses_ and walk the talk.. I see all of them as sex object
Re: That Awkward Moment When You Are Duped By Your Girlfriend! by torqque7(m): 1:13pm On Apr 22, 2016
EroticAngelina:
pls stop talking like u guys actually do it for free.

u claim men spend on ladies, but u forget the part where u guys ask for sex undecided u guys are too selfish to give anything to ladies free from the heart.
only very few give free.

as far as I'm concerned everything is balanced and equal.
bring ur part, I bring mine.
obviously u guys need sex. dats why u buy stuff for gals.
some don't even give at all.
Girls go make something out of urselves so that when these stingy azzholes start doing their shakara, u give them the finger and say "I don't need this bullsheet, nigga, when u ready for something serious, just holla at my PA" then u write the number of ur PA on a #1000 note and fling it at their face tongue
You make it sound like its just the guys that need sex..it takes two to fvck and last time I checked women enjoy s.ex just as much as guys if not even more than so she is not doing him any favour by having sex with him,if she doesn't do it,another girl somewhere would..btw from what you said,does that mean a woman has nothing to offer other than sex?

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Re: That Awkward Moment When You Are Duped By Your Girlfriend! by lonelyisland(m): 1:17pm On Apr 22, 2016
EroticAngelina:
pls stop talking like u guys actually do it for free.

u claim men spend on ladies, but u forget the part where u guys ask for sex undecided u guys are too selfish to give anything to ladies free from the heart.
only very few give free.

as far as I'm concerned everything is balanced and equal.
bring ur part, I bring mine.
obviously u guys need sex. dats why u buy stuff for gals.
some don't even give at all.
Girls go make something out of urselves so that when these stingy azzholes start doing their shakara, u give them the finger and say "I don't need this bullsheet, nigga, when u ready for something serious, just holla at my PA" then u write the number of ur PA on a #1000 note and fling it at their face tongue
And i will just tear out the part where the number was written and throw the remaining one away
Re: That Awkward Moment When You Are Duped By Your Girlfriend! by Nobody: 1:27pm On Apr 22, 2016
torqque7:

You make it sound like its just the guys that need sex..it takes two to fvck and last time I checked women enjoy s.ex just as much as guys if not even more than so she is not doing him any favour by having sex with him,if she doesn't do it,another girl somewhere would..btw from what you said,does that mean a woman has nothing to offer other than sex?

yes it takes two to fvck, buh its u guys that make it a 'give me, I give u' thing. majority of u guys can't give something to a girl without something (sex) in return.
the sad thing is that this norm has gone beyond relationships to other ventures. now any gal that gets something or becomes a beauty queen gets suspected. a girl gets promotion in her department, ppl will jx conclude she slept with tha boss. and sometimes I don't blame the gossipers cos of the stoopid things u GUYS do.
Because a gal wants something or a promotion so bad, she has no choice but to comply with the requirements needed by guys, and after, its the same id*ot that will be calling her a hoe.
I will never respect guys who take advantage of vulnerable girls jx to satisfy their lust. that's why I urge women to make a name for themselves, and also help those girls come up. that's girl power.
and u guys wonder why we support feminism.undecided

Sex is not the only thing a girl can give. don't misquote me pls smiley

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Re: That Awkward Moment When You Are Duped By Your Girlfriend! by Nobody: 1:31pm On Apr 22, 2016
lonelyisland:

And i will just tear out the part where the number was written and throw the remaining one away

u think u are doing her? lol she's trying to prove a point. it ain't gonna affect her cos #1000 is chicken change to her, that's why she freely gave u that money, but u.... I just hope u won't later regret Wat u did when u find out ijebu garri has finished and there's no money to buy it grin
Re: That Awkward Moment When You Are Duped By Your Girlfriend! by latinoKingdom(m): 1:39pm On Apr 22, 2016
EroticAngelina:


yes it takes two to fvck, buh its u guys that make it a 'give me, I give u' thing. majority of u guys can't give something to a girl without something (sex) in return.
the sad thing is that this norm has gone beyond relationships to other ventures. now any gal that gets something or becomes a beauty queen gets suspected. a girl gets promotion in her department, ppl will jx conclude she slept with tha boss. and sometimes I don't blame the gossipers cos of the stoopid things u GUYS do.
Because a gal wants something or a promotion so bad, she has no choice but to comply with the requirements needed by guys, and after, its the same id*ot that will be calling her a hoe.
I will never respect guys who take advantage of vulnerable girls jx to satisfy their lust. that's why I urge women to make a name for themselves, and also help those girls come up. that's girl power.
and u guys wonder why we support feminism.undecided

