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I Need Your Advice ..please Read by biGPoppaSays(m): 10:30am On May 04, 2016
Please nairalanders I need advice on my relationship. I'm dating this girl I met last year late September and I love her so much, I gave her everything I have, I gave her attention, time and I spent money on her, but recently last month, she started some strange acts, she came to tell me that she's pregnant which I know I'm fully responsible because she comes to my house almost everyday, she's still under her parents tho. We loved each other so much.
To cut long story short she asked me money for abortion of the pregnancy which I declined and tell her I'm ready to be a responsible husband and father but she doesn't go with it not knowing she was not pregnant and was only fooling me to get money from me. Hmmm. She confessed and I forgave her but now she told me she's no longer interested in the relationship and that I should look for another girl elsewhere. I thought it was a joke at first but it became serious when she started repeating same speech, I felt as if the world has come to an end then I Started begging and crying that I still love her.
Now she gives me one condition that even if she'll continue the relationship that I'll have to give her the money she asked for.
Please advise me on what to do because I cannot afford to lose this girl. Thanks
Re: I Need Your Advice ..please Read by Nobody: 10:36am On May 04, 2016
When the relationship comes with a conditions, then it's not serious relationship, her love has a price undecided

U better let her go than keeping her & u suffer the most..these type of women are not worthy of ur love & money ...love someone who doesn't give u headache..
Re: I Need Your Advice ..please Read by crismark(m): 10:37am On May 04, 2016
end the relationship ASAP......
Re: I Need Your Advice ..please Read by nnadychuks(m): 10:40am On May 04, 2016
What's the moral lesson pls?
Re: I Need Your Advice ..please Read by MrCork: 10:47am On May 04, 2016
KashyBaby:
When the relationship comes with a conditions, then it's not serious relationship, her love has a price undecided

U better let her go than keeping her & u suffer the most..these type of women are not worthy of ur love & money ...love someone who doesn't give u headache..


....sinse when did u become relation ship expert?....u cheat on everyone on nairaland includin me and then u advise him to give her moiney??.....YOU SUCH A GOLD DIGGGGER.!!!((((SHAME))) undecided
Re: I Need Your Advice ..please Read by sinaj(f): 10:52am On May 04, 2016
Kashybaby has said it all.




U don't beg for love.



It's obvious she doesn't luv you.

Let her go else it's going to b a one sided relationship
Re: I Need Your Advice ..please Read by masterpix(m): 10:56am On May 04, 2016
Guy this is not love, it is call lust op you are in for long thing. Just dump her fucking ass and move on, she is not worth the condition
Re: I Need Your Advice ..please Read by Emodeee: 11:00am On May 04, 2016
sinaj:
Kashybaby has said it all.




U don't beg for love.



It's obvious she doesn't luv you.

Let her go else it's going to b a one sided relationship


I'm begging for your own love. Will you marry me?* in jason derulo's voice.*
Re: I Need Your Advice ..please Read by Nobody: 11:06am On May 04, 2016
Emodeee:



I'm begging for your own love. Will you marry me?* in jason derulo's voice.*


Sinaj...u have to face this man...asking ur hands for marriage.. grin
Re: I Need Your Advice ..please Read by sinaj(f): 11:10am On May 04, 2016
KashyBaby:



Sinaj...u have to face this man...asking ur hands for marriage.. grin
lmao!



Emodeee abeg I no one bcome 3rd wife jare!
Re: I Need Your Advice ..please Read by Emodeee: 11:14am On May 04, 2016
sinaj:
lmao!



Emodeee abeg I no one bcome 3rd wife jare!