Sex is not the only thing a girl can give. don't misquote me pls smiley
if a guy doesn't want sex from them, what else can they be use for??
Re: That Awkward Moment When You Are Duped By Your Girlfriend! by torqque7(m): 1:45pm On Apr 22, 2016
EroticAngelina:


yes it takes two to fvck, buh its u guys that make it a 'give me, I give u' thing. majority of u guys can't give something to a girl without something (sex) in return.
the sad thing is that this norm has gone beyond relationships to other ventures. now any gal that gets something or becomes a beauty queen gets suspected. a girl gets promotion in her department, ppl will jx conclude she slept with tha boss. and sometimes I don't blame the gossipers cos of the stoopid things u GUYS do.
Because a gal wants something or a promotion so bad, she has no choice but to comply with the requirements needed by guys, and after, its the same id*ot that will be calling her a hoe.
I will never respect guys who take advantage of vulnerable girls jx to satisfy their lust. that's why I urge women to make a name for themselves, and also help those girls come up. that's girl power.
and u guys wonder why we support feminism.undecided

Sex is not the only thing a girl can give. don't misquote me pls smiley
Hmm well your post suggested women only give sex in return for everything a man does for her..read the first 3lines on your post.
Btw have you not heard stories where big women too will demand sex from guys for promotion?Abi you don't know what sugar mummies do?so don't make it look like women are always the victims here biko,you women have your own too.
Bottom line is people should learn to go into relationships for the right reasons(love and security)and stop looking at a relationship as something they will go into because the have a sinister plan for the other person.
P.s..you better don't become a feminist for your own good,I am not saying don't advocate for gender equality o but know when to draw the line from being a feminist tongue
Re: That Awkward Moment When You Are Duped By Your Girlfriend! by sapien(m): 1:56pm On Apr 22, 2016
firstEVA:
How many of you guys actually do these, you lots that are quick to call a girl golddigger when she makes demand, you come online to spew rubbish undecided

Abegi
How many Naija guys spend on their girlfriends?

Like seriously? Surely, you must be living on the moon or something!
Re: That Awkward Moment When You Are Duped By Your Girlfriend! by sapien(m): 1:59pm On Apr 22, 2016
ronald4lif:


The bold is faulty. A handful of women who champions equality takes full responsibility and are in total control of their sustainability. The ones who don't are cool with the status quo. So do we lump these two together and punish the former for what is ordinarily not their offence?
You have got a point, though.

But my concern is those who are cool with the status quo are in the majority, which is worrisome to a huge extent.
Re: That Awkward Moment When You Are Duped By Your Girlfriend! by Nobody: 2:05pm On Apr 22, 2016
latinoKingdom:
if a guy doesn't want sex from them, what else can they be use for??

torqque7 , come see example of such men.

back to u, why dont u ask ur mum that question smiley
Re: That Awkward Moment When You Are Duped By Your Girlfriend! by latinoKingdom(m): 2:10pm On Apr 22, 2016
EroticAngelina:


torqque7 , come see example of such men.

back to u, why dont u ask ur mum that question smiley
hmm when you wanna talk, don't ever compare my mum, in fact don't compare mums to nowadays ladies, there mentality is different, ladies these days are money freak
Re: That Awkward Moment When You Are Duped By Your Girlfriend! by latinoKingdom(m): 2:13pm On Apr 22, 2016
EroticAngelina:


torqque7 , come see example of such men.

back to u, why dont u ask ur mum that question smiley
if you mention mums, let me give you a good example, you will see a lady saying, I want a man with pink lips, tall, rich and romantic whereas her father is a potbellied man, don't compare them at all, our mothers suffered and help our fathers to achieve whatever they have today, but ladies these days are so lazy...