Really! I'm single like entry. No other lady anywhere. You are my one and only. Seriously, if I have you, I don't need concubines because you gat it all. You know tha feature that almost all men craves for? You have it in abundancecheesy. I'm not judah, I won't betray you.
Re: I Need Your Advice ..please Read by Lsofdk(m): 11:26am On May 04, 2016
biGPoppaSays:
Please nairalanders I need advice on my relationship. I'm dating this girl I met last year late September and I love her so much, I gave her everything I have, I gave her attention, time and I spent money on her, but recently last month, she started some strange acts, she came to tell me that she's pregnant which I know I'm fully responsible because she comes to my house almost everyday, she's still under her parents tho. We loved each other so much.
To cut long story short she asked me money for abortion of the pregnancy which I declined and tell her I'm ready to be a responsible husband and father but she doesn't go with it not knowing she was not pregnant and was only fooling me to get money from me. Hmmm. She confessed and I forgave her but [size=16]now she told me she's no longer interested in the relationship and that I should look for another girl elsewhere.[/size] I thought it was a joke at first but it became serious when she started repeating same speech, I felt as if the world has come to an end then I Started begging and crying that I still love her.
[size=16]Now she gives me one condition that even if she'll continue the relationship that I'll have to give her the money she asked for.[/size]
[s]Please advise me on what to do because I cannot afford to lose this girl.[/s] Thanks
you will still go ahead to do what pleases you(your last sentence).
therefore i won't advice you, rather i would like you to read your story again paying attention to the highlighted, i hope you see the answers you seek
Re: I Need Your Advice ..please Read by sinaj(f): 11:29am On May 04, 2016
Emodeee:



Really! I'm single like entry. No other lady anywhere. You are my one and only. Seriously, if I have you, I don't need concubines because you gat it all. You know tha feature that almost all men craves for? You have it in abundancecheesy. I'm not judah, I won't betray you.
what feature biko grin
Re: I Need Your Advice ..please Read by Emodeee: 11:37am On May 04, 2016
sinaj:
what feature biko grin


What else? if not the fact that you are boobiliciouscheesy.
Re: I Need Your Advice ..please Read by SlimmB(m): 12:02pm On May 04, 2016
Dawg, you dey vex me seriously! You're human being though, and I understand you... But you gotta be a man now, since you've tried thy best too keep the relationship and she isn't turning up to the relationship, she will end up leaving you if you give her the money, I'm not saying she doesn't love you but her kind is manipulative, I don't create her neither did she create herself, you don't bring this situations upon yourself...
My advise: man up and let go, but if you accept her back after she comes begging and running after you, I go vex for you like wey'rey (mad)...
Re: I Need Your Advice ..please Read by obiorathesubtle: 12:21pm On May 04, 2016
*jamming*


A hunnid motherfucckerss can't tell me nu'in... A beezz in tha trap.. Bee beezz in the trap,,!!


Op.. Listen.. You gatta open your eyes and see the gold-digging biyatch you're trying to broke with.. Now tell me.. Would you rather eat dry bread or bread n peanut butter??..


undecided
Re: I Need Your Advice ..please Read by Nobody: 1:13pm On May 04, 2016
biGPoppaSays. My friend, the first stage of grief is denial, it's obvious that's the stage you're into right now.
The relationship has come to an ignominious end, forget the love you claim you have for her (I'm guessing she is ur first real date) and move forward. Count all ur investment in her as "bad losses ", gather whatever you have left and run very far from her without looking back, you have indeed dodged a bullet, though it nicked ur balls
Re: I Need Your Advice ..please Read by Nobody: 1:25pm On May 04, 2016
grin
Re: I Need Your Advice ..please Read by stancod(m): 1:26pm On May 04, 2016
Pls let her go 4 ur goodness sake
Re: I Need Your Advice ..please Read by GoldenJAT(m): 1:50pm On May 04, 2016
after I'm done advising you, and u refuse 2 adhere 2my piece of advice.... then God will punish you!!!! dating doesn't come with a condition, that girl has got her mind made up, and any further begging will only infuriate her..... what after you give her the money and she still insist on been alone swallow the pain, and take solace in the fact that you were a good lover. KARMA isn't dead. guide ur ego and pride jealously. you will be OK.

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