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Re: That Awkward Moment When You Are Duped By Your Girlfriend! by sapien(m): 2:16pm On Apr 22, 2016
EroticAngelina:


yes it takes two to fvck, buh its u guys that make it a 'give me, I give u' thing. majority of u guys can't give something to a girl without something (sex) in return.
the sad thing is that this norm has gone beyond relationships to other ventures. now any gal that gets something or becomes a beauty queen gets suspected. a girl gets promotion in her department, ppl will jx conclude she slept with tha boss. and sometimes I don't blame the gossipers cos of the stoopid things u GUYS do.
Because a gal wants something or a promotion so bad, she has no choice but to comply with the requirements needed by guys, and after, its the same id*ot that will be calling her a hoe.
I will never respect guys who take advantage of vulnerable girls jx to satisfy their lust. that's why I urge women to make a name for themselves, and also help those girls come up. that's girl power.
and u guys wonder why we support feminism.undecided

Sex is not the only thing a girl can give. don't misquote me pls smiley
You talk as though the sex is not a mutual thing. So, only men enjoy sex?
Re: That Awkward Moment When You Are Duped By Your Girlfriend! by Nobody: 2:21pm On Apr 22, 2016
torqque7:

Hmm well your post suggested women only give sex in return for everything a man does for her..read the first 3lines on your post.
Btw have you not heard stories where big women too will demand sex from guys for promotion?Abi you don't know what sugar mummies do?so don't make it look like women are always the victims here biko,you women have your own too.
Bottom line is people should learn to go into relationships for the right reasons(love and security)and stop looking at a relationship as something they will go into because the have a sinister plan for the other person.
P.s..you better don't become a feminist for your own good,I am not saying don't advocate for gender equality o but know when to draw the line from being a feminist tongue

i'm a feminist, but I don't go extreme like some women who don't know the true meaning of feminism or the right act of feminism.
I believe in Men as the head, buh I won't give respect when men use that 'post' to ride or act unjustly to women. shikina.

that being said. I wanna address the issue u brought up abt me siding with the women.
I believe when there's an issue or a fault committed by two parties (example here, male and female), its majority of the ppl committing that crime that should be emphasized on more.
its just like voting. the Minors' vote don't count, buh that doesn't mean they didn't vote or aren't citizens.

u sound like a smartazz, I believe u can relate Wat I just said to the topic at hand smiley
Re: That Awkward Moment When You Are Duped By Your Girlfriend! by sapien(m): 2:28pm On Apr 22, 2016
latinoKingdom:
if you mention mums, let me give you a good example, you will see a lady saying, I want a man with pink lips, tall, rich and romantic whereas her father is a potbellied man, don't compare them at all, our mothers suffered and help our fathers to achieve whatever they have today, but ladies these days are so lazy...
Re: That Awkward Moment When You Are Duped By Your Girlfriend! by Nobody: 2:28pm On Apr 22, 2016
latinoKingdom:
if you mention mums, let me give you a good example, you will see a lady saying, I want a man with pink lips, tall, rich and romantic whereas her father is a potbellied man, don't compare them at all, our mothers suffered and help our fathers to achieve whatever they have today, but ladies these days are so lazy...

stop contradicting urslf dear.

even in those days when our mothers and grandmothers were born, there were still very lazy women

a lazy woman is a lazy woman, and a hard working woman is a hardworking woman.

but that does not relate to Wat u said the first time u quoted me.
u asked me watelse are women supposed to give men if not sex... are u seriously kidding me? undecided so u mean ur mum only gave ur dad sex ur galfriend or wife is only there as a sec machine
all I can tell u is that the day u start seeing women for their worth, and not for sex, is the day good women will start coming ur way. smiley
Re: That Awkward Moment When You Are Duped By Your Girlfriend! by Nobody: 2:31pm On Apr 22, 2016
latinoKingdom:
hmm when you wanna talk, don't ever compare my mum, in fact don't compare mums to nowadays ladies, there mentality is different, ladies these days are money freak

who said I was comparing ur mum? I only asked u to ask her a question.
and I used her bkus she's a woman, and I know u must love and respect her.
Re: That Awkward Moment When You Are Duped By Your Girlfriend! by latinoKingdom(m): 2:34pm On Apr 22, 2016
EroticAngelina:


who said I was comparing ur mum? I only asked u to ask her a question.
and I used her bkus she's a woman, and I know u must love and respect her.
I have a question for u too, ask your dad can't a guy spend on lady without anything in return? Ask him, he will love to answer you, because I know you respect and love him
Re: That Awkward Moment When You Are Duped By Your Girlfriend! by Nobody: 2:35pm On Apr 22, 2016
sapien:
You talk as though the sex is not a mutual thing. So, only men enjoy sex?

I never said that.

but is sex enjoyed when u are doing it to get a promotion from ur boss?
sure its physically enjoyed for obvious reasons, but is ur heart there?
I believe sex should be enjoyed wholeheartedly, bkus u luv that person or find that person attractive, not because u have a promotion on the line.
Re: That Awkward Moment When You Are Duped By Your Girlfriend! by latinoKingdom(m): 2:35pm On Apr 22, 2016
EroticAngelina:


stop contradicting urslf dear.

even in those days when our mothers and grandmothers were born, there were still very lazy women

a lazy woman is a lazy woman, and a hard working woman is a hardworking woman.

but that does not relate to Wat u said the first time u quoted me.
u asked me watelse are women supposed to give men if not sex... are u seriously kidding me? undecided so u mean ur mum only gave ur dad sex ur galfriend or wife is only there as a sec machine
all I can tell u is that the day u start seeing women for their worth, and not for sex, is the day good women will start coming ur way. smiley
just mention it then I will believe you, you know I'm right, you just don't wanna accept it
Re: That Awkward Moment When You Are Duped By Your Girlfriend! by latinoKingdom(m): 2:38pm On Apr 22, 2016
EroticAngelina:


stop contradicting urslf dear.

even in those days when our mothers and grandmothers were born, there were still very lazy women

a lazy woman is a lazy woman, and a hard working woman is a hardworking woman.

but that does not relate to Wat u said the first time u quoted me.
u asked me watelse are women supposed to give men if not sex... are u seriously kidding me? undecided so u mean ur mum only gave ur dad sex ur galfriend or wife is only there as a sec machine
all I can tell u is that the day u start seeing women for their worth, and not for sex, is the day good women will start coming ur way. smiley
ordinary cooking must girls can't offer there so called bf, but expect him to spend heaven and earth on them
Re: That Awkward Moment When You Are Duped By Your Girlfriend! by Nobody: 2:38pm On Apr 22, 2016
latinoKingdom:
I have a question for u too, ask your dad can't a guy spend on lady without anything in return? Ask him, he will love to answer you, because I know you respect and love him

funny. u are confused.
.buh to answer ur question.
I don't think like u think.
I don't see men as sex objects or money machine.
Re: That Awkward Moment When You Are Duped By Your Girlfriend! by latinoKingdom(m): 2:40pm On Apr 22, 2016
EroticAngelina:


funny. u are confused.
.buh to answer ur question.
I don't think like u think.
I don't see men as sex objects or money machine.
just think of it, a lady that can offer something as small as cooking in relationship and expects her bf to spend heavily on her, what can she be use for? Just mention something, then I will believe you
Re: That Awkward Moment When You Are Duped By Your Girlfriend! by Nobody: 2:41pm On Apr 22, 2016
latinoKingdom:
ordinary cooking must girls can't offer there so called bf, but expect him to spend heaven and earth on them

nawa o. shebi u said women are only meant to give sex to men? why should they know how to cook? grin can't u guys cook for yaselves. lmao.

on a serious note, I rest my case with u. byesmiley
Re: That Awkward Moment When You Are Duped By Your Girlfriend! by torqque7(m): 2:56pm On Apr 22, 2016
EroticAngelina:


torqque7 , come see example of such men.

back to u, why dont u ask ur mum that question smiley
Lol..you ehnn
Re: That Awkward Moment When You Are Duped By Your Girlfriend! by adeememman(m): 3:08pm On Apr 22, 2016
EroticAngelina:


nawa o. shebi u said women are only meant to give sex to men? why should they know how to cook? grin can't u guys cook for yaselves. lmao.

on a serious note, I rest my case with u. byesmiley
abeg dont go, i dey enjoy your drama. Both parties made reasonable points. The problem is that 'to find an intelligent, hardworkworking and at the same time beautiful is more difficult than buying fuel @ N86.50 '. Above all, not all girls are lazy, just that the goods can't be easily found in the common market.
Re: That Awkward Moment When You Are Duped By Your Girlfriend! by Nobody: 3:12pm On Apr 22, 2016
adeememman:
abeg dont go, i dey enjoy your drama. Both parties made reasonable points. The problem is that 'to find an intelligent, hardworkworking and at the same time beautiful is more difficult than buying fuel @ N86.50 '. Above all, not all girls are lazy, just that the goods can't be easily found in the common market.

well. true that. the same way intelligent, hardworking, handsome, faithful and men who respect women are hard to find.

both sides av bad eggs.

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